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Zvemukati
- Hama nehanzvadzi itsva
- Wokurera anoramba yavo nyowani nhanho mubereki
- Mwana wekurera anoramba kuregedza mubereki wavo chaiye
- Iwe uchafanirwa kuita sarudzo
- Usavhiringidze kukakavara kwemhuri kwakaenzana nematambudziko emhuri akasanganiswa
Iko kusimba kwemhuri kwevakangoroora vaviri vane vana vokurera zvakasiyana zvakanyanya kubva patsika dudziro yevakangochata. Vana vokurera kunyanya vakapfuura mwana uye vasati vava zera rechikoro chepamusoro vanozowana mamiriro acho achivhiringidza.
Vakuru vanoroora mukadzi ane vana, zviri pachena vanoziva zvavari kuita. Zvirinani tinotarisira kuti vanoita. Vana, kunyanya vana vadiki, havanyatsonzwisisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Izvo zvinogona kuomesa zvinhu.
Heano matambudziko anowanzoitika evana vekurera uye nemabatiro aungaita navo kuti vajairane nawo
Hama nehanzvadzi itsva
Vana vane hama nehanzvadzi itsva chipo.
Asi nekukasira kuve nehama dzekurera kunogona kuuya sekuvhunduka kwavari. Kunze kwekunge ivo vakapedza nguva yakawanda vari pamwe chete vaviri vacho vachiri kufambidzana, usashamiswe kana mumwe kana vese vehama dzekurera vakaramba mumwe.
Izvi hazviwanzo kuitika, kunyanya kana vana vakapedza nguva mumwe nemumwe vaviri ava vachiri kufambidzana. Asi sezvo iwe uri pano, iwe pamwe uri kutarisira kana uri kusangana neumwe mugumo wetsvimbo.
Vana chete vevabereki vasina murume vakajaira kuve nehanya zvizere nemubereki wavo. Ivo havana kujaira kugovana chero chinhu nemunhu. Zvese kubva kuchikafu, matoyi, kumubereki chaiko, zvinonzwisisika kuti vachanzwa ruvengo kune chero munhu anongoerekana aine kodzero kune izvo mwana anozvitora senyika yavo yese.
Vabereki vaviri, kunyanya vemuzvarirwo vanofanirwa kusimba mukudzidzisa vana kunaka kwekugovana. Mushure mezvose, icho chidzidzo chehupenyu chavangangoda kudzidza kwete nekuda kwevekwavo nhanho-hama, asi ivo pachavo, sezvavanobuda vachienda munyika.
Kugovana, kushivirira, uye kushivirira nevamwe hunhu hunodiwa nevanhu kunyangwe vazove vakuru. Ino inguva yakanaka sechero ipi, yekudzidzisa nekuishandisa.
Wokurera anoramba yavo nyowani nhanho mubereki
Iyi inyaya yakaoma, uye mabatirwo ayo zvinoenderana nezera uye chikonzero chemwana. Kunge fivha, ichi chinhu chinofanirwa kubvumidzwa kumhanyisa kosi yacho uye kuva nemoyo murefu uchidzikisa zviratidzo.
Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda zvinoita kuti mwana arambe mubereki wekurera. Mazhinji acho haagadzirisike kana kunyanyisa kushanda kuti agadziriswe nemazvo. Mimwe mienzaniso ndeiyi:
- Vanoda kuti vabereki vavo chaivo vadzokerane
- Ivo vane ruvengo rusina kufanira rwakafanira pamusoro pomubereki wokurera
- Ivo havadi kugovana (kunyanya yekurara) nababa vokurera
- Godo
- Ivo vari kufara neiyo status quo uye uyu "munhu" ari kuiparadza
Kupiwa iyi mienzaniso pamusoro, hapana mashiripiti piritsi anogona kugadzirisa chero eaya matambudziko anotendwa nemwana kuti nei vachiramba mubereki wekurera. Kana iwe ukafunga chete nezvemaonero emwana - inova ndiyo nzira yekufunga kwavo vazhinji, saka izvo zvese zvikonzero zvinonzwisisika uye zvine musoro, kunyangwe zvichiratidzika kunge zvisina kunaka.
Mukuona kwevakuru, zvese izvi zvinoreva kuti mwana anofanira kujairana nezvido zvako zvoudyire. Mushure mezvose, kana mwana akaramba baba vokurera uye iwe ukaenderera mberi ukavaroora zvakadaro, chii chimwe chatingaidza icho kunze kwekuda kwekuda.
