Zvemukati
- Iyo ins uye kunze kwekushanda pamwe neanodzidzisa varairidzi
- Chenjera, mutengi chenjera
- Inguva yekumuka
Pane chero zuva rakapihwa, mamirioni pamamirioni evarume nevakadzi vari kutsvaga rubatsiro munyika yekufambidzana.
Vanoda kutsvaga munhu iyeye akakosha. Pamwe mweya yavo. Kana kuti pamwe ivo vanongoda mumwe munhu wekutandara naye, uye kuti vafare naye, pasina iyo ichichinja kuita hukama hwakakomba.
Chero zvazvingaitika, vanhu vazhinji nhasi vanovavarira kufambidzana nevarairidzi kuti vavabatsire kuwana iye akakwana munhu.
Asi gara uchiyeuka, mutengi, chenjera!
Kwemakore makumi maviri nemapfumbamwe apfuura, munyori wekutanga anotengesa zvakanyanya, chipangamazano uye murairidzi wehupenyu David Essel anga achibatsira varume nevakadzi munyika yekufambidzana, nekuvaita kuti vagadzirire, varonge, uye vatarise mhando yemunhu wauri kutsvaga .
Semumwe munhu akashanda nevazhinji semufambidzani murairidzi / chipangamazano munguva yakapfuura, David anoda chokwadi chekuti vanhu vari kutsvaga rubatsiro, asi pane imwe mhando yemurairidzi yausingafanire kumboshanda nayo.
Iyo ins uye kunze kwekushanda pamwe neanodzidzisa varairidzi
Vazhinji varairidzi munyika yekufambidzana, vanomhanya chirongwa chakazadzwa nekuvimbika.
Chinangwa chavo ndechekubatsira mutengi kurongeka maererano nemunhu wavanotsvaga, rudzi rwevanhu vasingazombovashandira, pamwe nekupa rubatsiro mukunyorwa kweprofile yavo kunyanya pamasaiti ekudanana neinternet.
Asi rimwe zuva, ndakaverenga chinyorwa muNew York Times nezvemudzidzisi wekufambidzana uyo ane zero kuvimbika, ari kunyatso kukurudzira vatengi vake kuti vanyepe kune vangangoita vekufambidzana navo, izvo zviri chokwadi zvichadzosera muhombe-nguva.
Uye tinoziva sei kuti uyu murairidzi ane zero zero kutendeka? Nekuti iye anonyepedzera kuve iye mutengi, mukutanga kudyidzana nevanogona kushamwaridzana navo munzvimbo dzekufambidzana.
Izvi hazvina musoro, zvinondinetsa zvakanyanya, uye pamwe ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvisina hunhu zvinofambisa munhu munyika yekurairidza kana kuraira kwaangamboita.
Saka zvinoenderana nechinyorwa ichi, anobvunzurudza mutengi, anosvika pakuvaziva, obva aenda kunze kwenyika yeinternet kudanana online uye kunyepedzera kuti ndiye iye mutengi.
Saka arikunyepa, kune vangangoita navo, nekutaura kuti iye mumwe munhu asiri uye vatengi vari kumubhadhara vari kunyepa, nekuti kana vatanga kuwirirana pachavo, chimwe chinhu chavaifanira kunge vachiita kubva pakutanga , vazhinji havangamboudza munhu uyu kuti vanofarira kuti havazi ivo vanga vachikurukura nemumwe munguva yakapfuura.
Iwe unotenda here kuti izvi zviri pamutemo?
Chenjera, mutengi chenjera
Dai ndaive mutengi wake, ndaizosemeswa nemaitiro ake. Ndaimuudza kuti hazvina hunhu.
Dai ini ndaive mutengi wako uye ndisina kuzivisa kune waungazodanana naye kuti aisave ini anga achitaurirana navo mumazuva akati wandei apfuura kana mwedzi, asi anga ari mukomana wekufambidzana, iwe unofunga kuti izvozvo zvaizopfuura sei uyu mutsva wepamoyo?
Dai ndaive wandinogona kudanana naye, uye ndikasangana nemumwe munhu pane yekufambidzana saiti akandiudza kuti ivo havana kunyatso kudyidzana neni, kuti aive mukomana wekufambidzana wavakashandira pakutanga, ndaizovadzinga muhupenyu hwangu nekukurumidza kupfuura iwe vanogona kuzvitenda, nekuti izvozvi vari kutanga hukama hunogona kunyepa!
Ini ndinotenda mukuru wekufambidzana chipangamazano kana murairidzi anofanira kunge ari pano kuzotsigira mutengi wavo, asi kwete kunyepedzera kuve iye mutengi.
Uku kunonzi kushaya hunhu, uku kunonzi kushaya hunhu.
Ini ndinobvuma nemoyo wese kuti mamirioni avanhu anogona kubatsirwa zvakanyanya nekuve neanodzidzisa murairidzi kana chipangamazano, asi ini 100% handibvumirane nenzira iyo munhu uyu, mukadzi wechikadzi wekufambidzana uyu ari kuzviita, nekukurudzira vatengi vake kunyepa, uye naiye kunyepa vangangoita varoora nekutaura kuti iye mumwe munhu asiri iye.
Inguva yekumuka
Kana iwe ukasangana nerudzi rwemunhu, vasiye nekukurumidza sezvazvinogona uye utsvage wekufambidzana chipangamazano kana murairidzi uyo chaizvo ane kutendeka.
Basa raDavid Essel rinotsigirwa zvikuru nevanhu vakaita saMushakabvu Wayne Dyer, uye mukurumbira Jenny McCarthy anoti "David Essel ndiye mutungamiri mutsva wesangano rakanaka rekufunga."
Bhuku rake regumi, imwe nhamba yekutengesa zvakanyanya, ine chitsauko chakazara uye zvazvinoreva kuva netsika munyika yekufambidzana uye rudo, inonzi "tarisa! Uraya zvinangwa zvako, gwara rakabvumidzwa rekubudirira kukuru, chimiro chine simba uye rudo rwakadzama.