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- Wechokwadi narcissist - hunhu kusagadzikana
- Chii chinonzi narcissist mubereki?
- Kubatana-kurera narcissist zvinogoneka here?
- Nzira dzekubata narcissist mubereki mubereki
Kuve nemhuri yakakwana chimwe chinhu chatanga tichirota nezvacho. Nekudaro, panogona kuve nemamiriro mazhinji anogona kutungamira mhuri nenzira dzakasiyana uye nzira yakanakisa mukurera vana vako ndeyokubatana mubereki.
Iyi inzira yakanaka yekuti vese vabereki varambe vachirarama muhupenyu hwevana vavo vachigovana basa rekurera mwana.
Isu tese tinonzwisisa kukosha kwekuve nevabereki vaviri kurera mwana asi ko kana mubereki wako ari narcissist?
Kune dzimwe nzira dzakatoratidzwa dzekubata narcissist mubereki mubereki?
Wechokwadi narcissist - hunhu kusagadzikana
Isu tanzwa izwi rekuti narcissist kakawanda uye kazhinji, riri kushandiswa kune vanhu vasina maturo kana zvakanyanya kuzvibata. Inogona kunge yakafararira nedzimwe dzetsika diki dzemunyengeri asi hachisi icho chinonyatsoreva izwi iri.
Narcissist chaiye ari kure nekungova asina maturo kana kuzvibata, asi iye munhu ane hunhu hunhu uye anofanirwa kurapwa saizvozvi. Vanhu vanoonekwa kuti vane Narcissistic Personality Disorder kana NPD ndeavo vanhu vanoshandisa kwavo kwezuva nezuva kurarama nekushandisa nzira dzekunyepera, manyepo, uye hunyengeri.
Havagone kuchengetedza hukama hwepedyo nevakaroora uye kunyangwe vana vavo nekuda kwekunyengera kwavo, kunyepa, kusava netsitsi, uye kwavo kuita kwekushusha.
Nehurombo, havazi vese vanhu vanogona kuongororwa vane chirwere ichi nekuti vanogona kuvhara zviratidzo zvavo nenyika yekunze. Zvinosuruvarisa, ndidzo shamwari dzepedyo uye mhuri vanoziva izvi uye vanozoona kukuvadza kuri kuita narcissists.
Chii chinonzi narcissist mubereki?
Icho chaicho chiri chinetso kubata newa narcissist mudiwa asi chii chaungaite kana iwe uchitova nevana? Pane nzira here dzekubata narcissist mubereki mubereki? Zvinoita here kuti vagare muhukama nevana vavo zvisinei nehunhu hwavo?
Mubereki anonyengedza mumwe munhu anoona vana vake semapipi kana kunyangwe semakwikwi.
Ivo havazovatenderi kuti vapfuure danho ravo rekuzvikwanisa uye vanozovatadzisa moyo nekusimudzira kwavo. Chavanonyanya kukoshesa ndechekuti ivo vakuru sei uye kuti vanogona sei kutora kutariswa kwese kunyangwe zvichikonzera kuti mhuri itambure.
Imwe yemamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa iwe aungatombo pinda mairi kuona kuti murume / mukadzi wako inyanzvi.
Ungaita sei kuti ubvumire vana vako kurerwa nemunhu ane hunhu hunhu? Sarudzo dzinorema zvakanyanya neiyi mamiriro. Kazhinji kazhinji kwete, mubereki anga achiri kusarudza kubvumidza kubatana-mubereki achitarisira kuti pane mukana wekuti mumwe wavo anonyengerera achachinja.
Kubatana-kurera narcissist zvinogoneka here?
Izvo zvakakosha kwazvo kuti mune chero mhando yehukama hwatinahwo, isu tinofanirwa kudzidza kuziva iyo tsvuku mireza kunyanya kana ura hwako hwukuudza iwe kuti chimwe chinhu hachina kujairika.
