Zvemukati
- Sei vamwe vedu vaine shamwari shoma mushure mekuroora?
- Shamwari yega yega yakasarudzika
- Sei tichifunga kuti mumwe wedu / watakaroorana naye ave zvese zvedu?
"Shamwari yega yega inomiririra nyika iri matiri, nyika inogona kunge isina kuzvarwa kusvika vasvika, uye nemusangano uno chete ndipo panoberekwa nyika itsva."
- Anaïs Nin, Dhayari yaAnaïs Nin, Vol. 1: 1931-1934
Pakave nezvidzidzo zvishoma nezvekukosha kwehukama. Zvizhinji zvezvidzidzo zvinoratidza zvinoitisa muuropi kana tiri neshamwari kusiyana nemutorwa. Izvi ichokwadi kunyangwe mutorwa akafanana nesu.
"Mukuyedza kwese, kuva padhuze asi kusinga fanane kwakaratidzika kutungamira mhinduro mumatunhu epamberi uye munzvimbo dzakabatana muhuropi," akadaro Krienen. "Mhedzisiro yacho inoratidza kuti hukama hwepedyo hwakakosha kupfuura zvitendero zvakagovaniswa pakuongorora vamwe. Verenga Montague, PhD, weBaylor College yeMedicine, nyanzvi yekuita zvisarudzo uye computational neuroscience, akati, "Vanyori vanotaura nezvechikamu chakakosha chekuziva munharaunda - kukosha kwevanhu vepedyo nesu," akadaro Montague.
Sei vamwe vedu vaine shamwari shoma mushure mekuroora?
Saka apo sainzi iri pakuti pane kukosha kwevanhu vepedyo nesu, nei vamwe vedu vaine shamwari shoma? Ndiri kutaura nezve shamwari-ne-kumeso shamwari pane shamwari mazana mashanu dzauinadzo paFacebook kana vateveri 1000 paTwitter.
Zvandinoona mukuita kwangu kudzikira kweshamwari mushure mekuroora. Zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti vakadzi vanochengeta uye vanochengeta shamwari dzakareba kupfuura varume. Asi zvakakosha zvakadii kuti tinoona hushamwari ndinoshamisika izvi nekuti pandinenge ndichishanda nevaroorani, ndinowanzo shamisika nezvinotarisirwa nemumwe wako kune mumwe nemumwe. Zvandiri kureva ndezvekuti, "kana uchindida, iwe unozondipa zvese zvandinoda uye uve wangu zvese." Iye zvino handisati ndambonzwa iwo chaiwo mazwi, asi ini ndanyatso kunzwa iwo mafungiro.
Kuroora kana kudyidzana ndihwo humwe hwehukama hwepedyo hunogona kuitwa nemunhu, asi hausihwo hukama chete hunogona kuva nemunhu.
Shamwari yega yega yakasarudzika
Kana tichitarisa kwedu hushamwari, isu tinokwanisa kuona ese akasiyana maficha shamwari dzedu. Shamwari yega yega inotishandira zvakasiyana. Imwe shamwari yakanaka kubvunza fashoni kana dhizaini mibvunzo, nepo imwe shamwari iri iyo yekuenda kumamuseum. Imwe shamwari inogona kunge iri huru mukukurumidzira, nepo imwe ichida ziviso yakatarwa. Shamwari yega yega inobatidza chimwe chinhu mukati medu. Chinhu chingangodaro chisina kuratidza kusvika shamwari iyoyo yasvika. Mhando yakafanana nekotesiti pakutanga kwechikamu ichi.
Izvo zvinondiunza kumubvunzo uyu:
Sei tichifunga kuti mumwe wedu / watakaroorana naye ave zvese zvedu?
Ndakaona vadyidzani vachishamisika nepfungwa yekuti mumwe wavo haadi kugoverana mune zvese. Iyi ndiyo pfungwa yeAmerican yekuti kana tangove pamwe chete zvidikanwi zvinovharwa, kana matambudziko ese anogona kugadziriswa? Dzimwe nguva kugadzirisa zvinhu kunoreva kubvuma kusabvumirana. Dzimwe nguva iwe unotofanira kuenda kukonati iyoyo neshamwari pane kuenda nemumwe wako nekuti mumwe wako haadi kuenda. Ko paunorwara? Maoko mazhinji angangodikanwa kubata kwauri, kwete rimwe chete. Inorema zvikuru mutoro kuva wega uye chete. Hongu, mumwe wako ishamwari yako huru, asi kwete yako chete.
Chengetedza yako yemuchato / kudyidzana kwehukama hwakadzika pamwe nerudo rwepabonde. Dzokazve shamwari dzako kuti uvhure nyika nyowani uye ubatise huropi hwako. Hushamwari uhwu hunogona chete kubatsira kusimudzira hupenyu hwako hwepamoyo zvakare.