Zvemukati
- Vanhu vakasarudzika muhupenyu hwako
- Iwe wakakosha kwazvo kwandiri zvitauro zvemumwe wako
- Iwe wakakosha kwazvo kwandiri makotesheni emhuri yako neshamwari
Kune nzira dzakawanda kwazvo dzatingaratidza nadzo munhu watinokoshesa uye kuda kuti anorevei kwatiri. Sezvavanotaura, zviito zviri nani kupfuura mazwi asi dzimwe nguva, mazwi anogona zvakare kusimudzira, kukurudzira, uye kuita kuti munhu anzwe kudiwa.
Unoita sei kuti munhu anzwe kudiwa nemazwi chete?
Iwe unoti sei "iwe unokosha kwandiri" kune avo vanhu vakakosha kwauri? Kunze kwezviito, isu tichiri kupihwa mukana wekuratidza kuti munhu anoreva zvakadii kwatiri nemazwi akanaka anoti iwe unokosha kwandiri.
Vanhu vakasarudzika muhupenyu hwako
Paunenge uri murudo, mazwi ako kumunhu uyu anova anoreva zvakanyanya. Kwete nezviito chete asi kunyangwe nemashoko ako iwe unoda kuzivisa munhu uyu kuti anoreva zvakawanda kwauri. Iwe haugone kutaura zvakananga “wakanyanya kukosha kwandiri ”asi kuburikidza nezviito zvako, urikutovaita kuti vanzwe kuti ndizvo zvavari.
Ivo vanhu vakasarudzika muhupenyu hwedu havangori vedu vevakaroora kana shamwari asi shamwari neshamwari nemhuri zvakare. Zvakajairika kuda kuudza vanhu ava kuti vanoreva zvakawanda kwauri uye kana iwe uchifunga kuti zviito hazvina kukwana, unogona zvakare kushandisa mazwi kuzviita. Usanyara uye utaure kwavari kuti vanorevei kwauri. Kune vabereki vako, murume kana mukadzi, mudiwa, vana, uye shamwari, ita kuti vazive makoshero avanokuita uye kuti unokoshesa sei iwo chikamu chehupenyu hwako.
Kana iwe parizvino uchitsvaga echokwadi, anobata, uye anotapira makotesheni e “unokosha kwazvo kwandiri” quotes kune mumwe wako, mhuri, uye shamwari zvino iyi ndeyako.
Iwe wakakosha kwazvo kwandiri zvitauro zvemumwe wako
Mumwe wako kana wawakaroorana naye mumwe munhu waunoda kupedza hupenyu hwako hwese naye saka zvakatopihwa kuti ndivo nyika kwauri. Senzira yekuratidza rudo, iwe ungazodi kuratidza rudo rwako nekunamata munzira dzakawanda.
"Kana ndichiziva chinonzi rudo, imhaka yako."
- Hermann Hesse
Hapana chinotapira kupfuura mumwe munhu angakuudza kuti awana rudo uye akaziva zvinoreva rudo nekuda kwako.
“Ndiri kunzwa kurwadziwa zvakanyanya kwenyika ino zvekuti ndakapotsa ndarega kusvikira wauya muhupenyu hwangu ukachinja zvese. Waunza tariro nerufaro munyika yangu ndosaka ndicharamba ndichikuda kusvikira narini: unoreva nyika kwandiri! ”
– Hazvizivikanwe
Dzimwe nguva, kune uyu munhu mumwe angango shandura nyika yako. Kubva pahupenyu hunosuwisa uye husina chinangwa kuenda kuhupenyu huzere nemavara uye mufaro.
“Ini ndaive ndega asi wakandichengeta ndakabatikana, ndakasuruvara asi wakaisa kunyemwerera kumeso kwangu, ndakanga ndisina simba asi iwe ukava simba rangu, ndaive ndisina simba uye waive tariro yangu. Handikwanise kuzviona zvakare nekuti rudo rwenyu rwazadza moyo wangu; unokosha kwazvo kwandiri!”
