Zvemukati
- Zviratidzo zveBorderline Hunhu Dambudziko
- Kudzidza hukama hwehukama hwekuda mumwe munhu ane BPD
- Humwe hunhu hweBPD hunogona kukanganisa hukama
- Nyaya dzinobva mukutya kusiiwa
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) rudzi rwechirwere chepfungwa chinotambudza chero kubva 1.6% kusvika 5.9% yevakuru veUS.
Vanhu vazhinji vanoonekwa kuti vanehwo sevanhu vakuru vechidiki. Nehurombo, ndiyo nguva yehupenyu apo vanhu vazhinji vari kupedzisa fundo yavo, kutanga kwavo mabasa, uye vari kazhinji kunakidzwa nehukama hwavo hwekutanga hwakanyanya.
Ndeapi mamwe emashoko nezveBPD? Chaizvoizvo, BPD ine zvipfumbamwe zviratidzo zvakasiyana, uye kuongororwa kunoitwa kana munhu aine zvishanu zvezviratidzo izvi.
Zviratidzo zveBorderline Hunhu Dambudziko
- Kutya kusiiwa
- Kusagadzikana hukama
- Kusagadzikana kana kuchinja wega-mufananidzo
- Kunyanyisa kushungurudzika kwemanzwiro
- Kuzvikuvadza
- Hasha dzinoputika
- Kunzwa kwekusava nebasa
- Kunzwa kunze kwekubata neicho chaicho
- Kunzwa kusingaperi kwekusakosha
Zvino, sezvauri kuona, izvo zvimwe zvezviratidzo zvakakomba kwazvo.
Sezvaunogona kufungidzira, vamwe, kana vasiri vese, vanogona kukanganisa chero mhando yehukama hwehukama munhu akawanikwa aine BPD angave ainayo. Takabvunzurudza vanhu vakaonekwa kuti vane BPD nevamwe vavo kuti vadzidze zvakawanda nezve mafambiro avari kuita kuburikidza nehupenyu.
Kudzidza hukama hwehukama hwekuda mumwe munhu ane BPD
Leslie Morris, ane makore makumi maviri nemasere, inyanzvi yekubudirira graphic yemagazini huru yepasi rese. Mumwe wake, Ben Crane, 30, muzvinabhizimusi. Leslie akaonekwa aine BPD pazera makumi maviri nematatu.
Iye anoona chiremba wezvepfungwa kaviri pamwedzi nekuda kwake kweCognitive Behaeve Therapy zvikamu, uye parizvino haatore mishonga. Leslie akatanga, "OMG. Iwe haungatende makore mashanu apfuura, kwete chaizvo, makore masere apfuura kana zvakadaro makore.
Ndakatora nguva kuti ndionekwe. Vanhu vaigara vachiti ndainzwa kutsamwa, asi pandakavesa moto pachikuva changu pamberi paboss wangu sezvo anga atsoropodza mumwe wemifananidzo yangu, akandiperekedza kubuda muchivako ichi. Nyaya refu: Ndakazoonekwa ndiine BPD. ”
Mushandirwi waLeslie ainetseka uye akamuchengeta achishandiswa muchipatara nekurapwa kwekugara.
Ben akapinda mukati, "Ndakadanana naLeslie pandakasangana naye mu gallery. Kuda kwake kwakadzama kwehunyanzvi kwakafanana nechimwe chinhu chandakanga ndisati ndamboona.
Asi tichangotanga kubuda, kushushikana kwake kwakandiomera kubata, uye akaramba achindipomera kuti ndaida kumusiya zvachose. Ini hapana chandaida cherudzi irworwo, asi iye aizoenderera nekuenderera. Zvakanga zvakaoma kwazvo kumubvumidza kuti ndaida kuramba ndiri muhukama.
Ndinopedza nguva yakawanda ndichiongorora mabhizinesi matsva, saka ndakashandisa hunyanzvi hwangu hwekutsvagurudza ndikatsvaga ndikawana nzira dzekuenderera naye. ”
Saka hukama hwaLeslie naBen hwakabatsirwa nekutanga kwaBen kudzidza nezvehurwere hwemumwe wake. Ivo vachiri kuenda vakasimba, asi ngatitarisei zvino pahukama husina kubuda zvakare.
