Zvemukati
- Kushamwaridzana uye kuroorana
- Nzira dzekuve dzepedyo
- 1. Kurudziranai
- 2. Sekai nemumwe
- 3. Open hurukuro
- 4. Regerera uye uregererwe
- Mamwe matipi ekuti ungagadzira sei hukama hwepedyo muwanano
Kuvaka kudanana mumuchato kuri nyore kutaura pane kuzviita, kunyanya kana wave nenguva wakaroora.
Kazhinji kazhinji kwete, varoorani vanosara vega kutarisana nekutya kwavo kwekuchinja kuva ‘vakura, vanofinha vakaroora vanhu’ uye izvo zvinoitika kune vakanakisa vedu. Munguva dzino, hausi kungobuda mukubata nerutsigiro rwepfungwa uye rwepabonde, asi zvakare, kana hupenyu hwako hwakatenderedzwa pasina vavariro, zvinogona kuve nemhedzisiro yakakomba pahutano hwako hwepfungwa.
Kushamwaridzana uye kuroorana
Semunhu akaroora, unofanirwa kuziva kuti kuvaka hukama hwepedyo muwanano hwaro hwehupenyu hunofadza uye hunogutsa. Vashoma vanoziva vanhu kuti kunyangwe zvidiki zviito zverudo nerudo zvinogona kushandura yako yewanano hupenyu hwakatendeuka!
Saka, nei kushamwaridzana kuchikosha muwanano?
Kugadzira kushamwaridzana uye kuremekedzana muwanano kunobatsira vaviri-kudzika-mukati mumatura avo erudo uye kukunda chero kusagutsikana mukati memuchato wako.
Nzira dzekuve dzepedyo
Zvepedyo muwanano zvinokurumidza kushandurwa muhukama hwepabonde, zvisinei, kana iwe uchitsvaga mhinduro chaiyo kumubvunzo, "sei kukudziridza kudanana?", Zvakakosha kunzwisisa nzira dzakasiyana dzehukama.
Kusangana pabonde kana pabonde muwanano kunokutendera kuti ubvise muviri wako, nezvose zvisina kukwana kuti ufadze mumwe wako. Nepo iri nguva yakavanzika yevakaroora, inopembererwa kuve chiito chekuzvipa kwakazara, kuvimba uye rudo.
Kushamwaridzana kwepamoyo kunokutendera kuti ugovane zvaunonzwa uye nemanzwiro mumwe nemumwe nenzira dzinoremekedza. Kushamwaridzana kwepamoyo kunokutendera kuti ugovane zvaunofunga pane zvemagariro, zvematongerwo enyika, kana zvechitendero uye kupedza nyota yeruzivo uye kufudza pfungwa dzako.
Kushamwaridzana pamweya kunokutendera iwe kuti uwane chinangwa uye nepfungwa yekubatana mukutenda kwako nekutenda. Zvakakosha zvakaenzana kudanana kwezvemari uko iwe unogovana kutaurirana kwakatendeseka nezve zvemari uye kutandara kwehukama zvinokushongedzera kunakidzwa kwezviitiko zvinonakidza pamwe chete.
Heano mana akasarudzika matipi ayo anogona kukubatsira iwe mukuvaka hukama hwepedyo muwanano zvakare
1. Kurudziranai
Ungave sei wepedyo? Iva wega hupenyu uye wega murairidzi wako wauchazomboda.
Vakurudzire panguva yakaoma uye bvuma kuedza kwavo kana vaita chimwe chinhu. Taura kuremekedza kwako mumwe wako uye saizvozvo, ivo vachakuremekedza iwe.
Varumbidze ivo vaviri, vari vega uye veruzhinji, uye vavakurudzire kuti vave munhu ari nani.
Paunenge uchiita zvese izvi muwanano yako, mumwe wako haafanire kutsvaga kune imwe nzvimbo kukurudzirwa.
2. Sekai nemumwe
Kuseka uye mufaro zvinotyaira kudanana muwanano uye ndiyo nzira dzakanakisa dzekuchengeta zvinhu nenzira yakajeka panguva yakaoma.
Kana zvinhu zvakakomba uye hwepedyo muwanano zvichitora kudzikira, usambofa wakarasa nguva yekugovana kuseka uye kurerutsa mamiriro. Dzidza kudzora hasha dzako uye kukurudzira wawakaroorana naye kuti aite zvimwechetezvo, sezvo kutsamwa isiri iyo mhinduro.
Rangarira kuti nemumwe wako padivi pako, unogona kuita chero chinhu sekureba uine pfungwa yakanaka uye iwe unogona kuseka nezvazvo, uchinakidzwa nekusingaperi kwehukama muwanano
3. Open hurukuro
Chipingamupinyi chikuru pakuvaka hukama hwepedyo muwanano mhinganidzo yekutaurirana. Izvo zvakakosha kuti uzive kana mumwe wako achifara kana neimwe nzira, uye zvakaenzana zvakakosha kutaura manzwiro aunoita uye zvaunofunga.Nekuvaka kutaurirana kwakasununguka uye kwechokwadi nemumwe wako, iwe zvakare unokwanisa kupindura, maitiro ekuita hukama neumwe wako uye kumutsidzira kuda muwanano yako.
