Zvemukati
- Isingakundwe rudo tsananguro
- Haisi yerudo sezvaungafunga
- Chii chaungaite nezverudo rusina kukodzera?
- Zvibvunze pachako kana ichi chiri chimiro cherudo rusina kubvumirwa
- Maekisesaizi ekuwana kuburikidza nerusingadiwi rudo
- Zvivhiringidze iwe pachako
- Enda pane zuva nemumwe munhu mutsva
Chii chinonzi rudo rusina kukodzera?
Kana rudo rwako rusingaonekwe, rwunonzwisiswa uye kudzoreredzwa newaunoda iwe irwo rudo rusina kukodzera. Iyo ndeimwe yemitambo yeHollywood inonyanya kufarirwa mumabhaisikopo, uye chimwe chinhu icho mumwe nemumwe wedu akasangana nacho kamwechete kamwe muhupenyu hwedu.
Iwe unoziva kunzwa, handiti?
Chinhu chaunofarira, zviroto zvako, zvaunofungidzira, hazvo, ivo havangonzwe zvakafanana nezve iwe. "Ndinokuda, asi seshamwari," inogona kuva imwe yemhinduro dzinosuruvarisa dzaungambonzwa paunenge uchizivisa rudo rwako kune mumwe munhu wawanga uchishuwira.
Kurwadziwa kwerudo rusina kutsva kunoshungurudza uye kupfuudza rudo rwusina kukumbirwa ibasa rekukwira.
Kuti tinzwisise kuti sei rudo rusingadzokorodzwe rwunorwadza zvakanyanya, ngationgororei ese mains uye kunze kwemusoro wenyaya iyi uye matipi ekuti ungakunda sei rudo rwusina kukumbirwa.
Isingakundwe rudo tsananguro
Wikipedia inoti zvakanakisa: “Rudo rusingadzokwi rudo rwusingaripirwe pachena kana kunzwisiswa saizvozvo newaunoda. Mudiwa angave asingazive kudanana kwakadzama uye kwakasimba kwerudo, kana kuti anogona kuzviramba achiziva. ”
Mune mamwe mazwi, rudo rusingabvumirwe rwakafanana nemugwagwa unoenda nenzira imwe chete uchipfuura nemuguta rerudo. Kune nzira imwe chete.
Fungidzira kana iwe waifanira kupedza mazuva ako uchityaira kuburikidza neguta munzira imwechete? Izvo zvakanaka zvinoshungurudza, handiti?
Haisi yerudo sezvaungafunga
Tsika dzakakurumbira dzinopa pikicha-izere nemufananidzo werudo rusingadiwi, izvo kubva pakuona kwemudiwa.
Nziyo dzakaita saAdele's Mumwe Munhu Akafanana Newe, mabhaisikopo senge Eternal Sunshine yeSpotless Mind, uye yakasarudzika comic strip Peanuts-rangarira Charlie Brown achidya chikafu kumusikana mudiki-ane vhudzi-dzvuku? kudiwa nechinhu chavakagadzirirwa.
Asi idzi dzakasimba-nzira-imwe manzwiro haaite anofara mudiwa anoita.
Kurarama hupenyu hwaunoda zvakadzama mumwe munhu asingadzore aya manzwiro kuri kusuruvara uye kusurukirwa.
Zvinhu hazviwanzo kuperera senge zviri mufirimu, nevanodiwa vanongoerekana vapengenuka uye vachiziva kuti vaida mumwe munhu nguva dzese.
Tisati tanyura-mukati kuti tingapfuure sei marwadzo erudo rusingakutsirwi, izwi rekuve chinhu cherudo rusina kubvumirwa.
Rumwe rudo mativi muwanano kana hukama paunenge uri waramba zvinogona kukonzeresa kurwadziwa nekurwadziwa.
Marwadzo erudo rusingadzorwe muwanano kana hukama anotambudza anoramba futi. Anoramba ano gara achinzwa mhosva uye akagumbuka pakuputsa tariro yeiye asingadiwe mudiwa.
Ivo vari kugara vachitsvaga zvine mutsindo nzira dzekuti kwete ivo vachiedza kuchengetedza isingadiwe mudiwa chiremerera.
Chii chaungaite nezverudo rusina kukodzera?
Saka, sei kubata nerusingabvumirwe rudo? Heano akanyanya kukosha mativi erudo rudo.
Chekutanga pane zvese, kufambira mberi kubva parudo rwusina kukumbirwa kunoda kuti iwe uone kuti hausi wega.
Vazhinji vedu takanzwa kurwadziwa kweimwe rudo rwemativi pane imwe nguva muhupenyu hwedu.
