Zvemukati
- Chidiki chenhoroondo
- Saka chii chaizvo chinoita shamwari ine mabhenefiti hukama?
- Musiyano uripo pakati peshamwari dzine mabhenefiti uye hukama hwepabonde
- Uye yakakurumbira tsika inotaura
- Izvi zvingashanda sei chaizvo?
- Mimwe mirayiridzo inonzwisisika yehukama hweFWB
- Nyika haisi nzvimbo diki
- Mimwe mimwe mitemo
- Uye vakagara vachifara nekusingaperi
Shamwari dzine bonde. "FWB" sezvaungave uchiziva nayo.
Ichi chinhu chave chiripo kwenguva yakareba kwazvo, asi chaenda nemazita mazhinji akasiyana kana mazita: bonde zvisina kujairika, vasingaite zvekurara nevarume, shamwari dzevakaroorana, vanozivana navo, zvekusvirana, kuponda shamwari, shamwari dzemubhedha, shamwari dzinopamba, kubatanidza uchi, uye vanobatana muchiuno.
Zvizhinji zvezviitiko zvevanhu zvinove zvepedyo kana zvemuviri mune zvakasikwa zvine mazwi mazhinji ekutaura kana mazwi anodzvinyirira kana kuvanza zviri kuitika chaizvo. Funga nezve ese mazwi iwe aunoziva e "kurutsa" uye "kudhakwa".
Zvese iwe zvunofanirwa kuita kutarisa kuUrban Dictionary kuti uwane mazana emazwi matsva eaya chaiwo emunhu mamiriro. Asi dzokera kushamwari nezvakanakira bonde.Chii chiripo kuziva nezvazvo?
Chidiki chenhoroondo
Ngatitangei pakutanga.
Kudzoka mumazuva emubako, Ned, wekuNeanderthal ndiye angave ari munhu wekutanga akaita hushamwari nebhenefiti bonde naNancy weNeanderthal. Mune mamwe mazwi, zvingave zvakanaka kutaura kuti FWB bonde yakagara iri chikamu chevanhu.
Nekuuya kwekutaurirana kwakapararira mune ayo ese mafomu, FWB inongotaurwa nezvayo uye inogamuchirwa muzana ramakumi maviri nemasere kupfuura zvayaive munguva dzekare.
Kunyangwe kana isingagamuchirwe uye / kana kutenderwa nevazhinji mazuva ano inyaya imwe nyaya. Icho chisarudzo chako uye chinoenderana nedzidzo yako uye maonero ebonde. Ingo rangarira mupfungwa kuti inogamuchirwa sechikamu chenzvimbo yepabonde kune vanhu vazhinji. Nezvo senge iyo yekutamba munda uye kumashure, ngatitarisei zvakanyanya shamwari dzine bonde pabonde.
Saka chii chaizvo chinoita shamwari ine mabhenefiti hukama?
Kutanga kubva, kushandiswa kweshoko rekuti "hukama" kuri kutambanudza zvishoma. "Kurongeka" ingave iri nani izwi.
Shamwari dzine mabhenefiti dzinogona kutariswa seizvi: vanhu vaviri vanokwezva kune mumwe nemumwe pabonde, asi havadi kuzvipira kwehukama. Ndiyo tsananguro yemapfupa asina kupfeka.
Iko kune, chokwadika, misiyano pamusoro penyaya iyi. Iko hakuna kazhinji kunogamuchirwa kwenguva kana muganho wenguva pane iyi mhando yegadziriro.
Musiyano uripo pakati peshamwari dzine mabhenefiti uye hukama hwepabonde
Shamwari ine mabhenefiti hukama inogona uye inowanzo shanduka kuita yehukama hwehukama, asi hukama hwehukama husingawanzo kuve hweshamwari ine mabhenefiti hukama, kunyange izvi zvichiitika pano neapo.
Uye yakakurumbira tsika inotaura
Izwi rekuti "shamwari dzine mabhenefiti" rakazove rakanyanya kuzivikanwa uye rakatenderedzwa nekuda kwemufirimu wa2011 une zita iro, nyeredzi Mila Kunis naJustin Timberlake.
