Zvemukati
- Mumwe wako ndeye narcissist? Ongororo ya major hunhu
- 1. Pfungwa yekukwirira
- 2. Chido chakazara chekuda kutariswa
- 3. Rule kutyora
- 4. Kutaurirana kunokanganisa
- 5. Mifananidzo yenhema inoratidzira
- 6. Charmer
- Hunhu hudiki
Muchato waiitirwa kuti unzwe wakachengeteka uye uchidiwa wave kuita kuti unzwe kushaya simba, kushungurudzwa uye kushushikana. Kunyangwe iwe uchiratidza rudo rwakadii kune mumwe wako, zvinogara zvichitaridzika kunge zvishoma pamberi pezvavanogamuchira zvisingatenderwe zvavanotarisira uye zvavanotarisira. Kugara narcissist kunonetsa uye kunoparadza.
Munguva yezvinetso zvekuroora zvisina kujairika, iwe unorasikirwa nehushingi hwokutarisana nevanhu uye hushingi hwekugovana maonero ako. Iwe unotanga kubvunza kuvapo kwako uye kupedza husiku uchishamisika kuti chii chakakanganisika. Tsananguro dzako dzese dzinoshanda uye dzinonzwisisika dzinoita sedzinowira panzeve kana iri yemumwe wezvekurara naye.
Narcissist munhu anorwara nepfungwa; vanoratidza kusagadzikana kwehunhu uye vanozvida zvakanyanya. Vanofarira kushamwaridzana neavo vanovarumbidza kana zvakanaka nezvakaipa uye vanogara vachimisa nhaurwa kumusoro wenyaya, wavanoona wakakosha.
Mukubata pachena, vanodzivisa vanhu kusawirirana nemaonero avo sezvavanofunga kuti maonero avo ndiwo akakwana uye ari pamutemo.
Iyo narcissist hukama hwehukama hunonyengedza kunge maze. Havatombobata vavakaroorana navo zvakaenzana. Ivo havatombovapa iyo yemagariro kana yemunhu rusununguko. Vanoda kumhan'arirwa pachiito chega chega. Vanoda kuti vamwe vavo vatevedze zvavakarairwa uye vaite zvinhu zvavanokumbira kwavari.
Mumwe wako ndeye narcissist? Ongororo ya major hunhu
Kana iwe wakasungwa muhukama hwakaoma, uye iwe uri kushamisika kuti mumwe wako inyanzvi kana kwete iwe unofanirwa kuenda kuburikidza nehunhu hunhu hunhu huripo mune narcissist, sezvakapfupikiswa pazasi.
1. Pfungwa yekukwirira
Narcissist anotenda kugara pakati pemativi maviri angave akanaka kana akaipa, ari pamusoro kana akaderera; hapana nzira yepakati yekutonga munhu.
Vanongozvivimba uye vanoedza kuita zvinhu vega- sezvo ivo vega vanogona kupedzisa basa zvakakwana.
Kana narcissist akashatirwa, akakuvara kana kutsamwa vanonzwa kodzero yekurwadzisa vamwe vavo mukudzoka chero padanho. Ivo vanofunga kuburitsa mweya yavo zvakanyanya kukosha pane kufunga nezve manzwiro emunhu ari kumberi.
2. Chido chakazara chekuda kutariswa
Narcissist haagoni kurarama asina kuwana tarisiro yavanoshuvira. Kana ivo vari muhukama hwerudo, ivo vachagara kuti vabatwe senzvimbo yepadenga.
Ivo vachashuvira kubikwa, kurerwa uye kutarisirwa uye ivo havanzwe vachisungirwa kuti vaite chero chinhu mukudzoka.
Kechipiri, zvibvumirano zvako zvese zvinodzikira mukudonha sezvo shamwari yako yenarcissist ichatarisa iyo yevamwe nzira yakakosha uye inobatsira kupfuura yako.
Chero chauchataura chinowira panzeve. Ivo vanozoita chero zvavanogona kuti vawane kutariswa neruzhinji uye kurumbidzwa pazviito zvavo, kunyangwe kana vachifanira kupfeka kati pamusoro wavo.
3. Rule kutyora
Kutyora mutemo chinhu chinonyanya kuda kuitwa narcissist. Ivo vanowanzo tevera kuda kwavo zvisinei nemitemo inovasunga kuti vaite kunyangwe pachinokonzeresa chakanyanya mhedzisiro. Nekuita izvi, vanozviisa ivo nevamwe panjodzi.
4. Kutaurirana kunokanganisa
Iwe unogona kunge uine nyaya zhinji dzekugovana, asi narcissist anofarira kutaura nekugovana pane kuteerera kune yako yakareba runyorwa rwezviitiko zvehupenyu. Vanoridza bhosvo ravo kasingaperi.
5. Mifananidzo yenhema inoratidzira
Nzara yekurumbidzwa uye yekuona kukoshesa mumaziso evanhu inoita kuti vagadzire mufananidzo wenhema zvachose wehunhu hwavo. Ivo vanogadzira nyaya uye vanoumba chokwadi kuti vawane kuonga kukuru sezvinobvira.
6. Charmer
VaNarcissist vane dhiabhori chaiye mukati. Ivo vane hushamwari uye pakutanga, vanokubata iwe semhuri. Vanozviratidza sevanhu vane hanya uye vane rudo pasi pano.Ivo vanozokuisa iwe pekutanga uye kukusunga iwe nenzira iyo iwe nekusaziva unozadzisa zvavanoda ivo muzita rerudo.
Asi iyo nguva iyo chokwadi chinotyoka pamberi pako uye ivo vanotanga kuona kwako kusunungura kuziva; yavo chaiyo ichauya pamberi pako, ichikusiya usina chokwadi zvachose.
Hunhu hudiki
- Anobata chigumbu
- Zvinoratidza kunetseka
- Kusashivirira
- Kukurukurirana hoarder
- Kunyora
- Inoita zvipikirwa zvisina basa
Kuti ikubatsire iwe kubata narcissist mudiwa zvinobudirira pano pane mamwe mazano. Karyl McBride akanyora mamwe emabhuku akakurumbira pasi pemusoro unoti: Ndichazombosununguka pauri here?
Uye Maitiro Ekufamba Kwakakwira-Kunetsana Kurambana kubva kuNarcissist uye Poresa Mhuri Yako kutungamira vakapona uye varwi. Unofanira kuvapa kuverenga uye kudzidza iwo matipi ekukunda matambudziko ewanano.