Zvemukati
- Iwe ndiwe pachako kana ivo varipo
- Iwe une zvakafanana tariro uye zviroto uye ivo vanokutsigira iwe
- Iwe unogona kubvuma kukanganisa kwako uye kusasimba pamberi pavo
- Kukakavadzana nekurwa hazvikuodza moyo kuti uenderere mberi
- Ivo vanoita kuti iwe ude kuva munhu ari nani
- Kufara kwavo ndiko kufara kwako uye kwako kuri kwavo
- Kutsvaga wako wemweya
Unozviwana here uchibvunza mubvunzo wakakodzera, "Ndiri kuroora munhu chaiye here?" kana kuti waenda uchitsvaga mhinduro kumubvunzo, "kuziva sei munhu chaiye wekuroora?"
Panouya nguva muhukama hwese vanhu pavanotanga kushamisika kuti munhu wavanaye ndiye munhu chaiye wekushandisa hupenyu hwavo hwese naye kana kwete. Kunyangwe hazvo, hapana kana muyero unoyera kusimba kwehukama hwako nemumwe munhu uye ndokuudza kana ivo vari "iye mumwe", pane zvishoma zviratidzo munhu anogona kuverenga nekutarisa kuti azive kana vari nemunhu chaiye kana akanamira. nemumwe munhu wavasingafungidzire hupenyu naye.
Kutsvaga munhu chaiye wekuroora? Iwe unofanirwa kukoshesa mune zvakati wandei kupfuura kungoita kuseka, runako uye kugadzikana kwemari.
Pahukama hwese, panogona kuuya nzvimbo dzinoongorora dzinoverengeka idzo, kana dzikatariswa zvakaringana, dzinogona kubatsira vanhu kupedzisa hukama hwacho kuva mavambo anobudirira ehupenyu hwewanano. Mamwe mashoma eaya mapoinzi akatsanangurwa muchinyorwa chino kuti akubatsire iwe kuwana iyo nguva yekujeka iwe wanga uchitsvaga.
Iwe ndiwe pachako kana ivo varipo
Unoziva sei kuti uri kuroora munhu chaiye? Ita chinyorwa chepfungwa nezvemaitiro ako ekuzvibata pavari uye yako nhanho yekureruka.
Nepo vazhinji vedu tichiedza kuve yakanakisa vhezheni pachedu patinenge tiine munhu watangosangana naye uye tichida kusiya chiratidzo chenguva refu pavari, kana iwe wapedza yakakwana nguva kusvika pakuziva mumwe munhu wauri kutarisa sewe waunogona kuve naye hupenyu, iyo nhamba yekutanga poindi yekuita maringe nemabatiro aunoita maitiro uchivatenderedza.
Kuziva sei iwe wakawana iye wekuroora? Kana kuvapo kwavo kuchikuisa kurerukirwa uye usingazeze kuratidza mativi ako ese usingatyi kutongwa, pane mukana wakanaka wekuti wawana waunoda kushandisa hupenyu hwako hwese.
Kana ndataura izvozvo, ino yekutarisa yega haigone kuve sarudzo. Kune zvimwe zvinhu zvinoda kuverengerwa mukati futi nguva yekujekesa isati yasvika.
Iwe une zvakafanana tariro uye zviroto uye ivo vanokutsigira iwe
Kutsvaga munhu chaiye wekuroora? Unofanirwa kutanga watarisa kana uine zvimwe zvinangwa pamwe nekutenda.
Iye munhu waunoda kushandisa hupenyu naye haafanire kungove iye waunogona kuve iwe pachako padhuze. Ivo vanofanirwa kugona kuziva nekunzwisisa zvinangwa zvako nezviroto uye nekukutsigira mukuzvizadzisa. Kana iwe uchigona kugovana zviroto zvako nemumwe wako akakosha uye uwane rutsigiro rwavo rusingagumi mukuzviita, saka unogona kunge wawana iyo yaunoda kuti urarame hupenyu huzere nemufaro uye nezviri mukati.
Munoziva sei kuti iwe wawana iyo ndeye apo iwe paunenge uchida kufamba nenzira imwechete, uchigamuchira kusakwana kweumwe neumwe uye iwe unoziva kuti munogona kupfuura chero chinhu, pamwe chete.
Iwe unogona kubvuma kukanganisa kwako uye kusasimba pamberi pavo
Imwe yemafungiro ekutsvaga munhu chaiye wekuroora ndeyekuti hauchatya kutya kubvuma kukanganisa kwako pamberi pavo.
Zvakaoma kune vanhu vazhinji kuti vagamuchire kukanganisa kwavo uye vobvuma kushaya simba kwavo pamberi pevamwe. Kupa hunhu hwako pamberi pevamwe uye kubvuma kuti wakanganisa kunotora hushingi hwakawanda, hwacho husingawanzo kuwanikwa mune vazhinji vedu. Asi kana iwe uine mumwe munhu iwe unogona kugamuchira zvikanganiso zvako futi, pasina kunzwa kunetseka kana kutya kuninipiswa, uye kana vakafarira kutendeseka kwako, iwe uchaziva kuti ivo vanogamuchira kutendeseka kwako uye vangangotadza kukupa iwe nguva yakaoma yekuwedzeredza zvinhu zvisizvo.
