Zvemukati
- 1. Usarega kuita zvinhu zvidiki
- 2. Dzidzira kudanana
- 3. Endai kumuchato wechipiri
- 4. Ronga wenguva yemanheru husiku
- 5. Bvisa kubva kune teknolojia
- 6. Vandudza mhiko dzako
- 7. Pemberera kukunda kwako
Hukama pakati pevakaroora kana kuroorwa ndicho chimwe chezvisungo zvakakoshesesa chero munhu zvaangave nazvo, saka hazvishamise kuti vakaroorana vanogara vachitsvaga nzira dzekuona kuti muchato wavo ubudirire.
Muchato hauna kutongerwa kuti uve unofinha uye unofinha, sekufunga kunoita vamwe vakaroorana, asi izvo hazvireve kuti vakazvipira havafanirwe kuronga kugara vachigadzirisa hukama. Rudo muwanano ndiyo nhamba yekutanga hunodiwa kuti ubudirire. Chero bedzi paine rudo muhupenyu hwewanano, vaviri vanozogara vaine simba rekutarisana nematambudziko chero eupenyu anokanda nzira yavo.
Heano nzira nomwe dzaunogona kuchengetedza rudo rwehukama hwakasimba, hune hutano
1. Usarega kuita zvinhu zvidiki
Kana zvasvika parudo muhupenyu hwewanano, usamire kuita zvinhu zvidiki. Kubata ruoko kana uchifamba uchidzika nemugwagwa pamwe chete, kubatsira mumwe wako nemabasa epamba pamba kana kuzadza mota kana iwe uchiziva kuti mumwe wako anofanirwa kutyaira kumwe kunzira dzese dzakanaka uye dzinotaridza dzewako wauri kufunga nezvavo .
Tsika zvakare ndeimwe yemasaini, akareruka maitiro aunogona kuita muwanano yako ayo anowana muhombe mibairo. Iti waita hako kana mumwe wako akuunzira girazi rewaini kana kugadzira kofi yako mangwanani woti ndapota kana uchikumbira chimwe chinhu. Izvi zvidiki zvekutenda zvichaita kuti mumwe wako anzwe zvakanaka nezvake.
2. Dzidzira kudanana
Imwe nzira yekuchengetedza rudo muwanano ndeyekudzidzira kuve kudanana pamwe chete.
Kutandara pamwe chete tichitamba mitambo uye kuona mabhaisikopo inogara iri nzira huru yekushandisa manheru, asi zvakakosha kuronga zvemanheru erudo futi. Itai rudo, ivai nemubhadharo webhati pamwe chete, gara pedyo nenzvimbo yako yemoto inotinhira newaini uye taura.
Zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti kune hukama hwakasimba pakati perudo rwekudanana uye kutarisana mumaziso emumwe, saka wadii kukwiridzira kudanana muwanano yenyu kupedza nguva muchitarisana mumaziso.
3. Endai kumuchato wechipiri
Honeymoon hachisi chinhu chaunongobvumidzwa kuita mushure mekuroora. Kune avo vari kufunga: Harisi bhurocha rechipiri harisi rekuenda kuzororo pamwe chete here? Mhinduro ndeye. Unogona kudzoreredza nguva yako yekuchata nekuenda kunzvimbo imwechete kana kuti unogona kuronga kwaunoda kuenda. Asi, iyo poindi yechipiri yekuchata haisi yekungoenda pamwe chete. Ndikuronga rwendo, kwete nekuona nzvimbo uye ngowani dzevashanyi, asi nerudo uye nenguva yakanaka mupfungwa.
Nguva yechipiri yekuchata ndiyo mukana wakanakisa wekuratidzira rudo rwenyu kune mumwe nemumwe, kushushikana kubva pahupenyu hwenyu hwezuva nezuva, kurara pabonde mazuva ese, uye kurangarira nezve muchato wako uye kuti wakura zvakadii pamwechete kubva pahoneymoon yako yekutanga.
4. Ronga wenguva yemanheru husiku
Kunyangwe ako marongero anogona kubvumidza imwechete, mbiri, kana kana pamwedzi, kuronga wenguva dzose husiku hwehusiku kunogona kuita zvishamiso zvekuchengetedza rudo muhupenyu hwewanano. Husiku hwehusiku mukana wakakura wekuti iwe newawakaroorana naye muronge chinhu chinonakidza uye chekudanana kuti muite pamwechete. Unogona kuita majana ekuronga manheru, kunyangwe iwe uchinakidzwa nekukombamira kumba uye kupedza manheru acho uchitaura uye uchigumbatira kana kuenda kunodya kwemanheru kana kuenda kumutambo. Nyika ndiyo oyster yako!
