Zvemukati
- Mufananidzo wekukwazisana
- Kana kuvimba kwapera
- Kubva pakuvimba kusvika pakuyemura
- Zvakajairika
- Nguva yakanaka
- Kutora
Muchato une hukama hwakawanda.
- Hushamwari
- Kudyidzana kwehukama (Eros rudo)
- Kubatana kwebhizinesi
- Co-vagadziri (neimwe nzira inozivikanwa sevamuri-vakaroora)
- Co-vabereki (kana vaviri vacho vaine vana)
Hushamwari ihwohwo hukama hwakakosha uko kune hwese humwe hukama hwakanyorwa pamusoro hwakavakirwa pahwo. Izvi zvinoita kuti hushamwari husangoite hwesimba chete asi hwakanyanya kukosha pane zvese zvataurwa pamusoro.
Asi kuti tinzwisise zvizere hushamwari, mune zvekufunga nezvewanano, tinofanirwa kuongorora chimwe chezvinhu zvacho zvakakosha. masimba ekuvimbika kwevanhu. Kuvimba kuri panhongonya pezvese kusangana kwekudyidzana. Izvo zvinonyanya kukosha mukati mehukama hwehukama hwemhuri.
Mufananidzo wekukwazisana
Nyanzvi dzezvevanhu dzinotaura kuti kuwirirana kunowanzoitika pakati pevakawanda munzvimbo dzakasarudzika dzakasiyana, zvichizivikanwa se "kukwazisana maoko" zvakatangira kumashure kwedzinza redu ratingawana. Chinangwa chekukwazisana maoko chakasiyana zvakanyanya pane zvavari ikozvino.
Pakutanga, yaive nzira yekuti vaviri vanhu vanhu vaone kuti hapana akabata chombo chavanogona kukuvadza mumwe nacho. Neumwe munhu achitambanudza ruoko rwake rusina chinhu, iye akaita chiratidzo chekuti akauya nerunyararo. Neumwe munhu achibatanidza ruoko rwake rwakavhurika, airatidza kuti naiyewo aisareva kukuvara.
Kubudikidza neizvi mufananidzo wekubata ruoko, tinogona kuona kuratidzwa kweakakosha kukosha kwehukama hwevanhu hwekuvimbika. Kunzwisisa kwekutanga pakati pevanhu vaviri kuti hapana mumwe nemaune anotarisira kumwe kukuvara.
Kana kuvimba kwapera
Mune ruzivo rwangu rwehunyanzvi, ini ndakabatsira vanhu vasingaverengeke kupora kubva mukusavimbika. Kuona kushamisika kunoitika kubva pakuparara kwekuvimbika kana mumwe wako asina kutendeka zvinoratidza kukosha kwazvo.
It hazvigoneke kubatsira vaviri kupora kubva pakuita kusavimbika kana kuvimba kwavo kusingadzoreke. Ndinoziva iwe unofanirwa kunge uchizvibvunza iwe pachako, "Zvinoita sei kuti vaviri vadzokezve kuvimba mushure mekudanana kwakakanganisa?"
Hazvirevi kuti kuvimba kwakaitwa vaviri ava kwave kudzoreredzwa nehusiku humwe. Iyi maitiro anotanga zvishoma uye anovaka pane imwe neimwe budiriro kudzamara yakawanda yekutanga nhanho yekutendeka ichengetwa. Zvisinei, iyo yekutenda kwekutanga haife yakachengetedzwa. Kana ichi chiri icho chinangwa chevamwe vevakaroora vandinoshanda navo, ini ndinove nechokwadi chekutora zvavanotarisira nekukasira.
Pakati penzvimbo yekuvakazve kuvimba kugona kwevakaroorana vakatendeka kutambanudza maonero avo kuti vanzwisise neimwe nzira, munyengeri haana kuita nenzira yekukanganisa nemaune kwavari.
Izvi zvinobatana zvakare mumufananidzo wekubata ruoko.
Zvino, izvi hazvireve kuti ini ndinokurudzira varwere vangu kuti vapinde mukunyepedzera nemaune. Pane kudaro, patinoongorora zvinangwa zvemurume kana mukadzi wekubiridzira, tinogona kuona kuti vaiita zvekuchengetedza hukama.
