Zvemukati
- Izvo zvazviri kuita kuve murefu hukama hukama
- Zvinoshanda sei kune vakaroorana vanogara vari vese?
- Kugara mupfungwa nemumoyo zvinoreva kugara muhupenyu
- Nei Kureba uye Kusavapo kuchikosha?
- Kutaurirana kunobatsira sei uchiri kure?
- Uraya Kusachengeteka
- Kureba hakuregedze, zvinongo zorodza
Iwe uri mumwe munhu ari muhukama hwakareba-kure?
Uye hukama hwakaratidza kuva hwakasimba uye hwakareba kupfuura zvawaitarisira?
Asi iwe haugone kubatsira asi kushamisika kuti icharamba ichirarama kwenguva yakareba sei?
Uye iwe hausi kunyatsoshuvira here kuti imi vaviri pakupedzisira mugone kugara pamwe chete uye kubvisa izvi zvisingawanzo kuitika?
Iwe uri pane imwe nzvimbo paunovenga daro refu rinomira rakaomarara pakati pako iwewe?
Uye kana imi vaviri mave kuda kusangana zvakare, munotya zvakanyanya here iyo foni kana meseji ichiti kugara kwake kunogona kutora nguva yakati rebei?
Iwe unozvibvunza iwe pachako kazhinji kuti zviripo here, kana iwe ukaona vaviri ava vakatandara pamwechete, vachiseka uye vachitaura zvisingagumi, iwe uchiramba uchidongorera mune yako mbozhanhare skrini, wakamirira meseji kuti ibude kubva kwaari?
Uye nepo hwatova hukama hwehurefu, unonzwa sei usina chinhu uye zvisina basa kana paine nguva dzekusavapo dzimwe nguva uye iwe usingakwanise kusvika kwaari kuburikidza neInternet-based mameseji uye kufonera maApplication, zvakadaro uchiri kubhadhara iwo ese emwedzi mafoni maserura.
Izvo zvazviri kuita kuve murefu hukama hukama
Zvakanaka, ndinogona kunyatsoenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu auri kutarisana nawo nekuti, pasina chikonzero chekutaura, ini ndaive mune imwe futi. Murume wangu aimbova Marine uye akapedza makore ari muhondo mu Afuganisitani. Hatina kukwanisa kutaura kune mumwe nemumwe kwenguva yakareba mukati memakore maviri iwayo, iyo yakazotambanudzira kune mamwe makore maviri.
Zvino pandinotora rwendo ndichidzika nemurangaridzo, ini ndinonyemwerera ndichifunga kuti makore ese iwayo akaswededza moyo yedu nekusimbisa hukama hwedu. Tainyanya kukoshesa kuzvipira kweumwe neumwe uye tairemekedza manzwiro emumwe nemumwe.
Izvozvi zvandinodzidzira semupi wezano kune vakaroorana vari kunetseka muhukama hurefu hwehukama, ndakaona nguva yadarika kuti daro iri rinongokonzeresa sei kuti vanhu vave padhuze nekusunga sevamwe vari nani.
Ngaticherei zvakadzama kuti sei muhukama hwerefu-kure, kusavapo kunosimbisa chisungo chaunogovana.
Zvinoshanda sei kune vakaroorana vanogara vari vese?
Kana iwe uri kunetseka muhukama hwakareba uye iwe uchifunga 'kureba' sebhonzo rekukakavara uye mudzi wedambudziko rega rega muhupenyu hwako, saka rega ndikujekesere nechiyero chechokwadi.
Vakaroorana vanogara pamwe chete uye vasati vamboona chinhambwe nekusavapo (kuti mungachiva zuva rega rega kana muchimuka pamwe) havasi vafaro vakaroorana kazhinji.
Kunyangwe ivo vari pamwechete mushure mekusangana kwakanyanya kwemanzwiro uye manzwiro kune mumwe nemumwe, mazhinji acho anokundikana kuchengeta kukwezva kusingadzivisike kwavakatanga kunzwa kuburikidza nemakore.
Sezvo ini ndichipawo kuraira kune vakaroorana vane matambudziko asingafadzi, vachitambura kuti vachengetedze hukama hwavo hwakasimba, rega ini ndikuudze kuti vazhinji vevakaroora vanogunun'una nezvekushaya kubatikana, kutarisisa, uye kukwezva.