- Hazvizivikanwe
Kana iwe uchida kuudza mumwe munhu kuti "sei iwe uchikosha kwazvo kwandiri" saka unogona kushandisa makotesheni kuvaudza kuti vakachinja sei hupenyu hwako.
“Ndichagara ndichitenda Mwari nezuva randakasangana newe, handimbotenda kuti ndichanyatsodanana zvekuti handikwanise kurega kufunga nezvako. Zvino zvawauya kuzogara munyika yangu, ndinongoda kuti iwe uzive izvozvo unokosha kwazvo kwandiri!”
- Hazvizivikanwe
Kusangana nemumwe munhu angave akakosha kwazvo kwauri, uyo akachinja hupenyu hwako kuti huve nani chimwe chinhu icho isu tese chatinogona kuenderana nacho. Ndiani mumwe watinogona kutenda nekuda kweizvi kunze kwaMwari?
“Muhupenyu hwangu nhasi, handioni mukadzi zvakare asi iwe wega nekuti ndiwe unonyanya pakati pavo. Fungidzira zuva risina kutyisa kurarama kwangu zuva iro kusurukirwa pasina ngirozi senge iwe. Ndinokuda nekuti unokosha kwazvo kwandiri!”
- Hazvizivikanwe
Rudo runoita mazwi ese akanzwika semhiko. Kuudza munhu waunoda kushandisa hupenyu hwako navo uye kuti zvinorevei kwauri chinhu chakanakisa zvechokwadi.
Iwe wakakosha kwazvo kwandiri makotesheni emhuri yako neshamwari
Iwe wakakosha kwazvo kwandiri makotesheni haagumi newawakaroorana naye kana waunofambidzana naye asi ndewe mhuri yako neshamwari. Vanhu ava vanokuda uye vanokuchengeta iwe munzira dzakawanda kwazvo vanokodzerawo makotesheni erudo uye rudo.
“Kuziva iwe wakaunza mwenje wemufaro muhupenyu hwangu uye wakandipa chikonzero chekugara ndichifara mazuva ese. Ini ndinobvumirana nepfungwa dzako nekuti ndinotenda mune ese mazwi ako. Unoshamisa kwazvo pfuma yeupenyu hwangu! ”
- Hazvizivikanwe
Shamwari kana mhuri iyo inosundidzira iwe kuti uve nani uye kuti uve akasimba ndeye yekuchengetedza.
“Unoreva zvakawanda kwandiri, ndosaka ndichikukoshesa zvisina mukare akamboona. Ini ndinobvuma kukoshesa kwako kukuru muhupenyu hwangu kwakazvichinja kuti zvive zvakanakisa. Ndinonzwa mufaro wakanyanya mumoyo mangu; saka haugone kuita pasina iwe, nekuti, unondikoshera! ”
- Hazvizivikanwe
Une chokwadi chine rombo rakanaka kuwana mumwe munhu anenge aripo nekuda kwako kunyangwe paine mikana. Kana iwe uine mumwe munhu muhupenyu hwako - iwe unonzi unokomborerwa.
Munguva yekutambudzika, iwe wakagara neni, munguva dzekusuwa wakandipukuta misodzi yangu. Pese pandinonzwa kusurukirwa iwe unoreva zvakanyanya kwandiri!
- Hazvizivikanwe
Mhuri neshamwari ipfuma yekuchengetedza. Isu tese tinosangana nematambudziko nemiedzo asi sekureba sekunge tine vanhu vanozokutsigira uye kukuda iwe zvisingaite - iwe uchapfuura chero chinhu.
Kuudza mumwe munhu kuti "iwe unokosha kwazvo kwandiri" hakusi cheesy asi asi inzira inotapira kwazvo yekuita kuti mumwe munhu azive kuti unovada uye kuti ivo vanokosha kwazvo kwauri. Usambofa wakanyara kuita kuti mumwe munhu azive kuti unovada.