Rudo uye Kuroora- Rudo nderweVanhu Vakashinga Chete

Munyori: Peter Berry
Zuva Rekusika: 19 Chikunguru 2021
Gadziridza Zuva: 1 Chikunguru 2024
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Zvemukati

Vazhinji vedu tinotya kuchembera, gore rega rega kune zera idzva.

Isu tinoedza zvakanyanya kuzviita isu vadiki. Asi isu tinokanganwa apo isu tinokwegura isu tichawana iyo yehungwaru muripo wakazvarwa nezvedu zvakaunganidzwa zviitiko.

Kupfuura makore makumi matatu ekuberekwa, ndichipfuura nemumatanho mazhinji ehupenyu hwangu, ini ndine hanya zvakanyanya nezve manzwiro andinoita, nei ndichifara kana ndisingafare.

Ini zvakare ndakaita shanduko mukucherechedzwa kwemuchato uye rudo - nyaya dzinogona kungodzidzwa nekuzvikurira-wega. Dai chete bvunzo idzi dzaisadhura kudaro!

Kugovana zvandadzidza kunogona kubatsira ruzivo rwehupenyu hwako nekuti hupenyu hausi hwenyika "yedigital" chete.

Rudo uye 3 zvinhu kumufaro

MuBhaibheri, kuda kwekutadza kwakakonzera Adhamu naEvha kudzingwa mubindu reParadhiso.


Kuda kuziva, kushaya simba, uye kushuvira mumwe zvinopfuura kuvimbika kuna Mwari. Iwo makotesheni muchinyorwa chino akanyorwa naGordon Livingstone mubhuku re "Too soon old, too late smart".

Iko kuwirirana uye padivi nerutivi rwevanhu vaviri, izvo zvakatiunzira isu kutungamira muripo kune ese mutoro sekushanda nesimba, kuoma, kukwira nekudzika muhupenyu uye kuziva kwedu kwehupenyu hwedu hupfupi.

Vazhinji vedu tinonzwa zvinhu zvitatu zvinoita kuti ufare, asi havazi vese vanonzwisisa uye vanozvinzwa zvakajeka. Kana basa rikachinja kubva pane zvatinoda chaizvo kuita “zvekuita,“ basa rinonetesa kudzokorora, risingabatsiri, hapana nzira yekufambira mberi, zvinoreva zuva rega rega iwe kudzikisa mikana yako yekuwana basa chairo. Iri basa rinokupa tariro here mugore idzva, kana ingori nzira yekuti uwane mari yekubhadhara uye yekudya, kuunganidza kutenga maPhones akawanda, mota dziri nani?

Kune vanhu pese pese paunoda kufona, asi maitiro avo anokuita kuti uwedzere kuneta. Kana ari wawakaroorana naye, hausi hukama hunounza mufaro kune vese mapato.


Zvinhu zvitatu zvemufaro zvine chimwe chinhu chekuita, mumwe munhu wekuda uye chimwe chinhu chekutarisira mberi.

Funga nezvazvo.

Kana isu tine basa rakadzikama, tichichengetedza hukama - idzo dzinovimbisa kuve dzakasununguka uye dzinofadza - saka zvakaoma kusafara!

Ini ndinoshandisa chirevo "basa" kuti ndikwanise kukwana mune chero chiito, chakabhadharwa kana kwete, chero bedzi chichiita kuti tinzwe takakosha kwandiri. Kana isu tine basa rinonakidza rinopa chinangwa kuhupenyu, saka ndiro iro chairo basa. Ndiwo mupiro wedu kune akasiyana ehupenyu anotipa pfungwa yekugutsikana uye zvinoreva.

Kubatana uye padivi pevanhu vaviri ndizvo zvakanyorwa naMark Twain: "Bindu reEdeni raenda asi ndamuwana uye ndagutsikana nazvo." Hukama hwakakura huchaunza Denga, icho hachisi chinhu mushure mekufa, asi chiripo muhupenyu.

