Zvemukati
- Kushamwaridzana mumuchato wechiKristu
- 1. Taura chishuwo chako chehukama hwepedyo
- 2. Bvumiranai se “nyama imwe”
- 3. Tsvaga zano revaKristu
- 4. Ita nguva yehukama hwepedyo
- 5. Tevera ushamwari hwepedyo pakunamata
Saka kudanana muwanano kudanana muwanano chii? Mufungo wekutanga unoitwa nevakaroora ndeyekuti kudanana mumuchato kunozouya zvega uye rudo rwavo ruchakwanira kusimudzira hukama ihwohwo.
Kudanana muwanano chiitiko chinobatsira vakaroorana kugutsa zvavanoda panyama, pamoyo, uye kunyangwe pamweya. Kushamwaridzana kunotendera vanhu kuve vanotambura uye kugadzikana vakatenderedza mudiwa wavo zvisinei.
Hukuru hwenyaya idzo dzakatarisana nechero murume nemukadzi muwanano yavo ndedzekuti ivo havakwanise kuzadzisa zvido zvavo zvepedyo nezvavanoda. Kana ikasatariswa nenguva yakafanira nyaya dzakadai dzinogona kukura uye pakupedzisira chichava chikonzero nei imba inogona kuparara.
Kushamwaridzana mumuchato wechiKristu
Kazhinji, vanhu vane fungidziro yekuti Vakaroorana vechiKristu vari kufinha mubhedhuru. Pfungwa yacho inogona kunge iri yekuti kuzvipira kwavo kuna Mwari hakuvatenderi kuzadzikisa imwe neimwe yavanoda yehukama hwepedyo. Nekudaro, vaviri vechiKristu vakaroora, sevamwe varoorani vanokoshesa kudanana nekusimba mukamuri yekurara.
Kuita bonde kwakagadzirwa naMwari uye chishuwo chako chehukama hwepedyo hachisi "chisina kuchena". Kuroora inzvimbo yakatsveneswa naMwari uye zvese zvewanano zvakakosha kwaari.
Asi sechimwe chinhu chiri chose muwanano, kudanana kunotora nhamburiko uye kune vakaroorana vechiKristu nzira yekusimudzira nayo kudanana kunodzidziswa nekutenda kwavo neBhaibheri.
Saizvozvo, senge chero roorano, vaviri vari muwanano yechiKristu vanogona kuvawana vari pamharadzano apo pavasingakwanise kunzwisisa maitiro ekubata nenyaya dzehukama muwanano yavo. Hezvino zvinhu zvishanu izvo vaviri vanogona kuita kuti vawedzere kudanana mumuchato wavo wechiKristu.
1. Taura chishuwo chako chehukama hwepedyo
Vakaroorana kazhinji havataure nezvehukama, zvepabonde kana bonde mumuchato wechiKristu. Kushaikwa kwekutaurirana kunoguma zviri nyore mune zvisati zvatariswa uye nguva yemaawa isina kuzadziswa tarisiro maererano nehukama hwepedyo inogona kukonzera kusagadzikana nekukonana.
Munhu mumwe nemumwe ari muwanano anogona kunge aine tarisiro dzakasiyana uye pfungwa dzekuti kudanana kunofanira kutaridzika sei uye kana pasina hukama hwepedyo, tsika yemuchato wechiKristu inogona kukanganiswa zvakanyanya.
Usataure nekushungurudzika kana kutsamwa, asi panzvimbo pezvo murudo rwechiKristu. Taura nemumwe wako nezve mawaniro aangasimudzira hukama hwepedyo uye hwepamoyo muwanano.
2. Bvumiranai se “nyama imwe”
Bhaibheri rinoona murume nemukadzi vechiKristu senyama imwe. Vabatsiri vanozosiyana nguva nenguva padanho kana mhando yehukama huchaitwa mumuchato.
Zvakakosha kuti kana mumwe nemumwe wako achinge ataura chishuwo chavo, kuti pamwe chete iwe newawakaroorana mungawirirane nezvekuti mungasimudzire sei hukama hwepedyo muhukama.
Vamwe Vakaroorana vechiKristu tenda kuti Mwari havasi kuwirirana nezvimwe zviitiko zvehukama, nepo vamwe vachigovana maonero ekuti muwanano nekubvumirana pakati pevakaroorana, zviitiko zvese zvehukama zvinoenderana nehupenyu hwechiKristu.
Kana muri pamwechete muchiona zvichinetsa kubvumirana sechikwata, muchifunga zvekunamata uye / kana kutsvaga kurairwa nenhengo yehutungamiriri hwekereke yenyu.
3. Tsvaga zano revaKristu
Imba yechiKristu kushamwaridzanamazano zvinogona kusanyatso kujeka kune vaviri vaviri vaviri kana kune vaviri vacho vari kuda kuwedzera iko kwehukama. Mibvunzo kubva kune vaviri kuti ndeipi nzira yekuenda nehukama hwepedyo uye kana zvishuwo zvemumwe nemumwe zvinoenderana nekuda kwaMwari zvinonzwisiswa zvakanyanya nemumwe munhu ari mukutenda kwechiKristu.
Kuwana nhungamiro kubva kunhengo yehutungamiriri hwechechi yako yechiKristu kunogona kutungamira vaviri vevaKristu vakaroora vari kutsvaga kusimudzira hukama hwavo vasingakanganise kutenda kwavo. Iri rairo rechiKristu richabatsira vese murume nemukadzi mukuzadzisa tarisiro yehukama yewavakaroorana naye.
4. Ita nguva yehukama hwepedyo
Hupenyu hunogona kubatikana nemabasa ezuva nezuva. Kushamwaridzana kunoda nguva, kutariswa uye moyo murefu. Mushure mekutaurirana zvishuwo zvako, muchibvumirana pane zvichaitwa nekutsvaga rairo yechiKristu, ndiyo nguva yekuita basa.
Zvakakosha kuti iwe newawakaroorana naye chengetai nguva ine chinangwa chekutaura kusangana panyama nemuviri; kuda uku kunatsiridza imba yako yechiKristu.
5. Tevera ushamwari hwepedyo pakunamata
Kushamwaridzana pamweya mumuchato wechiKristu kwakakosha nekuti kunodzidzisa vaviri kukoshesa, kupira, kuvimba mumwe nemumwe nekushandisa simba ravo mukuita kuda kwaMwari pamwe chete uye semunhu mumwe nemumwe.
Chero mukristu akaroora kana kuroorwa anokwanisa kusvika padyo pamweya nekuzvibatanidza pamwe nekuwana pfungwa yekuzvipira kunechinangwa chaMwari, vachiremekedzana.
Imba yechiKristu kushamwaridzananyaya inyaya dzehukama mune chero roorano dzinowanzoitika kana vanhu vasingakwanise kuwana izvo zvavanoshuvira pamoyo wavo. Kushamwaridzana pamweya kunodzidzisa kuti mumuchato wechiKristu kana chero wanano yechinhu ichocho, munhu anofanira kuremekedza uye kuyedza kusakanganisa vavakaroorana navo zviroto nezvishuwo.
Mukuda kwako kuwedzera kudanana mumuchato wako wechiKristu, yeuka kuti vese varume nemadzimai vanoda kufambidzana uye kuti panogara paine mukana wekuita zvimwe kusimudzira hushamwari muwanano yenyu.