Zvemukati
- 1. Zvipira kune vakaroorana kupa mazano kweinenge mwedzi mitanhatu
- 2. Sarudza kuparadzana kwenguva pfupi
50% yevakaroora muUnited States, kana zvisiri, vanorambana. Iwo manhamba haana kuchinja kwemakore.
Asi zvinofanirwa kunge zvakadaro?
Hazvina. Ini ndashanda nemamwe emamiriro ezvinhu akaipisisa, sekushungurudzwa kwakanyanya muwanano, mune izvo zvinopesana, ndakabatsira vaviri vacho kuchinjisa imba yavo kuva humwe hwehukama hwakadzama uye hwakanaka hwandati ndamboona.
Iko vanhu vazhinji vaiti "vanofanirwa kurambana", ndinogara ndichiti imbomira zvishoma, ngatimbomira tione.
Kana vanhu vaviri, kana kunyangwe kana mumwe chete wavo pakutanga, akabvuma kushandira mabhuti avo, pane zvinhu zvikuru zvakawanda zvatinogona kuita kuchengetedza hukama vasati vafa rufu runononoka, runorwadza.
Heino nyaya yevaviri vandakashanda navo makore apfuura avo vaive padanho rekurambana:
Iye murume anga achidanana, anga asina kana chokwadi chekuti aida kupedza nyaya yacho, uye achiri muchiremera mukadzi wake ari kuyedza kusarudza kuti anofanirwa here kurambana kana kuti kwete. Mhuri yake neshamwari vaimuudza, nekuti akange asina kana hanya yekusiya mudiwa wake, kuti aingoda kufaira nekukasira. Asi pachinzvimbo, ndakagovana naye nhanho mbiri dziri pazasi, iye ndokuvatevera poindi nepfungwa, uye hukama hwakachengetedzwa.
Mushure mekushanda naye kwerinenge mwedzi, murume akapinda ndokutanga kuteedzerawo chirongwa chimwe chete, uye zvakamushamisa uye kushamisika kwemhuri yake, vakakwanisa kudzoreredza rudo rwavo nekuvaka muchato waive wakasimba, wakasimba kudarika nyaya yacho isati yatanga.
Kungo tevera aya maviri akakosha matanho anokupa iwe yakanyanya mukana mukana pakuponesa imba yako. Hezvino izvo zvaunofanirwa kuita-
1. Zvipira kune vakaroorana kupa mazano kweinenge mwedzi mitanhatu
Ini ndinotaurira vese vakaroorana kuti vanofanirwa kuzvipira kana muchato uri mudambudziko rakakura, kusvika pamwedzi mitanhatu yekupangwa mazano. Ini handitendi mune zvechivanhu kuroora kuraira. Muna 1996 takasiya tsika yekurairirana nezvewanano, kwandinoshanda pamwe chete nemurume nemukadzi muawa imwe chete kuburikidza nefoni, Skype kana nemunhu.
Ndakaona kubva muna1990 kusvika 1996 kuti nzira iyi haiwanzo batsira zvachose. Ndakaudza vaviri vangu kuti vanogona kukakavara kumba, sezvavakaita panguva yechirongwa neni, mahara. Kwaive kutambisa nguva yavo nemari.
Asi kana vaikoshesa kuedza kuyedza kuti hukama hwacho hwakakodzera kuchengetedza, ini ndaizoshanda navo mumwe nemumwe kwemwedzi mitanhatu.
Uye mwedzi mitanhatu inowanzo kuve yakaderera nguva yenguva yandakawana kuti inotora kuitira kupora imba yakaputsika kana hukama. Dzimwe nguva zvinogona kutora kusvika pagore. Asi padanho rekutanga, tinovaita kuti vazvipire kune isingasviki mwedzi mitanhatu yekushanda neni imwe chete pasvondo rega kweawa. Naivowo vanozove mabasa epamba. Kunyora Mabasa. Kuverengwa kwemamwe mabhuku. Kana vakatevera chirongwa ichi, pane mukana wakanaka wekuti isu tinogona kutanga kushandura roorano.
2. Sarudza kuparadzana kwenguva pfupi
Kana pakupera kwemwedzi mitanhatu hukama hwacho huchiri kuita kunge hwune nyonganiso, ndinokurudzira saka kuti vaviri vacho vaparadzane. Kugara munzvimbo mbiri dzakasiyana. Kuparadzaniswa kunogona kuenda chero kubva pamwedzi mitatu kusvika kumwedzi mitanhatu, ivo vachiri kushanda neni seye chipangamazano.
Dzimwe nguva simba rakashata iro rakavakwa pamusoro pemakore, rakanyanya kusimba kuti vaedze kushanda kuburikidza ivo vachigara pamwe chete. Vamwe vaviri vandakaita izvi, vaida kurambana miniti yavakapinda muhofisi mangu, vakaona kuti mushure mekupa mazano hakuna kuvabatsira kuchengetedza hukama mukati memwedzi mitanhatu yekutanga, kupatsanurwa pamwe nekupangwa mazano yaive mhinduro kuminamato yavo.
Ivo pavakaparadzaniswa, uye ivo vaviri vachiri kushanda neni pavhiki, vakawana kusagadzikana kuderera, hasha dzavo dzakatanga kugadziriswa, kutsamwa kwakange kwamuka mukati mavo vaviri, kuburikidza nekuparadzana kwakatanga kudzikama .
Yakanga iri mushure mekuparadzaniswa kwemazuva makumi mapfumbamwe apo ivo vaikwanisa kufunga zvakajeka, kuvhura moyo yavo uye kutamisa hukama hwavo munzvimbo yakanaka nyowani.
Kana mushure mekutevera matanho ari pamusoro apa, hukama hwuchiri mukusagadzikana, ndipo pandinoyambira kuti vapfuure pakurambana. Kana vanhu vakatevera nhanho yekutanga uye nhanho mbiri pamusoro, pane mikana yakanaka kwazvo yatinogona kuchengetedza hukama. Asi haina 100% inovimbiswa. Zvirinani kana vakafunga kurambana panguva ino, ivo vaviri vanogona kutarisa kumashure, vachienda vachiziva kuti vakaita zvese musimba ravo kuponesa muchato uye kana hukama.
Kana paine vana, ini ndinokurudzira zvikuru matanho ari pamusoro apa, uchitevera matanho kusvika mukupedzisa. Kana pasina vana, dzimwe nguva vaviri vacho vanozofunga mushure memwedzi mitanhatu yekutanga kana gore rekupa mazano kuti hukama hwacho hwanyanyisa kuenda kunochengetedza.
Munzira ipi neipi, ndinoziva kana vaviri vakaisa simba iri mubasa, kana vakarambana, vachafamba vachidzidza zvakawanda kwazvo pamusoro pavo, rudo uye zvinotora kuumba hukama hwakadzama uye hune hutano uye imba yedu. Chero nzira, zvakakodzera kuedza.
Asi kana usiri kuda kuisa iko zvino, mikana ndeyekuti uchadzokorora iwo mamwe maitiro asina basa muhukama hwako hutsva. Dzora. Tarisa mukati. Ngatiitei basa pamwe chete