Ungaziva sei wekuroora? Zvakanaka, chimwe chezvinhu iwe chaunofanirwa kukoshesa mukutsvaga munhu chaiye wekuroora ndechekuti hupenyu hunoshandiswa nani nemunhu anokugashira zvauri uye anokukurudzira kuti uve nani pane iye anoedza kukuchinja nguva dzese unokanganisa uye unokunda paunozvitambira.
Kukakavadzana nekurwa hazvikuodza moyo kuti uenderere mberi
Muhukama hwese, kurwa nemakakatanwa ane zvimiro zvisingafadzi kune vese varume nevakadzi. Ichokwadi zvakare kuti munhu wese anoita nenzira yake kukakavara nemakakatanwa. Paunowana munhu chaiye hauzobatanidzwi mukukweva kwehondo kusingaperi. Iwe uchawana mumwe wako achiedza kugadzirisa zvinhu zvakanaka uye zvakaenzana achida kuisa mune basa kuti riwane resolution.
Kiyi yekuwana munhu chaiye wekuroora kugona kwako kugadzirisa-kugadzirisa.
Asi kana imi mese muchitaurirana zvamunofunga uye muchida kugadzirisa misiyano yenyu nenzira isingaite kuti basa renyu rakaoma rive risina maturo uye isinga dhaye bhiriji pakati penyu imi vaviri, ipapo moziva kuti mawana iyo. Kuwana munhu chaiye wekuroora ndekwekutsvaga iye munhu iyeye anotenda mukugadzirisa kusawirirana uye ari kuda kuve pachikwata chimwe chete newe kurwisa nyaya dzewanano, kwete iwe.
Ivo vanoita kuti iwe ude kuva munhu ari nani
Kiyi yekuwana munhu chaiye wekuroora ndeyekuva nemumwe munhu anounza zvakanaka mauri.
Isu tese tine hutera hwatisingadade nahwo uye tinowanzohwanda kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Kana chako chakakosha chimwe chichiita kuti iwe ude kutarisa zvaunokanganisa kumeso uye kukukurudzira kuti ushande pairi, mikana iripo, havadi kungopedza mwedzi mishoma kana makore newe, asi vari muhupenyu hwako nekusingaperi.
Unoziva sei kuti ungaroora ani? Kana mumwe wako ari kurudziro yako kuti uve shanduro iri nani yako uye kana kuva padhuze navo kuchiita kuti ude kushandira pane zvaunoshomeka uye nehunhu hwako, saka wawana munhu akakukodzera.
Kufara kwavo ndiko kufara kwako uye kwako kuri kwavo
Kushushikana pamoyo ndiko kufambira mberi kwehukama hwese hwepedyo. Vanhu vanowanzovimba pane mumwe nemumwe munguva dzenhamo nemufaro. Nekuti une hanya nemumwe, kugadzikana kwavo kwepamoyo ndicho chinhu chako chekutanga, uye chako chakakosha zvakanyanya kwavari futi, chii chinoita kuti vafare chinoita kuti iwe ufare, uye zvinopesana?
Kana mutauro wako wepamoyo unonzwisiswa zviri nyore navo uye uchikwanisa kududzira zvavasingataure pasina chinonetsa, wawana wako wepamoyo. Kuwana munhu chaiye wekuroora ndekwekutsvaga iye munhu mumwe chete anoda kunzwira tsitsi newe nekukutsigira usinga zive kuremerwa nematambudziko ako.
Kutsvaga wako wemweya
Paunenge uri pakutsvaga wekuwana munhu chaiye wekuroora, unofanirwawo kufunga kuti kana vaine hunhu hwemunhu ane hunhu - kuda kubatsira vamwe, tsitsi, kugona kuregerera, kutevedzera tsika dzakanaka uye hunhu?
Kutsvaga mweya mweya hakusi nyore. Mukutsvaga kwekuwana munhu chaiye wekuroora, tinosangana nevanhu vazhinji muhupenyu hwedu vatinofunga sevatinogona kuve navo asi tinopedzisira taparadzana navo nekuti hatizive chekutarisa mune mumwe munhu kuti tizive kana ivo ndivo munhu akakodzera kwatiri.
Paunenge wawana iyo, iwe unonzwa uchitenda zvisingaite, wakakomborerwa uye imi mese muchazvipira zvakakwana kuti muedze pakuve nehukama hwakanaka.
Nekudaro, kuwana iye chaiye munhu wekuroora haisiriyo cakewalk, saka usamhanyire mazviri.
Kana iwe ukaona kuti kune zvinoramba zvichingomuka muhukama hwako izvo zvisingagadziriswe, usazvitsaure. Kuzvipa kune chisina kukoshesa chimiro chehukama hwako chaunogona kutarisa neziso kune yakagadziriswa nzira yenjodzi. Zvakare, usazvinyengerere nekutenda kuti mumwe munhu waunoda achachinja.
Imba inobudirira inowana yakawanda yekuedza, rudo, uye kunzwisisa. Usamhanye kupinda muwanano kana paine kushomeka kwekujeka pane chero chinhu chehukama hwako.