Izvo zvakasiyana kana isu tichiedza kugadzirisa hukama hwedu nevakaroora vedu asi kubata navo sevabereki-vabati iri nhanho nyowani nyowani. Hakuna mubereki anoda kuti vana vake vakure vaine nharaunda inoshungurudza ndoda kurega kugona kufunga kwakafanana nemubereki wavo anonyara.
Kana chero mubereki wemubereki akasarudza kugara, kuchine zvimwe zvinhu zvekutarisa nekuti mutoro wekuita mubereki-mubereki kushanda unenge uri mutoro mukuru.
- Wakambofunga nezvenzira dzaungabatsire nadzo vana vako kuti vanzwe kudiwa uye kukosheswa kunyangwe mubereki wako waasina kubatira pamwe?
- Ndeipi nguva yakakodzera yekutsanangurira kwavo kusagadzikana kwemubereki hunhu kusagadzikana kwavari?
- Ndedzipi nzira dzaungashandisa kukubatsira mukubata narcissistic mubereki mubereki?
- Kune dzimwe nzira here dzekuzvidzivirira iwe nevana vako neako mubereki mubereki's narcissistic kurwisa?
- Inguva yakareba sei iwe yaunobatirira pane iyi setup?
- Uri kuita chinhu chakakodzera here mukubvumira munhu anonyunyuta kuve chikamu chehupenyu hwemwana wako?
Nzira dzekubata narcissist mubereki mubereki
Tinoda rubatsiro rwese rwatingawane kana tikasarudza kuramba tiri muhukama hwerudzi urwu.
Iwe unofanirwa kuzvirovedza kuti uve unokwanisa kubata nemubereki wako-mubereki.
- Iva nesimba uye uwane rubatsiro rwese rwaunoda. Tsvaga kurairwa kwako kuitira kuti ugone kuwana rutsigiro kubva kune mumwe munhu ane ruzivo mukubata nemhando idzi dzehunhu hunhu. Usaedze kutora wako-mubereki kuti aende newe - hazvishande.
- Usambofa wakavatendera kufurira vamwe vanhu kuti uite kuti unzwe uine mhosva kana kuvaratidza kuti ndiwe une dambudziko.
- Gadza muenzaniso uye dzidzisa vana vako nezve kuzvichengeta-kwete kwete panyama chete asiwo nepfungwa nemanzwiro. Hazvina mhosva kuti vabereki vavo vanovaudza chii, iwe uripo kuti zviite zvese zviri nani.
- Usaratidze kunetseka kwako nemubereki wako. Ivo vanonyatsocherechedza, kana vachigona kuwana chero kushaya simba kubva kwauri - vanozoishandisa. Iva unofinha uye uve kure.
- Usasununguka navo zvakare. Ingo pindura mibvunzo nezve mwana wako uye usarega maitiro ekunyengera achiuya kwauri.
- Kana mubereki wako anonyudza anoshandisa mwana wako kukuita kuti unzwe uine mhosva nezvemhuri yako - usairege ichisvika kwauri.
- Ratidza kuti une masimba pamusoro pemamiriro acho ezvinhu. Namatira kune ekushanyira maratidziro, usarega mubereki wako-wekuraira achikutaurira kana kutaura iwe kuti utendere kune zvaari kuda.
- Pazera diki, edza imwe nzira yekuti ungatsanangure sei kuvana vako mamiriro acho uye maitiro avanogona kubata zviitiko zvavo pachavo nemubereki wavo anonyengera.
Kurera mwana hakumbofi kwakareruka, chii chimwe kana iwe uri co-kuberekana nemunhu anotambura neNPD?
Hazvina kumbobvira zviri nyore kubata narcissist mubereki-mubereki, ndoda kuvarega vachienderera mberi kuva chikamu chehupenyu hwevana vako.
Zvinotora danho rose rekuzvishingisa, moyo murefu, uye kunzwisisa kuti ugone kudzidzira zvakafanana kuva mubereki nemumwe munhu ane hunhu kusagadzikana. Chero angave mamiriro ezvinhu, chero bedzi iwe uchiona kuti mwana wako ari kuita mushe saka iwe urikuita rakakura basa!