Rangarira kuti hurukuro dzakavhurika idanho rekutanga kuvaka hukama hwepedyo muwanano. Wese munhu anokanganisa asi izvo zvinogadzira zvimwe nyaya; ndipo pavanenge vasina kubatwa navo nemazvo.
Matambudziko asina kugadziriswa uye kusanzwisisana ndiwo matanho ekutanga akananga kumuchato usina mufaro uyo ungazopedzisira watungamira kurambana.
Chengetedza nguva yakawanda muhurukuro dzakasununguka nemumwe wako, pane kukurukura nyaya idzi neshamwari uye nemhuri.
Mushure mezvose, ndiko kunetsekana kwako uye unofanirwa kuzvibata pachako.
4. Regerera uye uregererwe
Hapana hukama hwepedyo muwanano kubva kumurume kana mukadzi? Iva nekufunga nezvekusabatana nemumwe wako, sekushayikwa kwekugutsikana muhukama kunogona kutotungamira mukubiridzira kana chero dzimwe nzira dzekutadza muwanano.
Kuva unoregerera, uye usingaregedze bonde kuranga wawakaroorana naye kana kukunda kurwira masimba, kunogona kuita nzira yakareba mukuvaka hukama newawakaroorana naye.
Mumwe wako akapinda mune zvishuwo zvepabonde munguva yakapfuura anogona zvakare kunge achinyima bonde nekuda kwekutadza kuvhura bonde kune akakuvara waakaroorana naye.
Zvekugadzira hukama hwepedyo, zvakakosha kuratidza kutsamwa kana kurwadziwa nenzira ine hutano, uye kwete kushandisa bonde sechinhu chekutaurirana kana chombo. Kukudziridza kudanana muhukama kunova chikonzero chakarasika kana bonde rikashandiswa sechombo muhukama kugadzirisa mamaki, sezvo zvichizopedzisira zvaunza kuparara muhukama, kusasiya hukama hwepedyo muwanano.
Kuregerera wawakaroorana naye nekuda kwekukanganisa kwavo kwakapfuura hakuna kumbobvira kuri nyore asi inogara iri nhanho yakanaka yekutora, nekuda kwekuvakazve hukama hwepedyo muwanano.
Zviri nyore kugumbuka uye kugadzira kusawirirana muwanano, asi zvakaoma kwazvo kuzvigadzirisa.
Tarisa zvinhu kubva mumaonero emumwe wako uye edza kunzwisisa kuti sei ivo vakaita izvo zvavakaita, izvo zvakatungamira kune ino mamiriro. Kana iwe uchigona kuregerera mumwe wako pamhosho dzavakakanganisa, ivo vanozove vanodisa kukuregerera iwe kana iwe uchinge wakanganisa.
Mamwe matipi ekuti ungagadzira sei hukama hwepedyo muwanano
Aya matipi achakubatsira iwe kuwana mhinduro kumibvunzo, "maitiro ekuita zvakanyanya kusangana pamubhedha".
- Shake up the routine as monotony is the ultimate buzzkill for hwepedyo muwanano.
- Ita hurukuro yekutsamwira, hurukuro dzepedyo dzinokutendera kuti utaure nezvezvinhu zvinowedzera hukama pakati pevakaroorana.
- Isa pamwe chete "Kuti uite runyorwa rwekunakidza".
- Tsaurira "tech yemahara" nguva kune mumwe wako. Kunze kwekunge iwe urikuvavarira kutyaira wedge muhukama, kupomba iri yakaoma kwete-kwete. (Kubvuta mumwe wako uchifarira nharembozha)
- Verenga erotica kana kutamba mitambo inopisa yebonde pamwe chete.
- Rambai muchionana zvekare uye muchiburitsa zvimwe nekurega kuregedza uye muchiita kuzarurira kwakazara nemumwe wako.
Zvakare, semurume nemudzimai, chengetai mupfungwa yehukama hwehukama hwehukama. Zvinogona kusanganisira zvinhu zvakaita sekushandira pamwe chete, kunamata, kutora chiitiko sevanhu vaviri, kunyora tsamba dzerudo kana kuchinjana rudo rwakazadzwa, kukurukura nezvemari yemuchato, kutaurirana kune chinangwa kana kudzokerazve ndangariro dzinofadza pamwechete.
Kushatirwa, nyaya, uye kusanzwisisana hazvigone kukanganisa hupenyu hwako hwemuchato chete, asi zvakare zvinoshandura kuita zvemweya, zvebonde uye zvepfungwa nyaya dzekutsigira. Nekudaro, nekuomerera kune aya matipi, iwe unogona kutora matanho akakodzera ekuvaka kushamwaridzana mumuchato wako zvakare!