Zvemukati
- Kuwana zvakananga kukanganiswa
- Kuva vanotambura
- Kunzwa kuva wega
- Kuenda kubva kune mumwe-mutambi mutambo kuenda kuchikwata mutambo
- Kuchinja kwezvinhu zvinokosha
- Shanduko muhupenyu hwepabonde
Wati "hongu" kuchikumbiro chemukwanyina wako, uye wave kupfugama-gadziriro yekuroora.
Pane zvakawanda zvekucherechedza, kuwana nzvimbo nenzvimbo, kusarudza nekuodha makadhi ese-e-zuva uye mapepa, kusarudza pamamenyu, vangani vashanyi vekukoka, uyezve nedhirezi!
Asi pane chimwe chinhu chingatonyanya kukosha kupfuura zvese izvo zvekutarisa nezvazvo: Shanduko dzinozounzwa newanano muhupenyu hwako.
Takabvunza vakaroora vakati wandei kuti vataure zvavanoona nezvekuti roorano yakachinja sei hupenyu hwavo. Ngatione zvavaitaura.
Kuwana zvakananga kukanganiswa
Virginia, 30, anotiudza kuti aisatarisira shanduko dzakadai muhupenyu hwake. "Mushure mezvose, ini naBruce tanga tichigara tese kwemakore akati wandei tisati tasunga pfumo," anotiudza.
Pakarepo, ndaive neganda mumutambo. Pataive tichingogara pamwe chete, ndaive nepfungwa yekuti ndaigona kubuda kunze kwehukama chero nguva ndisina kunyanya kusunungura zvinhu.
Asi patakaroorana, zvese izvozvo zvakachinja.
Zvepanyama uye zvepamoyo, chaizvo! Zvinhu zvedu zvakabatanidzwa, nemazita edu ese ari maviri kumaakaundi ebhengi, mogeji, mazita emota. Uye isu taingove takabatana zvakanyanya pamoyo semurume nemukadzi.
Kunzwa kwekuva neganda mumutambo, kuti matanda aive akakwirira nekuti kwaive nekuzvipira zviri pamutemo uye kwakadzama kwemanzwiro. Uye ndinochida! ”
Kuva vanotambura
"Kusaroora kana kuroorwa kuita kuroora kwakandibvumidza kuti ndive panjodzi nemukadzi wangu," anodaro Bob, ane makore makumi mana nemaviri.
Ah, chokwadi, patakange tichidanana isu takaratidza edu echokwadi mativi, warts uye zvese, asi kana tangoroorana ndaive nemanzwiro ekuti mukadzi wangu aive zvechokwadi munhu wangu akachengeteka, munhu pamberi pake wandinogona kuva kwete chete "iye akasimba mukomana ”asi zvakare-uye izvi zvaive zvakakosha kwandiri-ratidza kutya kwangu uye kunetseka.
Ndinoziva kuti anogara aine musana wangu. Handina kumbobvira ndasangana nemanzwiro ekuvimba kwakakwana patakange tichingo svirana. Kuroora kwakachinja hupenyu hwangu nenzira iyoyo.
Kunzwa kuva wega
"Handina kubva kumhuri kuenda kumhuri hombe," Charlotte, 35, anogoverana nesu. "Patakange tichidanana ndaiziva kuti Ryan aibva kumhuri iyi hombe, yepedyo, yeKaturike, asi ini handina kunzwa zvakanyanya chikamu chayo kumashure ikako. Kana ini ndanga ndisingade kuenda kune imwe yemabiko avo kana mapati, yaisave chero hombe dhiri. Isu taingova mukomana nemusikana. Ini ndaingova ndega mwana uye handina kumbobvira ndamboona zvazvaive zvakaita kuva nemhuri hombe.
Patakaroora, zvaiita sekunge ndairoora kwete chete Ryan asi nemhuri yake yese. Uye vakanditora sekuti ndaive mumwe wehama dzavo. Zvaishamisa kunzwa iyi pfungwa yenharaunda. Ndinonzwa ndakakomborerwa kwazvo kuti vanhu vazhinji varipo kwandiri. Kunzwa kuva wangu ndiko kwakachinja zvakanyanya pandakanga ndaroora kana kuroorwa. ”
Kuenda kubva kune mumwe-mutambi mutambo kuenda kuchikwata mutambo
Richard, 54, anotsanangura shanduko yake hombe se "kuenda kubva kune mumwe mutambi mutambo kuenda kumutambo wechikwata". "Ini ndaimbove ndakazvimiririra," anodaro. “Ndaifunga kuva munhu akasununguka ndicho chinhu chikuru munyika. Hapana munhu wandinofanira kumhan'arira kwaari, ini ndaigona kuuya nekuenda ndisina kumbozvidavirira.
Uye ipapo ndakasangana ndokudanana naBelinda uye izvo zvese zvakachinja. Patakaroora, ndakaona kuti takanga tava vaviri, uye isu takada manzwiro iwayo ekusava toga.
Vamwe vakomana vanogunun'una nezve 'mukadzi ari bhora uye ngetani dzakatenderedza ankle yavo', asi kwandiri, zvinopesana. Pfungwa yekuti isu vaviri tinoumba chikwata, kwandiri, ndiyo shanduko huru pandakaroora, uye mufaro wangu mukuru. ”
Kuchinja kwezvinhu zvinokosha
Walter, ane makore makumi matatu nemapfumbamwe, anotiudza kuti zvaainyanya kukoshesa zvakachinja zvakanyanya paakaroora. “Pamberi pacho, ndaive ndakanyanya kufunga nezve kufambira mberi kwangu muhunyanzvi. Ini ndakashanda maawa akareba zvisingaite, ndakagamuchira kuendeswa kwemabasa kana zvaireva mari yakawanda uye chinzvimbo chepamusoro, uye ndikapa hupenyu hwangu kukambani.
Asi pandakaroora, zvese izvo zvakaita sekusakosha.
Kuroora kwaireva kuti yakanga isisiri yangu chete, asi nezvedu.
Saka ikozvino, ese angu ehunyanzvi sarudzo dzinoitwa nemukadzi wangu, uye isu tinofunga izvo zvakanakira mhuri. Handichakoshesi basa rangu. Zvandinokoshesa zviri kumba, nemumwe wangu uye nevana vangu. Uye ndingadai ndisina imwe nzira. ”
Shanduko muhupenyu hwepabonde
"Unoziva chii chaizvo chakachinja pandakaroora?" anobvunza Rachel, 27. “Hupenyu hwangu hwepabonde! Semukadzi asina murume, handina kumbonzwa ndakachengeteka zvakakwana nevamwe vangu kuti ndinyatso zorora uye kunakirwa nezvinhu mubedroom.
Ndakanga ndichizvifunga uye ndichinetseka kuti mukomana wangu angave achifungei. Asi vakaroora bonde chinhu chakasiyana zvachose.
Unosvika pakuve nehukama nemumwe munhu waunoda zvechokwadi uye waunovimba naye zvechokwadi.
Izvi zvinondibvumidza kuti ndivhure kune zvitsva zviitiko, ndikurudzire zvinhu zvitsva zvinonakidza zvekuyedza, uye ndisingatye kuti ari kuzondifungira zvisizvo. Chokwadi, hatisi kuzembera panguva yemabiko kuti tirare mune yevaeni yekurara, asi isu tiri kupedza maawa tiri pamubhedha pakupera kwevhiki tichingoona mufaro wakawanda uripo muwanano bonde.
Handingatengese izvozvo neupenyu hwangu hwepabonde ndisati ndaroora nemari yese yepanyika! ”