Zvemukati
- 1. Kutarisa pahukama
- 2. Kuwana pane iro peji rimwe kana kungoziva zvako misiyano
- 3. Kugadzira chirongwa chemutambo
- 4. Kujekesa pane mameseji emuchato
- 5. Kuisa mari muwanano yako
Seye chipangamazano wezano uye murairidzi, ndinoona zvichinakidza kuti vanhu vari kuda kushandisa yakawanda mari, nguva, uye simba pamuchato. Asi kana zvasvika pakuroora, ivo vanowanzo tarisa tarisiro uye kusaisa mari muwanano.
Tine muchato wekupemberera muchato kwete kungoita mutambo mukuru, handiti? Kana iwe uchizoroora, ita kuraira usati waroora zvese chikamu chebhajeti rako remuchato uye roorano. Kuisa mari muhukama hwako kunogona kubhadhara mugove mukugutsikana kwemuchato.
Kune vanhu vanofunga, “Panofanira kunge paine matambudziko” kunyanya kana vaviri vari kuenda kumazano vasati varoora! Counselling inobata yakawanda inoshoreka nanhasi. Asi kurairana kwevakaroora inzvimbo chaiyo yekudzidza nezvayo nekuvandudza hukama.
Hukama hwakavakirwa pasainzi uye vazhinji vedu hatina kumbobvira takadzidziswa (kusanganisira ini kusvika ndazodzidziswa semupi wevanopa mazano) maitiro "ekuita" hukama. Dai izvo zvikaitika, vanhu vazhinji vangadai vakaenda kunopihwa mazano zvinhu zvisati zvaenda "zvakaipa".
Yakurudzirwa - Pre Kuroora Kosi
Wanga uchiziva here kuti vakaroorana vanomirira makore matanhatu kuti vapinde mukuwana mazano mushure mekunge mumwe wako atanga kukumbira? Unogona here kufungidzira uchifamba-famba neruoko rwakatyoka kwemakore matanhatu, ouch!
Kuraira usati waroora kana kuroorwa chinhu chidiki kwazvo chinopinda nevanhu vashoma, vasingazive kuti chinogona kubatsira zvakadaro.
Ngatitarisei mabhenefiti mashanu aunogona kuwana kubva kune-usati waroora kuraira:
1. Kutarisa pahukama
Usati waroora kana kuroorwa, huru yekutarisisa nguva yako iri pakuronga zvemuchato kwete pane mumwe nemumwe.
Pane zvakawanda zvakabatanidzwa uye zvakawanda zvakawanda zvekufunga, kuronga uye kusarudza. Izvi zvinoisa hukama pane unopisa kumashure. Kana uchichinja kutarisisa kudzokera kuhukama iwe unobatanidzazve nemumwe wako nezve izvo zvakakosha kune imi vaviri.
2. Kuwana pane iro peji rimwe kana kungoziva zvako misiyano
Vazhinji vakaroorana vanofunga kuti vari pane imwechete peji kana zvasvika kune zvakakosha zvinhu muhukama. Asi kana Push ikauya kuzosundira hazvisi izvo zvinowanzoitika.
Hukama hunogona kuve hwakaoma uye kana iwe ukaroora mumhuri yemumwe munhu, zvinhu dzimwe nguva zvinogona kuve zvakati omei. Mhuri havaoni ziso rakatarisana pane zvese. Vabereki vako vanogona kukumbira kuti iwe upedze Kisimusi yega yega navo uye vabereki vemumwe wako vangangoda zvakafanana.
Kufunga kuti uchagova sei nguva mukati memazororo ingori yemimwe misoro yakawanda (mari, kuchengetwa kwevana, kurera vana, kuchengeta vabereki vakwegura, mabasa epamba, mabasa, nezvimwewo) unogona kutanga kuongorora nekugadzirisa mukuraira usati waroora kana kuroorwa.
3. Kugadzira chirongwa chemutambo
Timu yega yega yemitambo inobudirira ine murairidzi uye chirongwa chezvemitambo uye saka nemuchato wese unobudirira. Murairidzi wako wekuroora ndiye murairidzi wako, achikutungamira iwe nemumwe wako mukuva nemuchato unobudirira.
Vazhinji vakaroorana vanoti, "Dai ndakaziva izvozvo tisati taroorana." Kurairirana vasati varoora kunogadzirira vakaroorana dutu nehurongwa hwemitambo isati yarova nekukurukura zvinhu izvo vaviri vangatarisana nazvo sekushaikwa kwemabasa kana dambudziko risingafungidzike.
Paunenge uine yakanaka mutambo mutambo munzvimbo yekuti ungabata sei izvo zviitiko, iwe unoziva matanho ekutora uye maitiro ekupindura, pane kuita.
4. Kujekesa pane mameseji emuchato
Isu tese takakura tichigamuchira imwe mhando yemameseji nezvewanano uye hukama, vangave vabereki vedu vaive vakaroora, vakarambana, kana vasina. Isu takazvitora zvese nesu zvakanaka, zvakaipa kana kusava nehanya.
Kuraira usati waroora kana kuroorwa kunokutendera kuti uongorore zvauri kuunza muwanano yako uye kuti zvinoenderana sei nezvinounzwa nemumwe wako muwanano. Kana iwe ukagadzira ruzivo kutenderedza aya mameseji akavanzwa kana kujekesa iwe unosvika pakusarudza pane zvaunoda kuti imba yako ive.
5. Kuisa mari muwanano yako
Kungofanana nekuisa kwako mari mune yako yazvino neyemangwana, ita shuwa yekudyara muwanano yako. Ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvakakosha kwazvo zvaunazvo. Kana isu tichishungurudzika muhukama hwedu hupenyu hunonyanya kunetsa. Kana tichifara muhukama hwedu hupenyu hunenge hwave nani.
Kushanda nemudzidzisi akaroora kana kuroorwa usati waroora zvinobvumidza iwe kuti uone izvo "zvehukama" zvaunogona kuita mubhangi rako repfungwa, kungave kuri kuenda husiku hwehusiku kamwe pamwedzi, muchiitirana zvakanaka, kuzadzisa zviroto pamwechete kana kungo tarisa kwako kusakamurwa.