Rudo nderwevanhu vakashinga chete

Rudo runoda kushinga. Pane nzira dzakawandisa idzo rudo runoda kushinga.


Zvakaoma kuwana mudiwa uye mudiwa sezvaunoda. Murudo, unofanirwa kushinga.

Hupenyu hwekuroora ipapo hune huwandu hwakazara hwemanzwiro, anofara-anosuwa-rudo-ruvengo, vamwe vanhu vanogona kuramba vaine imba yakanaka, vamwe vasina.

Kana iwe wakambosangana nehukama husina kugadzikana, kufambira mberi nemumwe munhu kunoda kushinga.

Rudo rwechokwadi runoda kuti isu tive neushingi hwekutarisana nekukuvadzwa kunoitwa nevamwe. Ngozi dziri pachena.

Kana kukoshesa kuchengeteka nekuchengeteka zvikatikurira, tarasikirwa nemweya wekuda. Hupenyu kubheja kuti hatitambe nemakadhi asi isu zvakadaro tinofanira kubheja nesimba redu rose.

Isu tinofanirwa kubvuma kushaya hanya, dzimwe nguva yakawanda kukunda. Kana tikasaita chiito, tingave sei nehunyanzvi kubva pakutanga sezvatarisirwa?

Vanhu vanogamuchira iyo pfungwa yekuziva curve ine zvinorwadza zvikanganiso tisati tave kugona.

Hapana anotarisira kuve shasha pakusvetuka asingadonhe kakawanda. Asi vanhu vazhinji vanoshamiswa nemarwadzo ekuyedza napose pavanogona napo kuwana mumwe munhu akakodzera rudo rwavo.

Kutora njodzi inodiwa kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvako chiito cheushingi.

Uye kana iwe usinga 'tenda mune pfungwa yehushingi murudo uye uchiramba kutora njodzi kuchengetedza moyo wako kuti usarwadziswe, chiito chekupererwa.

Nezvandakasangana nazvo, ndinoona kuti rudo chinhu chakaoma kutaura. Chikonzero chaunoda mumwe munhu hachinyatso kujeka. Zvichida hunhu hwakarongeka husina musoro hwakataurwa naDan Ariely mubhuku rake rine mukurumbira.

Ida uye udiwe

Ini handigone kumanikidza iwe kuvenga chidimbu chemimhanzi, bhaisikopo raunoda. Iwe zvakare hauna sarudzo kana iwe uchiziva kuti unoda mumwe munhu. Chinhu chete chaunogona kuita kusarudza maitiro ako uye maitiro kune iye munhu waunonzwa naye.

Tinoda mumwe munhu kana zvidikanwi kana zvishuwo zvake zvakakosha sezvatinoda kana zvatinoshuvira.

Ehezve, mune yakanakisa kesi, isu tinotonyanya kunetsekana nezvavanofarira kana kusatoparadzaniswa nezvatinofarira.

Mubvunzo unozivikanwa wandinowanzoshandisa kubatsira vanhu kuti vasarudze kuti vanonyatsoda mumwe munhu here "Unogona here nekuda kwewaunoda, kuvabudisira bhachi risingadzivirire bara?"

Izvi zvinoita kunge zvakapfuura zvakajairwa nekuti vashoma chete vanhu vanomanikidzwa kutarisana nekuzvipira kukuru uye hapana mumwe wedu anogona kutaura chokwadi nezve zvatichaita kana uchifanira kusarudza pakati pechishuwo chekuzvidzivirira uye rudo.

Asi kungofungidzira mamiriro iwayo kunogona kujekesa hunhu hwehukama hwedu nemunhu watinoda.

Uyu mubvunzo ungangodaro uchinetseka nezvemudiwa wako. Kunyangwe mangwana, iwe hausisiri wakanaka, hautambi mari, hauchina runako futi, ipapo shamwari iyi inewe kana ivo vanoenda.

