Zvemukati
- Takapinda sei munyonganiso iyi?
- Zvikonzero nei vanhu vachiroora gare gare muhupenyu
- Iyo vhiki sere chirongwa chekuraira usati waroora kana kuroorwa
- Wagadzirira Here?
Iyo pesenti yemichato muUnited States iyo ine hutano yakaderera zvisingaite.
Uye mwero wekurambana unoramba uchikwira zvishoma gore gore.
Saka chii chatinoita? Tinochinja sei izvi? Tinofanirwa kunge tichiroora zvakanyanya gare gare muhupenyu?
Kwemakore makumi matatu apfuura, munyori wekutanga anotengesa zvakanyanya, chipangamazano, Life Coach uye gurukota David Essel anga achibatsira vanhu kuita sarudzo kana vakagadzirira kuroora, kana kwete, uye vanofanirwa kuroora zvachose, kana ivo vanongofanira kumirira kusvikira gare gare muhupenyu?
Pazasi, David anotipa pfungwa dzake pamamiriro akashata emuchato munyika ino.
“Bhizinesi rangu, zvinosuwisa, riri kuramba richikura zvakanyanya nevatengi vanobva pasirese nekuda kwechimiro chinotyisa chemichato, kwete muUnited States chete asi nekumwewo.
Takapinda sei munyonganiso iyi?
Chii chatinoita kuyedza kudzikisa mwero wekurambana, nepo panguva imwechete tichiwedzera muzana yemichato ine hutano uye inofara?
Kana tichiti mamiriro emichato muUnited States haana kunaka, rega ndigovane nei tichitenda izvozvo:
- Vanopfuura makumi mashanu nezvishanu muzana emichato yekutanga ichaguma mukurambana
- Inenge 62% yemichato yechipiri ichaguma mukurambana
- Inenge 68% yemichato yechitatu ichaguma mukurambana
Haisi nguva yekumuka here?
Huwandu hwacho hwakave hwakaenzana kwemakore akati, asi hapana anoita kunge arikuita chero chinhu nezve mamiriro acho.
Uye kune iyo muzana yevakaroora vanogara pamwe kwenguva refu, mumakore angu makumi matatu semupi wezano, mudzidzisi wehupenyu uye gurukota, ndinogona kukuudza kuti chete chikamu chidiki kwazvo cheiyo michato yenguva refu inofara.
Vanhu vazhinji, nekuda kwezvinhu zvakaita sekuzvimirira, vanogara muhukama husina hutano nekuda kwekutya kuve wega, kusachengeteka kwemari uye zvimwe zvikonzero zvakawanda.
Zvikonzero nei vanhu vachiroora gare gare muhupenyu
Ndinoyeuka mugore ra2004, pakaburitswa bhuku rangu rinonyanya kutengesa "Slow down: the fastest way to get everything you want," rakaburitswa, takanyora panguva iyoyo kuti "varume havawanzo kuve vakakura pamoyo zvekuroora kusvika vasvitsa makore makumi matatu, vakadzi havana kukura mupfungwa kusvika padanho iri rekuzvipira kusvika pazera remakore makumi maviri nemashanu apfuura. ”
Asi kubvira 2004, ndiri kuona shanduko yakakura iyo yandichagovana newe izvozvi.
Varume. Ndinoona varume vazhinji mazuva ano vachikura pamoyo, uye vakagadzirira kuzvipira kumuchato wenguva refu kutenderedza makore makumi mana.
Nezvikonzero zvandisingazive, ini varume vazhinji vandinoshanda navo vari pakati pemakore makumi maviri nemakumi matatu hapana kwavakagadzirira kuzvipira kwemuchato, vana uye nezvimwe.
Zvinotaridza senge danho rekukura iri rakareba, uye ikozvino pandinoshanda nevarume vane makore ekupedzisira makumi matatu uye makumi mana ekutanga ndinovaona vakura pamoyo, uye vakagadzirira kubata vanonetsa uye mufaro unouya pamwe nekuve ne kwenguva yakareba mudiwa uye pamwe nevana.
Vakadzi. Ndiri kuonawo mhando imwechete yemamiriro ezvinhu achiitika nevakadzi, nepo makore gumi nemashanu apfuura ndaizoshanda nevakadzi vakati wandei vari pakati pemakore makumi maviri nemaviri nemakumi maviri nemashanu vaifara chose nezvewanano, vana uye vaitaridzika kunge vakura pamoyo, asi nhasi , Ndinokurudzira vatengi vangu vechikadzi kuti vamirire kusvikira vasvitsa makore makumi matatu, vazhinji vavo vasati vagadzirira kuzvipira kumuchato wenguva refu uye mhuri ine vana.
Ehe kunetsekana nevakadzi vazhinji vakamirira kusvika vasvitsa makore makumi matatu kuti varoorwe, kana kuzvipira kune hurefu-hukama, ndeyekuti ivo ipapo vanonzwa kumanikidzwa kwekuita vana munguva pfupi iri kutevera. Asi ini ndinovaudza kuti kuva nevana muma20s ako, nepo zvingashande kune vamwe vanhu, kune vanhu vakawandisa vane vana vasina kukura zvakakwana kuti vave amai vakuru nababa.
Nekudaro, chikonzero mukunonoka kuroora uye mhedzisiro yacho pamwe nezvakanaka nezvayakaipira zvekuroora gare gare muhupenyu, kuita sarudzo ine ruzivo.