Mune mamwe mazwi, hukama hwacho hwaive husingatsungiririki zvekuti vaive vakatarisana neconundrum yekuzvipedza zvachose kana kusvika kune mumwe nekudaro vachidzivirira kupatsanurwa. Asi rega ndive akajeka nezve iyo yekupedzisira poindi. Izvi hazvimbobatanidze mumwe munhu anobiridzira nekuti vane hupombwe kana imwewo mamiriro ayo akasarudzika uye asina kudzika midzi munzira ipi neipi muhukama.
Nekudaro, nekutarisa mhedzisiro yekusatendeseka pahukama, tinogona kuona kukosha kwekuvimba kwakadii. Kuvimba ndiyo chaiyo fiber inoibata pamwechete.
Kubva pakuvimba kusvika pakuyemura
Kana kuvimba iri hwaro hwakakosha hwakavakirwa hukama hwevanhu hwese, kuyemura ndiyo inotevera nhanho. Hazviite kuti ushamwaridzane nemunhu wausingayemuri nenzira ipi zvayo.
Zvisinei nehunhu hunoonekwa hunoyemurika, kuyemurwa kweumwe neumwe kunokosha kuti ushamwari pakati pevanhu vaviri uenderere mberi. Izvi zvakakoshawo muwanano. Bvisa kuyemurwa, uye zvakafanana nekubvisa mweya mubharumu remhepo rinopisa; hazvibatsiri zvese mune pfungwa uye syntax.
Zvakajairika
Vanhu vaviri muhukama vane zvinhu zvakafanana zvakafanana zvakare zvakakosha.Isu tese tinoziva chirevo, "zvinopesana zvinokwezva," uye kunyange izvi zvichinzwika, hazvirevi kuti vanhu vaviri vanofanirwa kuva nezvose zvakafanana kuti vave murudo. Izvo zvavanazvo zvakafanana zvinongoda kukwana kuti vagadzire hwaro hwekupokana uko kunogona kutsigirwa.
Kubva panguva iyoyo, chiitiko chakajairika chezviitiko zvakagovaniswa kazhinji zvinokwana kutakura shamwari, uye kunyanya vakaroorana, kuburikidza neakawanda hunhu hunhu hunouya zvakasununguka nezera uye neruzivo rwehupenyu.
Nguva yakanaka
Iwe unozoshamiswa nenhamba yevakaroorana vandinobvunzurudza muchikamu chekutanga pahofisi yangu, iyo inondiudza kuti vanotambisa nguva chero "yemhando yepamusoro" kune mumwe nemumwe vhiki rega rega. Kazhinji, izvi hazvirevi kuti ivo vakura kusave nerudzi rweiyi nguva, asi nekuda kwekushayikwa kwekuisa pamberi mune yavo yekubatikana maitiro.
Imwe yematanho ekutanga andinokurudzira ivo kutora ndeye dzorera iyo yemhando nguva muhukama hwavo. Izvi hazvimboregi kundishamisa nekuti pandinobvunza vazhinji vavo kuti vafunge kumashure kutanga kwehukama hwavo. Ivo vese vanobvuma kuti vakapedza yakawanda yemhando nguva pane imwe nguva kana imwe.
Na kutora danho diki rekudzoreredza mhando nguva, varoorani vanowana kuvandudzwa kwazvino muhunhu hwese hwehukama (s).
Muvhidhiyo iri pazasi, Dan naJennie Lok vanoti kuratidza rudo rwako nekushandisa nguva yakanaka kupa mumwe munhu kutarisisa kwako. Ziva mashandisiro ekushandisa nguva yakanaka newawakaroorana naye kana mumwe wako pazasi:
Kutora
Nekuziva kuti roorano yakavakwa neakasiyana akafanana uye akasiyana ehukama hwehukama masisitimu, hatigone chete kuwedzera kunzwisisa kwedu kwenzvimbo zvachose asi kubatsira vakaroorana kusimudzira michato yavo. Nekutarisa pane hushamwari chikamu chemuchato, tinogona kuona kusvika payo mhedzisiro yacho. Nekushandira kugadzirisa hushamwari hwevaviri, tinogona kufanoona kuvandudzwa kwehukama hwekudyidzana kwavo uye chisungo chewanano.
Pamusoro pezvo, nekuti zvinhu zvehukama hune hutano hwakakosha kuhukama hwehukama hwevanhu (wanano haina kusarudzika), ndicho chinhu chakakosha kupfuura zvese. Mune mamwe mazwi, vaviri vacho vanofanira kushandira pahukama hwavo kunatsiridza imba yavo yese.