Zvemukati
- Kutanga, yako yakaparadzaniswa nguva ndeyangu yakaparadzaniswa nguva?
- Uye kumucheto kwakatarisana kwetembere
- Saka munhu wese ane nguva yake yekufambidzana uye tsananguro ye "akapatsanurwa"
- Zvakaoma kuwanda, asi kufambidzana nemunhu akapatsanurwa kwakasiyana
- Uye iwe haudi kuve amateur psychiatrist
- Sarudza kana ino iri nguva chaiyo
- Uye zvakafanana
- Telltale anoratidza kuti ikozvino haisi nguva chaiyo yekufambidzana nemunhu achangoparadzana
- Pakupedzisira, chii chaunofanira kunge uchitsvaga?
Kufambidzana. Hazvingave zvakanaka here kuti dai misi yese isingakanganwike, mafaro-akazadzwa nguva dzemufaro chaiwo dzakashandiswa nemunhu akatipedzisa nekutirumbidza, uye asina nhumbi dzinoperekedza?
Hah! Mune zvakasikwa zvakasikwa, chokwadi.
Asi chokwadi chekupfimbana ndechimwe chinhu zvirokwazvo. Kune marudzi ese ehove mugungwa, sekureva kweye yekare bromide, asi ngatitarisei imwe yemhando dzakasarudzika dzevanhu, kwete hove! : murume kana mukadzi achangopatsanurwa akapinda mudziva rekufambidzana kana gungwa, kupedzisa, kamwechete kwenguva dzose, chirevo chekare.
Kutanga, yako yakaparadzaniswa nguva ndeyangu yakaparadzaniswa nguva?
Wese munhu ane yake yemukati wachi iyo inotonga kufamba kwenguva.
Aurora Wisson, ane makore makumi maviri nemashanu, akarambana nemukoma wake wenguva refu, Judd, mwedzi mitatu yadarika. "Zvinoita kunge zvaive zveupenyu hwapfuura, asi ndinoziva kuti yanga iri nguva yakati wandei. Ini handisati ndagadzirira kupindazve munyika yekufambidzana zvakare.
Shamwari dzangu dziri kuyedza kundimisikidza nguva dzese, asi ini ndichiri mbishi. "Ndinoda nguva yekugadzirisa zvese uye kunyatsonzwisisa zvandinokoshesa ndisati ndadzokera kudanana." Saka, Aurora yaisazove sarudzo yakanaka yezuva panguva ino uye iye anozviziva.
Uye kumucheto kwakatarisana kwetembere
Larry, makore makumi mana nemasere, akaraswa naRosalie, uyo waakange achiona kwemwedzi mitanhatu. “Chokwadi, ndakanga ndagwinhwa, asi handidi kutambisa imwe nguva kufunga mamiriro angu matsva semukomana asina kuroora. Ndakabuda kunze kwehusiku mushure mekunge Rosalie andipa iyo 'ol heave-ho, uye ndakave nezuva nemagal akasiyana neChishanu neMugovera manheru kubva ipapo.
Ini handitombofunga nezvangu senge ndakaparadzaniswa nguva pfupi yadarika, uye anga ave mavhiki matatu ikozvino.
Iwe unoziva chirevo chekare nezve bhiza? Kana iwe ukawira pasi, guruva iwe pachako, uye kukwira kurudyi kumusoro kumusoro pabhiza.
Ndini! ” Larry zvirokwazvo aisazeza kudzoka kufambidzana, asi shamwari dzaLarry dzinogona kuona kuti anonyanya kufarira.
Saka munhu wese ane nguva yake yekufambidzana uye tsananguro ye "akapatsanurwa"
Zvakanaka, iwe wagadzirira kuve kunze kwenyika yekufambidzana. Uye munhu iyeye anonakidza wauchangotanga kufambidzana naye anokuudza kuti iye achangobva kuparadzana. Ndezvipi zvimwe zvinhu zvaunofanira kufunga nezvazvo? Mamiriro ezvinhu ekudanana aya akasiyana papi nehumwe hukama hwaungave uri?
