Zvemukati
- Nhanho kudzokera kumashure
- Kuita kwevana
- Akayambuka pfungwa dzangu makore akazotevera
- Zvinorwadza-zvinotapira ndangariro
- Kutora zvinhu neruoko rwangu
- Mhedzisiro isingatarisirwe
Ndakagara pano, ndichifungisisa mumwe wemibvunzo inopokana nguva dzese - Zvinoita here kuti ugare uri shamwari newawakambodanana naye?
Vazhinji vanhu vanokasira kutaura kuti vangangoda kushamwaridzana naIshe Voldemort pane avo vavakaroorana navo.
Kunyangwe izvi zvichikonzerwa nekurambana kwakashata kana kungo nyongana kwekutaura kwakashata nezve mamiriro ekunze nemumwe munhu aimboda kukunongedzera sewavo wemweya, hazvina kuoma kutenda kuti vanhu vazhinji vangangodaidza exes yavo sechikamu chavo hupenyu hwepfuura kwete "shamwari shamwari".
Zviri nyore nenzira iyi, zvichikonzera kushoma kuvhiringidzika uye kukuvara. Asi iyo iri nyore nzira inogara iri nzira chaiyo?
Nhanho kudzokera kumashure
Kudzoka kukoreji, mukomana wangu wemakore matatu akasvika pakufunga kuti aisada hukama achiri kuYunivhesiti.
Ndakarwadziwa pamoyo asi ndakatsunga kuramba ndiri shamwari dzepedyo naye, nekuti rudo rwese rwandaive narwo nemukomana rwakanga ruchiripo.
Mwedzi yakati gare gare, akazopedzisira ave nehukama hwakakomba nemusikana aive akanaka chaizvo kupesana neni. Hakusi kuti aisada hukama, aingoda chete neni.
Panguva iyoyo, chishuwo changu chekuramba ndiri shamwari-bhudhi naye chakange chashanduka mukati mangu ndichida kunyepedzera kuti haana kumbovapo.
Wechidiki? Ehe- Asi hunhu husati hwakura hunotarisirwa uchinge uri mukutarisana nemoyo wako wekutanga kusuwa.
Kuita kwevana
Ndinoyeuka ndichimutevera pamhando dzese dzemagariro enhau uye nekubvisa edu ese maficha pamwechete kubva paFacebook, kusanganisira mamwe mapikicha akanaka.
Icho chaive chinangwa changu kumubvisa kubva muhupenyu hwangu uye nendangariro dzangu nekukasira sevanhu.
Kana ndikambomuona achidarika nepakona yemugwagwa, ini ndaizohwanda pekuhwanda semumwe munhu akaipa mune spy spy.
Ini ndaive ndakatsunga kuti ndisamboisa maziso paari zvakare, kwete nekuda kwekusuwa, asi kungori kubva pakurwadziwa kukuru kwekuziva kuti mukomana wandakanga ndichiri kupenga murudo naye akange aenderera mberi kuchikamu chake chinotevera.
Yakanga isiri iyo kusvikira ndamubvisa kubva muhupenyu hwangu (hongu, izvo zvaisanganisira zvemagariro), kuti ndakanyatsokwanisa kuenderera mberi zvakare.
Akayambuka pfungwa dzangu makore akazotevera
Panguva ino, ini ndaive ndakanyatsomupfuura, asi ini ndanga ndichitanga kuzviwana zvisinganetse kuti isu hatisi shamwari.
Isu takanga tapfuura zviitiko zvakawanda zvakasiyana zvekuchinja hupenyu pamwe chete, iye neni, uye isu takanga tiri maplatonic pals tisati tatanga kudanana.
Mune imwe nzira, kwandiri, zvakanzwa kumanikidzwa zvakanyanya kuti isu taive tichidzivirirana pane kuramba tiri shamwari.
Zvinorwadza-zvinotapira ndangariro
Uyu ndiye mukomana akasvina ruoko rwangu parufu rwambuya vangu. Uyu ndiye mukomana wandakapuruzira musana pakati pekurambana kwevabereki vake.
Uyu ndiye mukomana aive akandiruka paPro husiku uye akandibata kuti ndirare kanopfuura chiuru.
Kuva kuti anga ave chikamu chakakura chehupenyu hwangu, sei ndisingamudi iye padhuze? Shamwari dzechokwadi hadzisi ivo vanhu vanokuziva mukati kunze?
Kutora zvinhu neruoko rwangu
Saka, ndakafunga kumutumira meseji. Chimwe chinhu chiri nyore, pamwe nemitsara ye: "Hei, hupenyu hwakadii?"
Izvi zvakaguma mukukurukurirana kwekare kwaakaratidzika kunge asingade kuve nako. Kwete chete kumanikidzwa, asi zvaive pachena kuti zvichibva pamhinduro dzake, akange asina chishuwo chekumutsiridza imwe mhando yehukama.
Mhedzisiro isingatarisirwe
Ndinoremekedza sarudzo yake. Ndaifanira kudaro.
Ini ndanga ndisiri kuda kumumanikidza kuti apfeke anoenderana BFF Eupenyu! hembe, kana kumubata akabatwa kusvikira tauya nekubata ruoko muchivande.
Ehe, izvo zvakanyatso nyatsopesana neicho hushamwari hwakanaka.
Dzimwe nguva hatikwanise kusarudza kana tichigona kuramba tiri shamwari needu wekare.
Kana ivo vari pachena mune chokwadi chekuti ivo havafarire kuti iwe urambe uri chikamu chehupenyu hwavo, ibasa rako kugamuchira zvido zvavo.
Ndicho chidiki iwe chaunogona kuita, zvakanyanya sekugona kwaungaodza mwoyo.
Mushure mezvose, hushamwari hwedivi rimwe hunoshungurudza zvakanyanya kupfuura kusave nehukama zvachose.
Saka, ndeipi mhinduro pano? Unofanira kuramba uri shamwari newawakarambana naye here, kana kuti zvakanyanyisa kuoma?
Mhinduro yacho izere uye zvakazara kwauri iwe nerwako rudo rwekare. Kana imi vaviri muchigona kusangana kuti musare muchibvumirano cheplonic, ndinoti kudii?
Icho chinhu chakakosha chinodiwa ndechokuipa nguva.
Kana iwe ukasapa maronda ako mweya unodikanwa kwazvo wekufema, hushamwari hunoparadzwa. Asi kana makore apfuura uye vaviri venyu makagadzikana nazvo, anogona kunge ari mabasa ehukama hwakanaka.
Unofungei? Zvinoita here kuramba uri shamwari nakare wako?