Kune maforamu asingaverengeke akazvipira kune iyi nyaya, uye zvinogona kukuitira iwe zvakanaka kuverenga mamwe acho, kungoziva kuti mamiriro ako akajairika.
Saka zvinyorove iwe pachako kana iwe uchida kukunda unrequited rudo rwekurwadziwa.
Iwe unogona kutoshandisa imwe yeiyi marwadzo pazvinangwa zvekugadzira: nyora nhetembo, mumhanzi, nyaya pfupi, kana kupenda mufananidzo. Zvese izvi zviitiko zvinozove zvecathartic kwauri uye zvinokubatsira iwe "kuzviburitsa."
Zvibvunze pachako kana ichi chiri chimiro cherudo rusina kubvumirwa
Iwe uri mumwe munhu anowanzo sangana nemarwadzo erudo-rwumwe chete?
Kungave kuti iwe unozviisa iwe pachako munzvimbo yakadaro nemaune. Izvo zvinonzwika kunge zvinopesana, asi zvinoshanda chinangwa kune mumwe munhu anodzivisa rudo.
Panzvimbo pekuisa panjodzi marwadzo anogona kuitika dzimwe nguva kuuya nehukama hwakazara hwerudo, ivo vanoramba vachitsvaga aya-mativi mamiriro kuitira kuti vasave nemikana yekugara ichikura kuva hukama hunoshanda zvizere, nekudaro vachidzivirira "chaicho chibvumirano" nezvose kukwira nekudzika zvinoreva.
Kana iwe ukaona kuti iwe unoramba uchiita mune iyi pateni, zvingave kune yako kubatsirwa kushanda pane izvi nachiremba anokwanisa.
Chinangwa chako? Kumira kuita hunhu husina zvibereko, uye dzidza maitiro ekuvandudza hukama, hukama-hwerutivi.
Maekisesaizi ekuwana kuburikidza nerusingadiwi rudo
Zvizhinji zvezvinhu zvinowedzera rudo rusingabvumirwe zviri mumusoro mako.
Mune mamwe mazwi, iwe unogadzira rondedzero ye "isu" isina chero chaiyo data yekukweva.
Nenzira iyoyo, rudo rwauri kunzwa nderwekufungidzira-hwakavakirwa, uchifunga mumwe munhu. Nzira yakanaka yekumisa izvi ndeyekusvika pakuziva iye munhu wawakagadzirirwa paari.
Izvo ndizvo.
Iwe unoda kubuda kubva muhupenyu hwako hwehope pamusoro pavo uye kusvika pakuvaziva sevamwe vanhu.
Kusvika pakuziva hunhu hwavo hwese, neese asina kusimba mabhureki uye tsika dzakaipa dzese dzatinadzo dzinogona kukubatsira iwe kukunda ichi chidimbu-chedanho iwe chauri kurarama uye kuchichinja kuita chimwe chinhu zuva nezuva uye zvakajairwa.
Iwe unozoona kuti chinhu chekushongedza kwako hachina kukwana, uye chinokudzosera pasi pasi.
Uyezve tarisa:
Zvivhiringidze iwe pachako
Nzira huru yekumira kufunga nezvayo ndeyokuita zvimwe zvinhu, zvine zvibereko uye zvinopisa simba.
Iyo yakatarisana neiyi?
Unogona kusangana nemumwe munhu paunenge uchiita zvemitambo, kudzidza hunyanzvi, kana kuzvipira munharaunda yako.
Mumwe munhu ane manzwiro kwauri, futi. Mumwe munhu anogovera iyo iyo kufarira iyo yakakusvitsai imi vaviri pamwechete.
Wobva wati usare wakasununguka rudo, mhoro, chairo, rwakazara rudo!
Enda pane zuva nemumwe munhu mutsva
Kana iwe wakatevera rairo riri pamusoro apa uye ukasangana nemumwe munhu uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchiita, uchizvivhiringidza, pfupisa hushingi hwako uye uvabvunze pazuva.
Izvo hazvifanirwe kuve chero chinhu chakarongeka, unogona kungovakumbira kunze kwekofi asi zvinokupa iwe mukana wekuve nekongiri facetime nemunhu uyu.
Iyi ndiyo kiyi yekuvaziva semunhu wese uye zvinokutadzisa kubva kudzokorora maitiro ekuda iyo yakasarudzika vhezheni iwe yaunogona kuva yavo iyo inotungamira kune isingadzoreke rudo.
Uye kana musi iwoyo uchitungamira kune chimwe chinhu zvakare, izvi zvichanyatso kukubatsira iwe pamusoro penyaya-yerumwe-rudo rudo iyo yaive ichikukonzera kurwadziwa kukuru.