Zvemukati
Chii chinorehwa nehukama hwepedyo?
Duramazwi rinotsanangura "kudanana" sekuva pedyo kana kusangana pabonde, asi waiziva here kuti kune dzimwe nzira dzekutsanangura kuti kudanana chii?
Nzira inonakidza yekutsanangura hukama hwepedyo ichave iri, kusanganisa kwemoyo. Kushamwaridzana nemumwe wedu kunotibvumira kuti "tione mukati" avo vatinoshanda navo chaizvo uye zvinoita kuti mumwe wedu "atione" mukati medu zvakare.
Chinhu chaunofanirwa kuzvibvunza ndeichi: zvinodii kushamwaridzana kwandiri? Iyi inogona kuve tsananguro yehukama hwehukama maererano newanano kana chero hukama. Kutsanangura kufambidzana ndiko kuona kuti mese mese munowirirana sei.
Kushamwaridzana zvinoreva
Chii chinorehwa nehukama hwepedyo? Chii chiri kudanana kwechokwadi? Uye kufambidzana pasina bonde kunogona here?
Vamwe vari mune zvepfungwa nhasi vanoona hukama hwehukama sehunopfuura kungova vepedyo kana kuita zvepabonde. Tsananguro yechokwadi yehukama haingori chete pamusoro pemiviri miviri inosangana nehukama hwepanyama kana bonde, zvakadzika kupfuura izvo.
'Chii chiri hwepedyo muhukama' kana 'Chii chiri hwepedyo muwanano' inogona kuve nechinangwa chakasiyana kune vanhu vakasiyana.
Pfungwa ye hukama hwepedyo hunosanganisira kudyidzana kubvumirana uko vanhu vaviri vanodzosera nguva dzepedyo uye manzwiro ekuvimbana, kushushikana, uye kusimba panyama kune mumwe nemumwe.
Uyezve tarisa:
Heano madudziro makuru mana ehukama hwehukama uye zvavanoreva kwauri:
1. Ukama hwepedyo
Muri vaviri pamakore akafanana here? Muno “wana” here? Unogona here kutaura 'kusvikira maawa ese ehusiku nezve chero chinhu uye zvese-kunyangwe zvinhu zvakaita sevana nemari? Izvi ndizvo zvinorehwa nedudziro yehukama hwehukama.
Hazvirevi kuti mumwe munhu akangwara kupfuura mumwe; zvakanyanya zvekuti iwe une maitiro akafanana kuhupenyu uye unakidzwa nekutaurirana nemumwe. Unogona kunge uine mazano akasiyana, asi unoshanda kuti ubatane.
Kunze kwehukama hwepanyama uye hwepamoyo hwehukama kuti hubudirire, hukama hunoda imwe nhanho yehukama homogeneity pakati pevamwe.
Hukama hwepedyo hukama ndimo mavakaroorana vanokwanisa kuzvipira uye nekupa kune mumwe nemumwe hupenyu kuburikidza nehungwaru kugona kwavo.
Mitemo yehukama hwepedyo inoenderana nekuti vanhu vane hunyanzvi hwakafanana vanowirirana.
Saka hezvino zvinhu zvishoma zvekuchengeta mundangariro kusunga hukama hwepamoyo:
- Tsvaga uye ubatanidzane nevanhu vane maitiro akafanana uye zvishuwo seyako.
- Tarisa vanhu vane zvakafanana zvavanofarira uye zvinangwa.
- Batanidza nevanhu vane yakafanana seti yekuvimbika uye tsika.
2. Kuswedera padhuze
Chii chinorehwa nehukama hwepedyo maererano nemanzwiro? Kana chii chiri kudanana kwepamoyo?
Kushushikana kwepamoyo muwanano ndepaya apo vaviri vanova nekunzwa kwakasimba kwehukama uye rudo kune mumwe nemumwe.
Hukama hwakadai hunotsanangurwa nematanho anoita kuti vaviri vacho vanzwe kuchengetedzeka, kuvimba, uye kutaurirana.
Paunenge uri padhuze nepamoyo, zvinoreva kuti uri munjodzi. Unorega kurinda kwako pasi uye unonzwa wakachengeteka kuzviita.
Kana iwe uchinzwa rudzi urwu rwepedyo, unogona kutaurirana chero chinhu uye kunzwa kugamuchirwa. Imi mese munokwanisa "kunzwa" zviri kunzwikwa nemumwe munhu.