Nekuti ivo vanhu vakuru ndivo vakasarudza kugadzira mamiriro anopesana akadaro, zviri kune vaviri kuti vave nemoyo murefu uye kukunda izvo zvisizvo nekufamba kwenguva. Usanyanyisa kubhadhara kunze kwekuzvipa mhosva. Ingo bata mwana sekuita kwaungaite kwako, uye nekufamba kwenguva, vana vanozochinja pfungwa. Ndinovimba.
Mwana wekurera anoramba kuregedza mubereki wavo chaiye
Zviri nyore kuti uzive kana ichi chiri chikonzero chematambudziko evana vako vekurera. Iwe uchanzwa "mukombe wemubereki wangu wekubereka uri nani pane wako" zvakanyanya. Kana iri ndiro dambudziko riri pakati pako nemwana wako wekurera, zvinogona kuratidza nenzira dzakasiyana.
- Kuramba kudya chikafu chawakagadzirira
- Haiteerere kune chero rairo rako kana kurairwa
- Anokuregeredza
- Anogara achida kuenda kune mumwe wavo mubereki
- Kuodzwa mwoyo kana vachifanira kudzokera kumusha
Usarerutse hukama pakati pemubereki chaiye nemwana.
Paive nenyaya yekuti mwana akakurira mumba memubereki, aivabhadharira fundo, uye mwana aigara pamba kusvika vave kuda kuroora. Mubereki wekurera akaramba asingakoshese iyo nguva yese. Ivo "chaiye" baba vaifanira kungooneka kamwe chete mumwedzi webhuruu uye mwana akaonga kuvepo kwababa chaiko. Nyaya yakazopera sekuru varamba kubhadhara mari yemuchato ndokudzinga munhu wese. Nyaya yechokwadi.
Iwe uchafanirwa kuita sarudzo
Kana pasina ruvengo pakati pemudiwa wako mutsva newawakambodanana naye uye mwana anoramba "akavimbika" kumubereki wavo "chaiye", saka uchafanirwa kuita sarudzo.
Iwe unofunga kuti hukama hwako hwazvino hwakakosha kumedza kudada kwako uye kushamwaridzana pane, kana iwe uri kuda kutara mutsetse kumwe kunjodzi yekuparadzanisa mhuri yako nyowani? Sarudzo mbiri idzi dzakanaka, inguva chete inotaura kana iwe waita sarudzo kwayo.
Pakupedzisira, vana vokurera vangori vana. Vachaita sevana, kufunga sevana, uye kuita sevana. Semunhu mukuru, zviri kwauri kuti ushande, uye shanda nesimba pamhuri iyo iwe yawakasarudza kugadzira. Izvi zvinosanganisira vese vana vekurera uye kusanganisira wawakaroorana naye, ex wako, uye hama.
Vana vane udyire uye havazive zvirinani, vanhu vakuru havana chikonzero, zvinosuwisa, kunyange vakuru vane tarisiro dzisiri dzechokwadi dzemhuri dzakabatana.
Usavhiringidze kukakavara kwemhuri kwakaenzana nematambudziko emhuri akasanganiswa
Iko kune kurairwa kunowanikwa kune akasangana matambudziko emhuri. Matambudziko mazhinji emhuri akasangana anoenda mushure mekona yekushivirira uye yakawanda rudo kubva kune vaviri vacho kusvikira vana vagamuchira mhuri nyowani seyavo. Ita shuwa kuti hausi kuvhiringidza kwese kukakavara kwemhuri nematambudziko emhuri akasanganiswa. Kuva nenyaya nevana kunoitika kunyangwe mumhuri dzechinyakare.
Kana iwe nemudiwa wako mutsva mukava nemwana wako wega, zvinozovhura gaba rose rehonye uye kutangazve matambudziko zvakare. Kana icho chingave chiri chipo izvozvi kuti yako yakasanganiswa mhuri ine yakajairika yeropa hama uye inounza munhu wese pamwechete. Iyo inyaya yerombo uye hunhu hwevana vako vekurera. Zvisinei, mhuri dzese, dzakasanganiswa kana neimwe nzira dzinofamba nemigwagwa ine matombo.
Kuva nezvinetso zvevana vokurera zvinongoreva kuti mhuri yako yakatanga netsoka isiriyo. Zviri kwauri iwe nemumwe wako kuti muve nechokwadi chekuti zvese zviri nani kubva ipapo.