Zvemukati
Ichokwadi. Hazvifanirwe kunge zvakanyanyisa kubvuma nekuti ichokwadi chizere.
80% yevakaroora muUnited States of America vari muhukama husina kusimba, husina hutano, uye pamwe hausi kuzochinja.
Ndeipi chikonzero chekutanga cheichi?
Kwemakore makumi matatu apfuura, munyori wekutanga anotengesa zvakanyanya, chipangamazano, uye gurukota David Essel vanga vachibatsira vanhu nevakaroora kuti vazive kuti nei hukama hwakanyanya, uye kuti sei chimiro ichi chichiri kuenderera nhasi.
Pazasi, David anogovera pfungwa dzake pane zvatinofanira kuita kushandura huwandu hunotyisa hwehukama hwedu husina kusimba.
Chikonzero
"Wati wambonzwa here apo vanhu vanoti, mushure mehumwe hukama hwakakundikana," ndinofanira kuva nesarudzo yakaipa "?
Iyo cop-kunze. Iko kune chokwadi chakasarudzika kwazviri, asi zvakanyanya ndeye cop-kunze.
Saka ndechipi chikonzero chekutanga chikonzero chekuti tirambe tichipinda muhukama husina kusimba?
Heino mhinduro, ungave uchida kuinzwa kana kwete.
Izvo hazvina chekuita neako "wekunhonga hukama."
Izvo hazvina chekuita nezvinotaurwa nevanhu vazhinji ndezvekuti vakadzi vanongoda kutsigirwa nemari, uye varume vanongoda bonde.
Asi zvine zvese zvine chekuita neizvi: isu tinoramba kudzikira, tarisa mugirazi, uye tarisa mapatani atanga tichidzokorora zvimwe kubvira zuva redu rekutanga, izvo zvisati zvambotishandira.
Zvine musoro here izvozvo?
Iyo yekutanga nhamba chikonzero chatinopedzisira tava mu husina hukama hukama. Is us!
Hakusi kuti hatigone kuwana varume kana vakadzi vakanaka, kana isu hatigone kusarudza varume kana vakadzi vakanaka, kana ramangwana rerudo harisi kudivi redu.
Izvo zvinongodaro nekuti isu tine usimbe kushandisa nguva, simba, uye mari kutarisa mugirazi uye kuona zvatiri kuita zvisirizvo kakawanda.
Ndinoda chirevo ichocho, "ndimi moga dhinomineta muhukama hwenyu hwese hwakakundikana"
Ichokwadi, uye hapana anoda kuzvibvuma.
Tarisa vhidhiyo ipfupi naDavid Essel pane zvekuita kana iwe uri mune Isingashande rudo hukama.
Isingagumi-kusagadzikana kusagadzikana kwehukama mapatani
Mubhuku redu rinotengesa zvakanyanya, "Rudo uye zvakavanzika zvehukama Izvo munhu wese anoda kuziva!" Isu tinoenda kune zvakadzama tsananguro tichitsanangura maitiro asina kusimba maitiro uye mapatani isu atinotungamira kumberi muhupenyu, zvichaita 100% kufanotaura isu tiri muhukama husina kusimba mune ramangwana.
Iwo mapatani, akaiswa mundangariro dzisinganzwisisike, anotikanganisa kubva pakutsvaga chokwadi, anotikanganisa kubva pakatarisa mugirazi, uye anotidzikisira kubva kune vekuhaya nyanzvi seni, kutibatsira kusvika kuzvikonzero zvepamberi nei hukama hwehukama huchiyamwa.
Iwo mapateni anogona kupihwa iwe kubva paudiki, nekusaziva wakapinda mune yako subconscious paunotarisa amai nababa vako vachirwa, vachikakavadzana, kungoita-zvehasha kune mumwe nemumwe, kuva munhu anoenderana, uye kuzvidza mumwe kune mumwe.
Kana kuti pamwe iwe waive nevabereki vasina kuratidza kubata panyama, vasina rudo rwepanyama, uye vasina mazwi ekusimbisa.
Zvakanaka, mikana ndeyekuti uchazobuda panguva iyoyo uye wodzokorora imwe kana zvese dzidziso yemubereki wako, uye zvese izvi zvakaiswa mundangariro dzisinganzwisisike.
Rangarira, isu tinopa iko kusaziva nekugara munzvimbo dzisina hutano.
Saka kana iwe wakambove mune imwechete, mbiri, kana gumi husina hutano husina hukama hukama uye usati wamboenda kune chipangamazano uye ukashanda kuburikidza nazvo kuti uone kuti chii chako chibvumirano, zvikanganiso zvako ndezvipi, iwo mapatani anoramba akanamira mukuziva, uye uchazozvidzokorora.
Asi kuburikidza nebasa nemupi wezano kana murapi kana wehukama murairidzi, unogona kutanga kuona maitiro auri kutakura kumberi kubva paudiki kusvika kune vechidiki kana pamwe mazuva ako ekoreji ari kukanganisa hukama hukuru.
Kuchinja iyo pateni
Hapana anoda kunonoka uye kutora nguva mushure mekutadza kusabatana kwehukama kuti uone kuti redu basa nderei uye ndinobuda sei kubva kune husina hukama hwehukama maitiro.
Tinoda kunongedzera chigunwe uye chiite kuti chionekwe senge imhosva yemumwe munhu, tobva taenda tozongodzokorora zvakashata zvinhu zvekare!
Chero ani anogona chinja maitiro epfungwa dzisinganzwisisike kuburikidza nerubatsiro rwehunyanzvi uyo anoda zvechokwadi.
Saka kana iwe wagadzirira rudo rwakadzama, gadzirira kutora kanokwana mwedzi mitanhatu kubva, hapana kufambidzana zvachose, uye shanda nenyanzvi kuti usvike panotangira nyaya dzako.
"Ukagadzirisa nyaya dzako, unovhura musuwo wekuti Rudo ruwedzere."
Basa raDavid Essel rinotsigirwa zvikuru nevanhu vakaita saMushakabvu Wayne Dyer nemukurumbira Jenny Mccarthy vanoti, "David Essel ndiye mutungamiri mutsva wesangano rakanaka rekufunga."
Basa rake semupi wezano uye gurukota rakagoneswa nePsychology Nhasi neMarriage.com yakasimbisa David semumwe wevanopa mazano makuru uye nyanzvi dzehukama munyika.
Kuti ushande naDavid kubva chero kupi kuburikidza nefoni kana Skype kuti hupenyu hwako hwerudo hudzokere panzira, mumushanyire pawww.davidessel.com.