Zvemukati
- Kufumura kwepedyo uye kudzorera
- Kuzivisa zviri pachena kune munhu asiriye kunogona kukukonzera kushushikana kwemoyo
- "In-To-Me-See"
- Ukama hwepedyo mutsauko pakati pe "Ruchiva" uye "Rudo"
Tisati tataura nezve mafaro, kukosha, uye mirairo yebonde; tinofanira kutanga tanzwisisa kushamwaridzana. Kunyangwe bonde richitsanangurwa sechiito chepedyo; pasina hukama hwepedyo, hatigone kunyatsoona mafaro aidiwa naMwari pabonde. Pasina kudanana kana rudo, bonde rinongova chiito chemuviri kana chishuwo chekuzvishingisa, uchitsvaga kungoshandirwa chete.
Kune rimwe divi, kana tiine hukama hwepedyo, bonde haringosvike padanho rechokwadi remufaro wakarongerwa naMwari asi unozotsvaga kufarira kweumwe pane kwedu kuzvifarira.
Mutsara wekuti "kudanana kwevakaroorana" unowanzo shandiswa chete kureva kusangana pabonde. Nekudaro, chirevo ichi chaicho chirevo chakazara uye chinotaura nezvehukama nekubatana pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Saka, ngatitsanangure Kushamwaridzana!
Kushamwaridzana kune tsanangudzo dzinoverengeka dzinosanganisira kujairirana kana hushamwari; hukama hwepedyo kana hwehukama pakati pevanhu. Yakasarudzika inodziya mamiriro kana runyararo pfungwa yehukama. Kudanana kwemurume nemukadzi.
Asi iyo imwetsananguro yehukama hwepedyo hwatinoda iko iko kuzvizivisa kwehukama hwehukama ruzivo netariro dzekudzosera.
Kushamwaridzana hakuite chete, zvinoda kushanda nesimba. Hukama hwakachena, hune rudo hwechokwadi apo munhu wega wega anoda kuziva zvakawanda nezveumwe; saka, ivo vanoedza.
Kufumura kwepedyo uye kudzorera
Kana murume akasangana nemukadzi uye vova nekufarirana, vanopedza maawa nemaawa vachingotaura. Ivo vanotaura mukati-munhu, parunhare, nekutumira mameseji, uye kuburikidza nenzira dzakasiyana siyana dzezvekudyidzana. Izvo zvavari kuita kuita muhukama hwepedyo.
Vari kuzviratidza-uye kudzosera ruzivo rwevanhu uye rwepedyo. Ivo vanoburitsa yavo yapfuura (nhoroondo yehukama), yavo yazvino (ikozvino kudanana), uye ravo ramangwana (rinouya kudanana). Uku kuburitswa kwepedyo uye kudzoreredza zvine simba kwazvo, zvekuti zvinotungamira kwavari kudanana.
Kuzivisa zviri pachena kune munhu asiriye kunogona kukukonzera kushushikana kwemoyo
Zvepamoyo kuzviburitsa zvine simba kwazvo, zvekuti vanhu vanogona kudanana vasina kumbosangana kana kuonana.
Vamwe vanhu vanotoshandisa kuzivisa zviri pachena ku "Catfish"; izvo zvinoitika apo mumwe anonyepedzera kuva mumwe munhu wavasiri ivo nekushandisa Facebook kana mamwe masocial media kugadzira hunhu hwenhema kuteedzera ehunyengeri online kudanana. Vanhu vazhinji vakanyengerwa uye vakatora mukana nekuda kwekuzvizivisa kwavo.
Vamwe vakaora moyo uye vakatopererwa mushure mekuroora nekuti munhu wavakazviburitsa pachena naye, haachamiriri munhu wavakadanana naye.
"In-To-Me-See"
Imwe nzira yekutarisa hukama hwepedyo yakavakirwa pamutsara unoti "In-to-me-see". Iko kuburitswa kwekuzvidira kwemashoko padanho rega uye remanzwiro rinotendera mumwe "kutiona" mukati medu, uye vanotitendera kuti "tione mukati" mavo. Tinovatendera kuti vaone zvatiri, zvatinotya, uye zviroto, tariro, uye zvishuwo zvedu. Kuwana kudanana kwechokwadi kunotanga kana tikabvumira vamwe kubatana nemoyo yedu uye isu neyavo patinogovana izvo zvinhu zvepedyo mukati memoyo wedu.
Kunyangwe Mwari anoda hukama hwepedyo nesu kuburikidza ne "in-to-me-see"; uye anototipa murairo!
Mako 12: 30-31 (KJV) Uye Ida Ishe Mwari wako nemoyo wako wese, uye nemweya wako wese, uye nefungwa dzako dzese, uye nesimba rako rose.
Ida wokwako sezvaunozvida iwe.
Hakuna mimwe mirairo yakakura kupfuura iyi.
Pano Jesu ari kutidzidzisa isu makiyi mana erudo uye hwepedyo:
- “Nomwoyo Wedu Wose”- Kuvimbika kweese ari maviri pfungwa uye manzwiro.
- “Nomweya Wedu Wose”- Munhu wese wemukati; hunhu hwedu.