Vazhinji vakaroorana vanogona kunge vakave pamwe kwenguva yakareba uye vachiri kushaya hukama hwepedyo. Imhaka yekuti iyi ingangove inotyisa. Nguva zhinji, ivo havatomboziva kushomeka kwehukama hwehukama muhupenyu hwavo kusvika zvanyanyisa.
Heano a zvishoma zvinhu zvaunogona kuita kukudziridza kudanana kwepamoyo muwanano yako:
- Shandisa nguva yakanaka nemudiwa wako pasina zvinokanganisa.
- Iva ane mutsa, anoremekedza, ane rudo, uye anonzwira tsitsi kune mumwe wako.
- Wongorora zvinhu zvitsva uye zviitwa zvaunogona kuita nemumwe wako.
3. Kusungwa pamweya
Zvichida chinhu chekupedzisira chaunofunga nezvacho paunonzwa "kushamwaridzana" ndiko kunamata. Asi kana iwe uchitenda kuti Mwari kana imwe simba repamusoro inoda kuti tidanane, zvinoita.
Hatisi pano netsaona, uye neimwe nzira tinowana mumwe nemumwe. Isu tinoumba kubatana kwakasimba. Kana mukaita chisungo chemweya, imi mese munonzwisisana chishuwo chemweya nekutenda.
Iwe unobvumira hukama kuve ne kugona kwemweya.
Sei isu tisingatambudzi vamwe, nekuda kwekuti iwo mutemo? Kwete, nekuti tinotenda kuti hupenyu hwakakosha. Icho chisungo chemweya. Paunowana izvi muhukama hwako hwepedyo, unenge wakabatana nemumwe wako, pamweya.
Hukama hwepedyo hwehukama zvinoreva kuti vaviri vacho pavanozvipira kuremekedza, kuchengetedza, uye nekusimudzira chinangwa chaMwari chehupenyu hwavo.
Kushamwaridzana pamweya kwakadzama uye kwakasimba, uye zvinoita kuti iwe nemumwe wako muve neshanduro dzakanakisa dzenyu.
Inokudzidzisa iwe kukoshesa kuvapo uye kuda kwaMwari muwanano yako uye nehupenyu. Inosimbisa kutenda kwako kwechimwe chinhu chikuru kupfuura iwe uye inoda chibayiro maererano nekudurura pfungwa yako yechisikigo yeudyire.
Hezvino zvinhu zvishoma zvaunofanira kuita kuti uvandudze hupenyu hwako, pamweya:
- Tenda mune chimwe chinhu chakakwirira kupfuura iwe uye mutsigirane kuti musanduke mune zvamunotenda.
- Dzidzira kufungisisa
- Taura nezvenyaya dzako dzepfungwa uye maitiro ekuzvikunda
4. Kutaura zvepabonde
Kuva "wepedyo" pamudzi weshoko "kushamwaridzana," asi izvi zvinorevei? Icho kungori zvepabonde here, kana kuti zvinopfuura izvozvo? Pane musiyano pakati pebonde nehukama?
Tsananguro yehukama hwehukama muhukama zvakasiyana kubva kune vaviri kusvika vaviri.
Asi chirevo chine chekuita nekutaurirana pabonde kana imi mese muchikwanisa kunzwa wakasununguka kuzviratidza nenzira yebonde uye muchinzwa kugadzikana mese pamunenge masvika padanho rakanaka rehukama.
Zvinopfuura bonde chete-urikugovana icho chikamu chakasarudzika chako, uye zvinopesana.
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Yekupedzisira Kutora
Zvese mune zvese, yega yega mhando yehukama chiitiko. Inogona kuchinja, saka shanda pairi nemumwe wako kune hukama hunogutsa uye hunogutsa. Iwe unogona zvakare kutsvaga kwehukama kuraira kuti uwedzere hukama hwako.
Tsananguro dzakagovaniswa pamusoro-dzehukama hwepedyo uye zvazvinoreva kwauri zvinogona kuve hwaro hwakasimba hwekuvaka hukama hwekusingaperi neako akakosha mamwe.
Kutsanangura uye kuongorora kushamwaridzana pamatanho mazhinji, rwendo runonakidza, rwunofanira kutora.