Zvemukati
Kuwana mukwanyina akakwana kana mudiwa hakuna kufanana nekuwana iye munhu akakwana wekuswera wakasurukirwa zhizha naye.
Zvinoreva kutsvaga munhu waunogona kuda uye kuchembera nemunhu waunozviona uchida makore makumi mana, makumi mashanu, uye nekuwedzera makore munzira.
Kutsvaga nekusarudza munhu waunoda kuroora uye kushandisa hupenyu hwako chisarudzo chakaomesesa, uye ndechimwe chinoda basa rakakomba, uye kutendeseka kwakawanda nekufungisisa.
Asi rese basa rakaomarara rinobhadhara kana iwe wawana iye akakosha munhu uye wotanga kurarama hupenyu hwemufaro!
Kuwana mudiwa akakwana hakusi nezve rombo rakanaka, asi nezve kugadza chinangwa uye kuyedza kuchizadzisa.
Aya anotevera matipi anogona zvechokwadi kukubatsira iwe kuwana akakodzera murume kana murume
1. Zvide
Imwe yedzakareruka nzira dzekuwana wekuroora uye kuona kuti iwe wakazvipira iwe kune chaiye munhu nekuda kwezvakanaka zvikonzero kuzvida iwe usati wawana munhu wekuzopedza hwako hwese hupenyu.
Kuzvida hazvireve kuti iwe unofanirwa kuve unofara 100% nezvauri, asi kana usiri kufara newe pachako, zvinogona kuitika kuti unopinda muhukama nemumwe munhu nekuti munhu iyeye anoita kuti unzwe zvakanaka nezvako .
Ehezve, iye munhu waunosarudza kushandisa hupenyu hwako naye anofanira kukupedzisa, kukuita kuti unzwe wakakwana semunhu wega, asi zvakakoshawo kuti uzvide iwe pachako kuti ugone kunyatsonzwisisa apo munhu waunoda kuroora anoita kuti unzwe zviri nani !
Muchidimbu, zvakakosha kuti iwe ufare nezvauri, chitarisiko chako, uye zvaunoita.
Izvi hazvingosimudzire chivimbo chako chete, zvichiita kuti zvive nyore kwauri kukwezva vanhu, asi zvakare zvinokubatsira iwe kuwana munhu anoshamisa zvakaenzana uyo achaita kuti hupenyu hwako huve nani uye ufare, uye kwete mumwe munhu aripo chete kuzadza maburi mukati hupenyu hwako husina mufaro, kana iwe uri parwendo rwekutsvaga wekuroora.
2. Iva anofara kuva wega
Kuva usina kuroora kana shamwari dzako dzese dzepedyo dzakaroora kana kufara, kana kufambidzana ndiyo imwe yemanzwiro akashata kwazvo pasirese.
Unogona kushuva rudo kupfuura chero chinhu, uye zviri zvakasikwa kuti unzwe kusuwa uye kusurukirwa kana usiri kukwanisa kuzviwana. Asi, chakakosha chikamu chekuda zvauri iwe kuda kushandisa nguva newe.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti iwe uwane nzira dzakasiyana uye zvinhu zvinokuchengetedza iwe kufara uye kufarira pasina chakakosha chimwe.
Izvi zvakare zvinokubatsira kuti unzwe kutori nani pamusoro pako kana iye akasarudzika mumwe munhu akauya!
Vanhu vazhinji vanokanganisa kushamwaridzana nerudo. Kana iwe uchinzwa kusuruvara uye kusuwa wega, ipapo unogona kuve unonyengerwa nyore nyore nechero ani anopinda muhupenyu hwako uye anokupa iwe chimwe chinhu chekuita.
3. Wana ruzivo
Kana iwe uchikwanisa kuwana rudo rwako rwekutanga kana uine makore gumi nematanhatu, saka iwe uri mushoma uye une rombo rakanaka kwazvo. Nekudaro, vanhu vazhinji havaroore wekutanga, wechipiri, kana kunyangwe musikana wavo wechishanu kana mukomana.
Kudanana nevanhu vazhinji kunokubatsira kuti unzwisise nzira dzakasiyana idzo hukama hunogona kushanda, uye zvakare zvinokubatsira kuti unzwisise masimba asingagumi uye mafomu anogona kuve nehukama.
Izvi hazvireve kuti iwe unofanirwa kusiya munhu waunoda kungoona zviri kunze uko.
Asi, kana iwe uchinzwa kuti iwe unongo "nyatsofara" nemumwe wako uye usati wambofambidzana nemumwe munhu, saka zvirinani kuedza kufambidzana nevamwe vanhu pane kugadzirisa.
Kudanana nevanhu vakawanda zvakare kunokubatsira iwe kudzidza maitiro ekukanganisa, uye kunoita kuti iwe uwedzere kuva nechokwadi chekuti wauchazoroora naye ndiye 'iye' uye izvo zvaunonzwa kwavari zvakakosha.
Kuwana ruzivo rwepabonde hakuna kuipa kana.
Kana iwe wakambove uine vashoma vadyidzani usati wasangana neako akasarudzika mumwe munhu, zvinokubatsira iwe kunyatso kuva nechokwadi chekuti kemesitiri pakati pako chimwe chinhu chakakosha zvechokwadi.
Zvakare, kana iwe ukafunga kuzvipira kumunhu wekutanga wawave naye usina kumbofara zvechokwadi, unogona kupedza iyo hupenyu hwako hwese uchizvibvunza kuti chii chingave chakaitika dai iwe usina kudaro.
4. Sarudza hunhu hwauri kutsvaga mumurume / mukadzi
Kunyangwe iwe ungatombo nyatso kuziva kuti wako waunofambidzana naye ndewe kusvikira wavhara maziso navo uye uchinzwa nyika yako yese ichimira, unogona zvirokwazvo kufunga nezvehunhu hwauri kutsvaga zvakanyanya mukutsvaka kwako wekuroora.
Humwe hwehunhu uhwu hunogona kuve hwakakosha zvekuti hautombotarisa munhu seanogona kuroora kana vasina.