Zvakaoma kuwanda, asi kufambidzana nemunhu akapatsanurwa kwakasiyana
Izvo iwe zvausingade kutora zvemweya kubatanidzwa nemunhu uyu, kungozoziva zvishoma gare gare kana zvakatoipa zvakadaro, nguva yakati gare gare pane iye munhu aive achiri akasungwa pamoyo kumunhu waakange akaparadzaniswa naye.
Uyu mutsauko wakakosha, saka unofanirwa kuongorora kana izvi zviri izvo nekukurumidza sezvazvinogona. Taura chokwadi sezvo iwe usiri kuda kutambisa nguva yako uye haudi kukuvara.
Uye iwe haudi kuve amateur psychiatrist
Kunze kwekunge iwe uchinyatsonakidzwa nekuteerera kune mumwe munhu achitamba uye nekuenderera mberi nezve izvo zvingave zvakakanganisika muhukama hwepamberi hwemunhu iyeye, iwe unofanirwa kungwarira kusvika pachibvumirano kubva pakutanga kuti hukama hwekare hausi iwo musoro mukuru wekukurukurirana.
Izvo hazvisi kwauri kuti ubatsire kuona iyo ins uye kubuda kwenhoroondo mawanga usina chikamu. Inogona kunge iri cliche, asi vamwe vanhu mukwende ndewavo.
Sarudza kana ino iri nguva chaiyo
Kana munhu wauri kutanga kufambidzana naye achiratidzika kunge akavhiringidzika, akashushikana, asingateerere, achigara achiongorora foni yake, zvakachengeteka kufunga kuti iye angori benzi kana, iye kana kuti haana kugadzirira udanane zvakadaro.
Zviponese iwe nguva ichatora iye kana iye kuti azviridze chokwadi ichi kuti azvifire iye, uye neruremekedzo uchienda.
Uye zvakafanana
Kana iwe uchinzwa ino inguva yakakodzera yekuti iwe uve wekudzokera shure asi iwe uchangobva kupatsanurwa, tungamira kumberi nezvazvo, kana iwe uri munhu achangobva kupatsanurwa munhu. Iyi zvirokwazvo inguva apo kutendeseka ndiyo yakanaka mutemo. Kana iwe uri kutarisira kana kutarisira kuti hukama hutsva huchashanda, iwe unofanirwa kuve nenheyo yakasimba yakavakirwa pane kuvimba, kutanga.
Telltale anoratidza kuti ikozvino haisi nguva chaiyo yekufambidzana nemunhu achangoparadzana
- Anoratidzika kunge anotsauswa kana muri pamwe chete. Furtively kana kwete zvakadaro furtively kutarisa foni, kutarisa kure kuchioneka nenzira kazhinji: izvi zvinoratidza kuti munhu uyu haana kugadzirira kudzoka mumutambo.
- Paunenge uri kunze pamwe chete, iye anotora zvinopfuura zvakajairwa nzendo kuenda kuchimbuzi, mota, kana chero kwavanoonekwa. Mumwe mureza mutsvuku unenge uri kana iye achinge aita semakwai, achigwinha kana kukanganiswa kana iwe ukavabvunza zvavave vachiita kana kuti ivo vanga vari kupi.
Bailout izvozvi kuti uzviponese iwe nekushushikana.
Pakupedzisira, chii chaunofanira kunge uchitsvaga?
Kugarisana, hunhu, kuseka, kuvimbika, mutsa, uye kusachinja-chinja: izvi ndezvimwe zvehunhu hwakakosha vanhu vazhinji vangangoda kuve nemumwe wavo.
Ziva kuti izvi zvese zvinoonekwa sehunhu hwemukati.
Nepo murume akanaka kana mukadzi akanaka achinakidza vazhinji vedu, anotaridzika kupera munguva. Kana iwe urimo mukati maro kwenguva refu, funga nokungwarira nezve ako kwenguva refu zvibodzwa muhukama. Izvo zvinangwa zvinogona kuzadzikiswa nemunhu chaiye akapiwa nguva, uye kutanga nemumwe munhu akaparadzaniswa uye akagadzirira kufambira mberi muhupenyu zvinogona kuratidza kuve danho rekuchenjera.