Vakadzi vazhinji uye kunyangwe varume vanogunun'una nekutorwa sevasina basa uye kuti zvinhu zvakafamba sei kuti zvisave kusvika pane zvavaitarisira.
Saka, hazvisi zvinoita zvinoita kunge kune vevakaroorana vari pamwe chete.
Hapana chimwe chezve zvichemo zvambotaurwa chinoiswa nemumwe munhu ari muhukama hwakareba-kure. Asi, ivo vanoshuvira kuve padivi remumwe uye nekudaro danho rekubatanidzwa uye kukwezva kunogara kwakakwira.
Kugara mupfungwa nemumoyo zvinoreva kugara muhupenyu
Hukama ndezve nezve kubatanidzwa uye nemanzwiro ayo vaviri vanogovana. Kana munguva pfupi yapfuura, iwe wakanyanyisa kufunga nezvekuti vamwe varoorani vari kutandara pamwe chete, vachiratidzira rudo rwavo uye vachitaridzika vese vachifara uye vachigutsikana, iwe unofanirwa kuziva kuti handiro daro rinoita kuti manzwiro apere.
Nekudaro, kunyangwe hukama hwako ihwo hwaive hwakareba-kure kubva pakutanga kana hwaive hukama hwenguva refu uhwo hwakazove hukama hwerefu nekuda kwekumwe kuzvipira, ingo ziva kuti ndiyo chinhambwe chaizvo chiri kukuchengeta wakasimba uye ese iwo manzwiro aunazvo kune mumwe nemumwe akango wedzerwa kuburikidza neichi chinhambwe.
Zvibvunze. Iwe hautore goosebumps kana iwe uchifunga nezve kusangana naye zvakare? Izvi zvinoratidza kusimba kwehukama hwako.
Nei Kureba uye Kusavapo kuchikosha?
Kana manzwiro akasimba uye aine simba, moyo uri padyo, madaro enzvimbo haana basa!
Uye aya mashandiro ainoita.
Kure uye kusavapo batsira iwe kuongorora zvakanyanya nezvehukama hwako. Zvinoita kuti uzive zvinoitwa nemumwe wako uye nerudo rwamunarwo mese. Zvinoita kuti unzwisise zvinhu zvirinani. Zvinoita kuti ushuve kuvapo kweumwe neumwe zvekuti kugara pamwe kwenguva dzisingaperi hakuite kuti unzwe.
Paunenge uri kure uye usina kubatana, zvinoita sekunge muyedzo wekusimba kwako, kutendeka, uye kuzvipira uye unoona kukosha kwezvinhu izvi zvese zviri muhukama.
Kutaurirana kunobatsira sei uchiri kure?
Kutaurirana pamusoro peInternet kana runhare kunobatsira chaizvo apo hukama hwacho huri kure, uye kunyanya mushure meizvozvo kusavapo nguva nenguva.
Nemabhaisikopo kutumira mameseji uye kufonera maapplication uye zvivakwa senge vhidhiyo yekufona yaita kuti kugara kwakabatana kuve nyore.
Paunosvika pakuona mumwe wako pane yako gadget skrini, ese manzwiro uye manzwiro anomutswa uye unonzwa padhuze padhuze. Zvakare, rudo runoramba rwuchimutsiridzwa nekutaurirana kwenguva dzose.
Uraya Kusachengeteka
Regedza kunetsekana nezvehukama hwako hwerurefu uye dzivisa pfungwa dzese nezve kubiridzirwa kana kusava nechokwadi kwakadaro. Kusachengeteka kunogara kuchiuya kana chimwe chinhu chiri kushomeka maererano nezvinhu zvekutanga muhukama hwako, senge rudo, kuzvipira, kukwezva, kutendeka uye zvichingodaro.
Haisati iri daro zvakadaro. Tarisa pane hunhu uye kuzvipira kwawakaitirwa nemumwe wako. Uye zvakare, kunzwa kusagadzikana kunongoitika.
Kureba hakuregedze, zvinongo zorodza
Kureba kunoita kuti iwe udananezve zvekare. Iwe unonyatsoziva kuti iwe mumwe wako ane basa newe zvakadii iwe. Uye hongu, iwe unova uno gadzira muhupenyu hwako hwerudo nekuda kwedaro rawakawana.
Nekudaro, chingopemberera kusavapo uku sevatangi vane simba rerudo uye kubatana. Kukuda iwe hupenyu-hurefu hukama!