Ehezve, iyi rom-com inotarisana nekutenda kana kwete iyo nyeredzi mbiri dzinogona kuve neshamwari ine mabhenefiti hukama hunobva muhukama hwavo. Uye mune yechokwadi fashoni yeHollywood, matambudziko anouya kana manzwiro chaiwo akaonekwa, uye hukama hwavo hweFWB inova hukama hwakadzama, hune chinangwa.
Izvi zvingashanda sei chaizvo?
Kune vamwe vanhu, gadziriro yeFWB yakanyatsokodzera. Mamiriro ezvinhu, uko izvi zvaizoshanda, zvakawanda. Kana munhu akabatikana chose chose nebasa, mutambo, chitandadzo, uye achingoda imwe nguva kana yenguva yekuita chirongwa cheFWB, uye ane waanofambidzana naye zvakafanana kana mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana, mikana ichashanda.
Kukoshesa hakufanirwe kupinda mumamiriro ezvinhu, kana kunzwa kwekuzvipa mhosva, kwechitendero kana neimwewo nzira. Pane chero munhu ari kukuvara here? Aihwa.
Mimwe mirayiridzo inonzwisisika yehukama hweFWB
Sezvo uku kusiri kwekudanana, zvakakosha kutanga mirawo mirawu yekutanga.
Mapato ese ari maviri anofanirwa kuve nehurukuro yakajeka uye yakajeka pamusoro pekuti ichi chii, uye zvakakosha zvakafanana, chii ichi chisiri.
Miganhu inofanira kubvumiranwa.
Akasarudzika mukwikwidzi wehukama hweFWB mumwe munhu waunokwezva kwaari asi asiri chikamu cheshamwari yako yepamoyo.
Nenzira iyoyo kana uye kana gadziriro yako ikasashanda, hauzopinda mungozi kupinda maari kana iye pakuungana kwekutandara. Izvo zvinogona kuve zvisinganetsi ndosaka zviri nani kuwana mumwe munhu asina hukama nechero shamwari dzako.
Nyika haisi nzvimbo diki
Zvakafanana nekusava neFWB kurongeka nemunhu kubva padenderedzwa reshamwari dzako, zvingangodaro zvine hungwaru kusarudza munhu asingagare akatenderera kona kana pane yako block.
Iwe haudi kuona munhu uyu pese paunobuda kunze kwako gonhi, kana kana uri kuchitoro uchisarudza chikafu chemangwanani kana kushambidza muromo. Geographical distance inguva yekuwedzera kana iwe uchibatanidzwa mune shamwari ine hukama hwehukama. Ehe, kana iwe uchifanira kuyambuka mitsara yenyika, izvo zvinogona kunge zviri kure zvakanyanya!
Mimwe mimwe mitemo
Zviripachena, (uye kune vazhinji, mutemo wakaomesesa kuchengeta), haufanire kuyambuka iyo tambo uzere nekuchiva kuzere uye kudanana.
Vaviri vadyidzani vanofanirwa kunge vari papeji rimwe chete kubva pakuenda pane izvi. Imwe mhedziso: shandisa kuberekwa. Iyi ingave iri imwe yenguva dzakaipisisa zvinogoneka kune vaviri vaviri kusangana nemimba isina kurongwa.
Imwe yepasirose tenet yeFWB haisi basa rinorema rekumanikidzwa, uye nhumbu isina kurongwa ndizvo chaizvo izvo.
Vaviri vadyidzani vanofanirwa kuramba vachitumira mameseji kushoma, iyi haisi yako BFF. Chengetedza chiso chako kumeso kukurukurirana kwakareruka. Uyu haazi iye munhu waunofanira kuburitsa naye zvakadzama zvakavanzika zvemanzwiro kana yakasimba manzwiro ezvematongerwo enyika; unogona kuona kuti mumwe wako ane zvematongerwo enyika zvinopesana nezvako zvaunotadza kubvumirana nazvo.
Uye vakagara vachifara nekusingaperi
Eee, kwete. Iyo yekupedzisira ngano kupera ndeye rudzi rwakasiyana rwehukama. Asi ndeipi nzira yakanakisa yekupedzisa hukama hweFWB? Nyore. Kunyange ichiri kufamba zvakanaka. Nenzira iyoyo hapana mukana wekuti itendeuke kumaodzanyemba.
Zano rakanakisa kungave kuripedza nekukurumidza, sekubvarura bhendi-rubatsiro, zvinogona kukuvadza kwemasekondi mashoma, asi zvadaro zvapera.