Humwe hunhu hweBPD hunogona kukanganisa hukama
Kayla Turner, ane makore makumi maviri nematatu, ari mudzidzi kuyunivhesiti hombe iri pakati pekumadokero. Aimbova mukomana wake, Nicholas Smith, ndiye achangopedza kudzidza kubva kuyunivhesiti imwe chete.
Kayla akabatwa neBPD aine makore 19. Akataura kuti, "Nicholas ndiye aive wangu wekutanga rudo rwechokwadi hukama. Ndakanga ndakapenga, ndichida murudo naye. Ndaida kuva naye nekusingaperi. Yakanga yakangoita kunge mumamuvhi. Ndakafunga kuti ndawana wandinodanana naye wechokwadi, uye kuti tichagara nekusingaperi. ”
Nehurombo, mushure mekuteedzana kweruzhinji uye imwe njodzi yekutyaira husiku, Nicholas akaputsa zvinhu. Akatsanangura, "Kayla ainakidza, aingoitika pasina munhu wandakamboziva. Humwe husiku akataura kuti tiende nemotokari kuChicago. Yakanga iri nguva yechando uye chimwe chinhu senge makumi maviri pazasi. Ndakaedza kumunyengetedza kuti ichi chaisava chinhu chehungwaru, asi akapinda mumotokari yake ndokutanga kubuda. Ndakatevera mumota mangu kusvika tese tazomira nekuda kwekuvharwa kwemugwagwa.
Panguva iyoyo, ndakaziva kuti chero ndikanzwa sei nezvake, ndaitofanira kubuda. ”
Nehurombo, mamwe ehunhu hweBPD, kusagadzikana, kuzvidzora, uye kunyanyisa kwekuchinja kwepfungwa, kwakaparadza hukama uhu. Nicholas akazviratidza, "Ndanga ndichitya Kayla.
Nyaya dzinobva mukutya kusiiwa
Kutyaira husiku mune yepasi-zero mamiriro ekunze kwaisave kuchenjera kutaura zvishoma. Ini handingambove nemunhu anofuratira kuchengetedzeka kwake zvisinei nekuti ndainakidzwa sei kuva naye. ”
Gardenia Clark ane makore makumi matatu ekuberekwa mugamuchiri ane hunhu hwakanaka uye kuongororwa kweBPD.
Mukomana wake wazvino, Bill Tisdale, haazive kuti ndiye mukomana wake wechitatu mwedzi uno, uye haazive kuti akamunyengedza kufunga kuti ndiye mukomana wake wekutanga munguva refu kwazvo.
Iye anogara achireva nhema kuvarume vaane hukama navo, uye asinganzwisise kuti nei hukama hwake husingagare kwenguva refu; kupinda uku nekubuda kwevakomana kunopinda mukutya kwake kusiiwa, asi anonzwa netariro kuti "anotevera" ndiye "iye."
Iye anobvuma kubiridzira zvishoma munguva yakapfuura uye anoti, “Zvakanaka, ini ndakabiridzira. Kwete yakawanda yakawanda. Uye pamwe haungati iko kubiridzira, asi ndaona vakomana vaviri panguva imwe chete. ”
Bill akatanga ataura, “Ndiri kushamisika kuti mumwe munhu akanaka uye akasvinura saGardenia ari kubuda nechikoro chakafanana neni. Takangobuda kamwe chete. Akandiudza kuti haana kudanana kwenguva yakareba. Ndinonzwa ndakakomborerwa! Ndiri kutarisira kupera kwevhiki rino apo tiri kuenda kukonzati yeheavy metal. Icho chimwe chedu zvido zvatinogovana, uye sezvo ini ndichiziva anosimudzira kuburikidza nebhizinesi rangu reresitorendi, isu tine matikiti makuru. Zvirokwazvo wakakomborerwa! ”
Izvo hazvitore chinomiririra kuona kuti hukama uhu hausi kuzogara kwenguva refu.
Gardenia akasarudza kusagamuchira chero kurapwa kwechirwere chake, uye izvozvi zviratidzo zvake zviri mukuwandisa. Bill haazive zvaari chaizvo. Zvichida iye anowana moyo murefu wekumubata, asi angangorega sezvo paine zvakawanda mundiro yake.
Sezvatinogona kuona, kune zvakasikwa matambudziko kana munhu ane BPD achibatanidzwa muhukama nemumwe munhu. Kana mumwe munhu achida kuenderera mberi nehukama, pane mukana wekudzidza uye kukura.