Zvemukati
- 1. Unoda kuwedzera kupfuura iwe
- 2. Kutarisana kwakanaka kwemaziso
- 3. Wokunze uye womukati synchronicity
- 4. Hwema
- 5. Mahormone
- 6. Nei vamwe vanhu vachidanana zviri nyore?
- 7. Tanga kushanda pachako kuti nechivimbo kutevera rudo
Mubvunzo unowana kutarisisa kwakawanda uye uchiri kusiiwa usina kupindurwa (kune akawanda mativi) ndosaka vanhu vachidanana.
Zvino, uyu mubvunzo wakaomarara une mhinduro dzakawanda dzakasiyana; iwe unogona kuipindura nesainzi, iwe unogona kuipindura kuburikidza nehunhu hwevanhu, kana iwe unogona kuitsanangura neyakareruka chokwadi kuti Mwari anosika murume nemukadzi vari vaviri uye saka ivo ndeve pamwechete.
Kana isu tiri vadiki, chekupedzisira chinouya mupfungwa medu ndechekufunga kwaMwari. Isu tinowanzo tarisa rudo semanzwiro, semanzwiro anoita kuti tide kupenga. Zvinhu zvidiki sekubata mawoko, kudzorera kumashure, kudya machokoreti paZuva raValentine, uye kuveza mazita pamatanda emuti zvese zvinoonekwa sezviratidzo zverudo.
Nekudaro, paunenge uchikwegura, unotanga kubata pfungwa yekuti rudo harusi rwekunzwa asi sarudzo. Unosarudza kugara kana zvinhu zvikaoma, iwe sarudza kutora mutoro, uye unosarudza kuremekedza mhiko dzako.
Sayenzi yakaedza ikatsanangura rudo munzira dzakawanda, uye mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu inoramba ichichinja zvichienderana nemunhu ari murudo.
Zvimwe zvikonzero zvakajairika nei vanhu vachida kudanana zvinotaurwa pazasi. Ramba uchiverenga kuti uwane.
1. Unoda kuwedzera kupfuura iwe
Kazhinji, vanhu vazhinji vanowira murudo nemunhu ivo ivo kwete chete vanowana anokwezva uye akakodzera asiwo mumwe munhu anovada ivo kumashure.
Izvi zvinogadzira nharaunda / mamiriro ezvinhu iwe paunowana mukana mutsva wekuzvikurisa.
Ichokwadi chekuti munhu uyu anokuda kumashure anokupa iwe mukana wakakura wekuzviongorora, kuzvishandura, uye kuwedzera pfungwa dzako; paunoziva uyu mukana, iwe unonzwa kuwedzera kwekunakidzwa.
2. Kutarisana kwakanaka kwemaziso
Kuchengeta kutarisana kwakanaka kwemaziso kunokutendera kuti uone zvakadzika mukati memumwe wemumwe wako uye zvinobva zvangoita kukwezva kwakadzika kune mumwe nemumwe.
Kunyangwe kune vanhu vaviri vasina kumbosangana, kutarisa mumaziso kunogona kuvazadza nehukama hwakadzika uye kunzwa kwekuziva iye munhu kwenguva yakareba.
Uku kubatana kunogona kufungidzirwa serudo nevamwe vanhu.
3. Wokunze uye womukati synchronicity
Iwe unowira murudo kana maitiro emuviri wako achienderana nezvakanaka zvinokonzera zviripo mune yekunze nyika. Izvo zvinokonzeresa kurudyi zvinoreva kune zvinowanzoitika zveonfactory, zvinoonekwa, zvekunzwika, uye zvekubata zvirevo zvinoitika nenzira kwayo, nguva nenzvimbo.
Kutaura nesainzi, muhukama hwepabonde, kune akawanda marudzi akasiyana emakemikari anodikanwa.
Kuti mumwe munhu awire murudo, akasiyana akasiyana ekunze zvinokonzeresa uye neurochemical maitiro anofanirwa kukodzera munzira kwayo kuti iwe ude murudo.
4. Hwema
Vanhu vazhinji vanodanana nemumwe wavo kana shamwari yavo nekuda kwenzira yekunhuwidza.
Chirevo chiri pamusoro chinonzwika sechisina musoro, asi hwema hwemuviri hunokonzeresa manzwiro evarume nevakadzi zvakafanana. Zvino, rangarira kuti isu hatisi kungokurukura hwema hwekunhu hunowanikwa nehembe yemumwe wako asi nehembe dzisinganhu uye zvimwe zvipfeko.
Aya anonhuwirira anonongedzera anopinda muuropi hwako kuburikidza neine olfactory system, uye iwe unowira murudo.
5. Mahormone
Mahormone anoita chikamu chakakura mukuita kuti iwe udanane.
Ko muromo wako unooma here uye moyo wako unotanga kurova nekukurumidza kana ako akakosha mamwe akaridza bhero repasuo rako? Huye, iyi mhinduro yekushushikana, uye inoitika kana mahormone akadai serotonin, dopamine, uye adrenaline aburitswa muropa rako.
Vanoda vakarova vakaroora vane yakakwira mwero yedopamine muropa ravo.
Iyi neurotransmitter inobatsira mukusimudzira huwandu hwakawanda hwemafaro uye ine mhedzisiro yakafanana kuhuropi sekushandisa cocaine.
6. Nei vamwe vanhu vachidanana zviri nyore?
Dzimwe nguva, maviri maviri emeso anosangana mhiri kwekamuri, uye zvimwe zvese nhoroondo.
Kune vazhinji venyu, kudanana kunogona kuve kwakaoma. Dzimwe nguva iwe unoda kudanana, asi iwe uri kutadza kudzorera. Nekudaro, kuti uve murudo, unofanirwa kugona kupa rudo uye uve nerudo mukati mako.
Kana iwe uchinzwa kudiwa, uye kana uchizvida iwe, unokwanisa kuratidzira urwu rudo kunze. Kana uchitsvaga mudiwa, mumwe munhu anonzwa seasina kukodzera kudiwa, haakwanise kuzviratidza semunhu anodikanwa uye nekudaro haakwanise kuda. Uku kushaya chivimbo kunoshandurwa sekudiwa, uye izvi zvinodzosera zvimwe zvido zverudo sepiripiresi.
Anodiwa iwe unoonekwa, paunonyanya kudzinga vanhu, uye uchave nemikana yakaderera yekuwana rudo.
7. Tanga kushanda pachako kuti nechivimbo kutevera rudo
Nekudaro, kana iwe uchityisa uye uchitsvaga rudo, saka unofanira kushanda pauri kutanga.
Edza kuva nechivimbo, uzvide iwe, zvisvinudze iwe kune vekunze nyika uye usati iwe uchizviziva, chemistry ichatevera kuburikidza, uye iwe uchazviwana iwe uchidonha murudo.
Usateedzere chirevo chekare chinoti "opposite chinokwezva" uye pachinzvimbo chivaite chinangwa chako kuwana mumwe munhu ane hunhu hwakaenzana uye nemaonero akafanana neupenyu sezvaunoita.
Nenzira iyi, iwe unenge uine wekugara naye wekugovana hupenyu hwako nekusingaperi.