Heano mashoma pfungwa dzandinoda kugovera kuti ndikwanise kubatsira kudzikisa mwero wekurambana uye kuwedzera hutano hwakanaka hwewanano munyika medu:
- Ramba uchinonoka kuroora kusvika wakura muhupenyu. Ndinofunga izvi zvakakosha. Uye ndinonyatsofunga kuti ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvikuru kwazvo zvatinofanira kutarisa, maererano nekugadzira mhuri dzinofara uye dzine hutano mune ramangwana.
- Kurairwa usati waroora. Ndiri gurukota ndakaroora vakaroorana vashoma mukati memakore gumi nemashanu apfuura, uye pakutanga zvaisungirwa kuti ini ndiroore vaviri vaifanira kupfuura chirongwa chedu chevhiki masere vasati varoora.
Makore akati wandei apfuura takatanga kukanda mapfumo pasi, vanhu vaida kuti ndivaroore pagungwa, mumakomo, kunzvimbo dzekuenda asi ivo vaisada kupfuura nekupa mazano vasati varoora.
Pakutanga ndaive ndakanaka nekupfupisa basa rekupa mazano usati waroora, asi ikozvino mushure mekuona mamiriro emichato yedu munyika ino ndadzokera kunoona kuti chero vaviri vandicharoora vapedza chirongwa chevhiki masere vasati varoora.
Iyo vhiki sere chirongwa chekuraira usati waroora kana kuroorwa
Muchirongwa chino chemavhiki masere, tinotaura nezve basa revarume nevakadzi muwanano, tinotaura nezvekurera vana, zvinotarisirwa nemunhu mumwe nemumwe kuti hupenyu hwavo hwepabonde huchaita sekuti, ndiani achabata mari, pachave nechinamato here kana Kunamata kune vese vabereki nevana, pane nyaya here nanatezvara dzatinoda kutarisira vasati varoora, uye nedzimwe nyaya dzakasiyana dzinova nechokwadi chekuti vanhu vaviri ava vari papeji rimwe chete muhupenyu. .
Ndinotenda mushumiri wese, mupirisita wese, chero rabhi anoita michato nhasi, anofanirwa kudzokera kunoona chokwadi chekuti vane chirongwa chakawedzerwa vasati varoora vasati varoora icho vatengi ava vanofanirwa kuzadzisa vasati varoora.
Hapana anosara, hapana anosara zvachose.
- Pane zviripo here vangangoita dhiri mhondi muhukama?
Mubhuku redu rekutanga rinotengesa zvakanyanya "tarisa! Slate zvinangwa zvako ", tinotaura nezve" David Essel's 3% mutemo wekufambidzana ", iyo inonyanya kutaura kuti kana munhu wauri kufunga zvekuroora, ane chero vako vangangoita mhondi, kana ivo vasingade kugadzirisa. uye bvisa mabhureki aya kubva pahukama, ipapo mikana yehukama hunobudirira yakaderera zvakanyanya.
Saka chii chako dhiri mhondi, uye iye wauri mudiwa ane chero chazvo?
"Bata mhondi" ndizvo zvinhu izvo zvausingakwanise kugara nazvo.
Vamwe vanhu havangambogara neanosvuta, saka kana vari kufambidzana nemunhu anosvuta, uye munhu anosvuta asingade kurega, ndichavakurudzira kuti vafunge zvekuenda kure, nekuti hapana chakaipa kupfuura kunamira muwanano kana kuzvipira kwenguva refu kana mumwe wako aine nyaya yaunosarudza haigamuchirwe kwauri.
Kana kuti pamwe urikufunga zvekuroora mumwe wako izvozvi, uye iwe unoda vana uye ivo vanopesana zvachose nazvo. Mira pano chaipo! Iye angave anouraya chibvumirano chandisingakurudzire chero munhu kuenda kumberi nekuroora mumwe munhu anopesana nemaonero padanho iri.
- Kumbira chero uye vese vakabudirira vakaroora kuti iwe uzive, zvavanotenda chakavanzika chekubudirira kwavo ndizvo.
Ichi chishandiso chekare chandakashandisa nevazhinji vatengi vangu ndisati ndavaroora, ndichivaita kuti vasvike kune hama, vanatete, babamunini, sekuru, sekuru, sekuru vadzidzisi vekusekondari, vaimbove varairidzi.
Ndinovaudza kuti vasvike kune vangangoita vashanu vakaroorana vane muchato wakanaka uye vawane kushomeka pane izvo zvinoita kuti zvishande.
Zvinondishungurudza zvikuru kuona michato mizhinji iri muchimiro chinotyisa, nevana vachitambura zuva nezuva, uye ndingafarire kuve chikamu chemhinduro pane chikamu chechinetso.
Chinyorwa ichi chakanyorerwa kutibatsira kutapudza husina hukama hukama nemichato munyika ino uye nekugadzira mhuri dzinofara uye dzinoshanda kwazvo.
Wagadzirira Here?
Tora zvese izvi zvakakomba, ugovane neshamwari dzako, uye pamwe chete tinogona kudzikisira hushamwari hwehukama hwatinoona kazhinji munyika medu. "
Basa raDavid Essel rinotsigirwa zvikuru nevanhu vakaita semushakabvu Wayne Dyer, uye mukurumbira Jenny Mccarthy anoti "David Essel ndiye mutungamiri mutsva wesangano rakanaka rekufunga."
Marriage.com yakasimbisa David semumwe wevakuru vehukama hwehukama uye nyanzvi munyika.
Iye ndiye munyori wemabhuku gumi, mana awo ave nhamba yekutanga yekutengesa zvakanyanya.
Kuti uwane rumwe ruzivo nezve zvese zvinoitwa naDavid, ndapota shanya Www.davidessel.com