- “Nepfungwa Dzedu Dzose”- Hunhu hwedu hwehungwaru; kuisa njere murudo rwedu.
- “Nesimba Redu Rose”- Simba redu; kuzviita tisingaregi nesimba redu rose.
Kutora zvinhu zvina izvi pamwechete, iwo murairo weMutemo ndewokuda Mwari nezvose zvatiinazvo. KuMuda nekutendeseka kwakakwana, nekushingaira kukuru, mukushandisa kwakazara kwechikonzero chakajekeswa, uye nesimba rese rehupenyu hwedu.
Rwedu rudo runofanira kuve ese matatu nhanho ehunhu hwedu; muviri kana hukama hwepedyo, mweya kana hukama hwepedyo, uye mweya kana hwepedyo pamweya.
Hatifanire kutambisa chero mikana yatinayo, kuti tiswedere pedyo naMwari. Ishe vanovaka hukama hwepedyo nemumwe nemumwe wedu anoda kuva muhukama naIye. Hupenyu hwedu hwechiKristu hausi hwekuda kunzwa zvakanaka, kana nezve kuwana mabhenefiti akakurisa kubva mukubatana kwedu naMwari. Asi, ndezve Iye achizarura zvimwe pamusoro Pake kwatiri.
Zvino iwo wechipiri murairo werudo wakapihwa kwatiri kune mumwe nemumwe uye wakafanana kune wekutanga. Ngatitarisei pamurairo uyu zvakare, asi kubva mubhuku raMateu.
Mateo 22: 37–39 (KJV) Jesu akati kwaari, Ida Ishe Mwari wako nemoyo wako wose, uye nemweya wako wose, uye nefungwa dzako dzose. Ndiwo murairo wekutanga uye mukuru. Wechipiri unofanana nawo, ndiwoyu: Ida umwe wako sezvaunozvida iwe.
Kutanga Jesu anoti, "Uye wechipiri wakafanana nawo", iwoyo kuva wekutanga murairo weRudo. Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, tinofanira kuda muvakidzani wedu (hama, hanzvadzi, mhuri, shamwari, uye zvirokwazvo newawakaroorana naye) sekuda kwatinoita Mwari; nomoyo wedu wose, nomweya wedu wose, nepfungwa dzedu dzose, uye nesimba redu rose.
Pekupedzisira, Jesu anotipa mutemo wegoridhe, “Ida wokwako sezvaunozvida iwe”; “Itira vamwe sezvaunoda kuti vakuitirewo iwe”; “Vade nenzira yaunoda kudiwa nayo!”
Mateo 7:12 (KJV Naizvozvo zvinhu zvese zvamunoda kuti vanhu vakuitirei, muvaitire nemiwo saizvozvo; nekuti uyu ndiwo murairo nevaporofita.
Muhukama hune rudo rwechokwadi, munhu wega wega anoda kuziva zvakawanda nezve mumwe. Sei? Nekuti ivo vanoda kubatsira mumwe munhu. Muhukama hwepedyo hwepedyo uhu, nzira yedu ndeyekuti tinoda kuti hupenyu hwemumwe munhu huve nani nekuda kwekuve kwedu muhupenyu hwavo. "Upenyu hwemumwe wangu huri nani nekuti ini ndiri mairi!"
Ukama hwepedyo mutsauko pakati pe "Ruchiva" uye "Rudo"
Izwi rekuti Ruchiva muTestamente Itsva ndiro izwi rechiGiriki rekuti "Epithymia", chinova chitadzo chepabonde chinokanganisa chipo chakapihwa naMwari chebonde. Ruchiva runotanga semafungiro anova manyawi, ayo anozopedzisira aendesa kune chiito: kusanganisira hupombwe, hupombwe, uye kumwe kushatiswa kwepabonde. Ruchiva harufariri kunyatsoda mumwe munhu; kufarira kwaro chete kushandisa munhu iyeye sechinhu kune zvido zvavo zvekuzvisarudzira kana kugutsikana.
Kune rimwe divi Rudo, Chibereko cheMweya Mutsvene chinonzi "Agape" muchiGiriki ndicho icho Mwari anotipa kuti tikunde Ruchiva. Kusiyana nerudo rwevanhu urwo rwunodzosera, Agape ndeyeMweya, chaiyo kuberekwa kubva kuna Mwari, uye zvinokonzeresa kuti ude zvisinei zvisinei kana kudzorera.
John 13: Neizvi vanhu vese vachaziva kuti muri vadzidzi vangu kana muine rudo pakati penyu
Mateo 5: Makanzwa kuti zvakanzi: Ude wokwako, uvenge muvengi wako. Asi ini ndinoti kwamuri, Idai vavengi venyu, ropafadzai vanokutukai, itai zvakanaka kuna avo vanokuvengai, munamatire avo vanokushushai, vanokutambudzai.
Chibereko chekutanga chekuvapo kwaMwari rudo nekuti Mwari rudo. Uye isu tinoziva kuti kuvapo kwake kuri matiri patinotanga kuratidza hunhu hwake hweRudo: unyoro, kutarisira, kusingagumi mukuregerera, rupo uye mutsa. Izvi ndizvo zvinoitika kana isu tiri kushanda muhukama chaihwo kana hwechokwadi.