Asi kana tisiri kuronga kuvapa chipo ichi, tingati sei tinovada? Kazhinji, rudo kana kusava nerudo zviri nyore kuona kana tichiratidza kuti munhu iyeye akakosha kwatiri, kunyanya kuburikidza nenguva uye nemhando yenguva yatiri kuda kushandisa navo.

Shamwari yako painokuratidza "pane bhuruu padavi riri kunze kwehwindo", unozoitarisa wotaura neshamwari yako, kana iwe ungati hongu woramba uchivhara kumeso kwako foni?

Mhinduro iri chaizvo yakajeka, kuburikidza nezvinhu zvezuva nezuva zvauchiri kuona. Icho chiratidzo chaunofuratira nemaune.

Iwe unongoona izvo zvaunoda kuona, uchizvinyengera pachako pane izvo zviri kunyatso kuitika. Mepu inoratidzwa mauri haisati yafananidza nzvimbo chaiyo.

Mepu haina kubatana nenzvimbo

Iyo isiriyo nzira yemepu, kugona kunongedza ramangwana nematambudziko.

Gordon Livingston akayeuka achiri mudiki lieutenant mu82th Airborne Division uye aiyedza kufamba muCarolina.

Pandaive ndichiongorora mepu, mutevedzeri webato, murwi wevasina kutumirwa akauya kwandiri ndokundibvunza, "Ko lieutenant akaziva here kwatiri?" Ndakapindura, "Ah, maererano nemepu, panofanira kunge paine chikomo pano asi handina kuchiona, Changamire." Iye akati: "Kana mepu isingaenderane nenzvimbo, imepu isiriyo".

Panguva iyoyo, ndakaziva kuti ndakanga ndangonzwa chokwadi chakakosha.

Tarisa vhidhiyo iyi:

Maitiro ekuziva mepu haafanane nenzvimbo

Iwo maratidziro anotsausa pamepu yehupenyu hwedu anonyatsoratidzwa kuburikidza nemanzwiro ekusuwa, kutsamwa, kutengesa, kuvhunduka, uye kusagadzikana.

Kana aya manzwiro achiuya pamusoro inguva yekufunga zvakare kugona kwedu kufamba, uye maitiro ekuzvigadzirisa kuti tirege kudzokorora iyo modhi yeavo vanotambisa nguva kuti vaone kuti kunyaradzwa chete kwekurwadziwa uku chiitiko.

Ingani nguva dzatakanzwa kunyengerwa uye kushamiswa kuona "mutauro usingapindirani" pakati pemashoko nezviito zvevanhu tisati taziva kuti tinofanirwa kuve nehanya nezviito pane mazwi akataurwa zviri pachena?

Zvizhinji zvezvinhu zvinokurwadzisa iwe muhupenyu huno mhedzisiro yekuregeredza chokwadi chekuti maitiro ako ekare ndiko kufanotaura chaiko kwehunhu hwemangwana.

Kana wangoziva, chinja yako mepu yekufambisa kuti ive yechokwadi.

Kugamuchira chokwadi idanho rekutanga mukunda kutambura. Sarudza hunhu hwakanaka uye usanete kana uchiita zvaunosarudza.

Rudo uye mufaro zviroto zvevanhu vese.

Nekudaro, kune munhu wega wega, rudo uye mufaro zvakasiyana zvakanyanya, hazviuye kune chero munhu zviri nyore, zvinogona kutapira kune mumwe munhu asi zvine mutsindo nemumwe.

Asi rudo uye mufaro zvinogara mumoyo wemunhu wese, zvinogara zvichipisa mazuva ese. Kana chete mumwe achizvitarisira, zvinotsva mudzimba dzese uye mune wese munhu. Rudo uye mufaro tambo dzisingaonekwe, asi zvinobatika kune avo vanozvikoshesa.