Chikamu chakakosha chehusiku hwehusiku ndechekuti urikushandisa nguva yakanaka pamwechete kutaura, kugovana, kuseka, uye kunakirana. Zuva rehusiku zvakare mukana wakanakisa wekubatanidzwazve padanho repedyo, kubata maoko, kufamba ruoko, kutsvoda, uyezve, kutora zvinhu muimba yekurara.
5. Bvisa kubva kune teknolojia
Imwe nzira yekuchengetedza rudo muhupenyu hwewanano ndeyekuburitsa kubva kune tekinoroji. Imwe ongororo yakaona kuti kunyangwe kungovepo kwefoni mbozha kunogona kuvhiringidza pfungwa uye kukanganisa simba rekudyidzana. Izvi zvinoreva kuti kungova nenharembozha yako mukamuri imwechete iwe uchiyedza kutaura newawakaroorana naye kunogona kukuvadza kune yako yega-nguva.
Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zvekubvisa kwenguva pfupi kubva kune tekinoroji, senge zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti mwenje inoburitsa mwenje inogona kukanganisa hunhu hwako hwekurara, inowedzera njodzi yehutano hwepfungwa, uye inodzivirira kuumbwa kwekurangarira kwenguva pfupi. Panzvimbo pekufungisisa pamusoro peiyo Insta-inofarira, uchikurukura neshamwari gumi panguva imwe chete, uye kutarisa maemail paunenge uine mumwe wako, edza kusunungura plug manheru (kana makumi matatu-maminetsi kana usingakwanise kumira wakaparadzaniswa neyako mudziyo !)
6. Vandudza mhiko dzako
Kuvandudza mhiko dzako inzira huru yekupemberera imba yako uye kuudza nyika (kana kungoisana) kuti iwe uchazviita zvekare. Pane zvakawanda zvakasarudzika sarudzo dzekuvandudza mhiko. Unogona kumutsidzira mhiko dzako uye nekugamuchira kukuru kugamuchirwa kwehama neshamwari. Iyi sarudzo huru nekuti hauzove nekushushikana kumwe chete kwawaive nako kekutanga kutenderera. Muchakwanisa kunakidzwa nemi zvakanyanya kubvira panguva ino muchinyatsoziva zvamunofanira kutarisira uye muri padyo neshamwari dzemhuri.
Iwe unogona zvakare kusarudza yako wega, yakavanzika mhiko yekuvandudza. Ita chimwe chinhu chakakosha sekuchinjana mhiko parwendo, mune inopisa mhepo chibharumu, kana pakuvira kwezuva pamhenderekedzo pamwe chete. Shandisa zviyeuchidzo zvakakosha semukana wekuvandudza rudo rwenyu kune mumwe nemumwe. Yekutanga yaive zuva remashiripiti, asi kechipiri nguva yakatenderedza inogona kungonyanya kunakidza iwe nemumwe wako.
7. Pemberera kukunda kwako
Kana iwe uchida kudzidza kunakidzwa nehupenyu hwewanano, tanga kupemberera zvimwe! Vakaroorana vanofara vanofarira kupemberera pamwe chete, kunyangwe iri chiitiko chavo chekupedzisira, kusimudzira basa kana wavo mudiki achangotora chinzvimbo mukutamba kwechikoro. Nekupemberera pamwe chete, urikutaridza kuonga uye kudada kune mumwe wako, izvo zvinozovaita kuti vanzwe vakasarudzika uye vachizivikanwa. Kupemberera pamwe chete sevanhu vaviri kana semhuri kunowedzerawo hunhu uye kunogadzira mweya wakanaka wechikwata.
Iko hakuna chero kuita sekunge uine yakawanda rudo muhupenyu hwewanano. Chengetedza moto wepamba uchipisa nekudzidzira kufunga, kuratidza kuonga, kugara uchipedza nguva uri wega newawakaroorana naye, uye muchifambidzana. Nekuita izvi zvinhu, iwe unochengetedza rudo irworwo muhukama hwako.