Zvemukati
Zvinoshamisika here mazuva ano kuti vanhu vane tarisiro dzisiri dzechokwadi nezvehukama? Hazvina kungoita kuti vanhu vari kutsvaga mumwe munhu ari "kunze kwechikwata chavo" - vari kutsvaga chimwe chinhu chisipo. Sevana, tinokura tiine nyika dzekufungidzira uye rudo rwekufungidzira - uye vana ivavo vanokura vachitsvaga chimwe chinhu kubva mungano kana bhaisikopo. Idi rekuti vanhu vazhinji vanoona hukama nenzira iyi haringoerekani; midhiya inokanganisa zvakanyanya nzira iyo kudanana kunoonekwa munyika yanhasi. Kutarisa nekukurumidza paCulturement Theory kunobatsira kutsanangura mashandisiro akaita vezvenhau nepop tsika kuti vanhu vatarise sei hukama hwehukama.
Dzidziso yekurima
Dzidziso yekurima inyanzvi kubva mukunopera kwema1960 iyo inoratidza kuti nzira dzakakura dzekutaurirana senge terevhizheni kana internet zvishandiso izvo nharaunda inogona kuparadzira pfungwa dzayo nezvehunhu hwayo. Iyi ndiyo dzidziso inotsanangura kuti sei munhu anoona utsotsi achiratidza zuva rese anogona kutenda kuti huwandu hwematsotsi munharaunda hwakakwira kupfuura zvavari chaizvo.
Aya maitiro haafanire kuve echokwadi kuti apararire; ivo vanofanirwa kungotakurwa nemaitiro akafanana anotakura mamwe ese mazano. Mumwe anogona kutarisa iyo Yekurima dzidziso kuti anzwisise kuti mafirimu uye terevhizheni zvinoratidzira zvakadzikisira sei pamaonero edu epasi. Izvo hazvifanirwe kuuya sekushamisika, saka, kuti kwakakurumbira pfungwa dzerudo kubva kune vezvenhau dzinoparadzirwa munharaunda yakakura.
Kuparadzira zvisirizvo
Chimwe chezvikonzero nei vanhu vaine mazano akawanda akashata nezvehukama ndechekuti iwo mazano anopararira nyore. Kudanana ndeye yakanakisa musoro wenyaya chero mhando yemidhiya - inotinakidza isu uye inosundira ese akakodzera mabhatani ekuti midhiya mari. Kudanana chikamu chakakura kwazvo chehupenyu hwevanhu icho chinozadza zvimwe zvese. Kana vezvenhau vedu vachimanikidza dzimwe pfungwa nezve kudanana, iwo mazano anopararira zviri nyore kwazvo kupfuura zvinoitika zvinoitika zvehukama chaihwo. Chokwadi, vanhu vazhinji vanoona midhiya vhezheni yerudo nguva refu vasati vawana chero chinhu chavo.
Kupusa kweThe Notebook
Kana iwe uchida kutarisa wekutanga mutadzi nezvekuti pop tsika inogona sei kuchinja maonero ehukama, mumwe haafanire kutarisa kumberi kupfuura Iyo Notebook. Iyo yakakurumbira firimu rerudo rinomanikidza hukama hwese hwekudanana munguva pfupi pfupi, ichiisa onus pabato rimwe kuita zviito zvikuru uye rimwe bato kufunga nezve chimwe chinhu kunze kwekuita zviito seuchapupu hwerudo. Chii chakakosha kukurumidza, kamwe-nguva-kupisa - kusava nechinhu chakafanana, kusavaka hupenyu, uye zvechokwadi kusadzidza kuremekedza nekutarisira mumwe munhu kuburikidza nezvakanaka nezvakaipa. Sangano redu rinoda kuputika kunodakadza - hatina hanya zvachose nehupenyu hwakagovaniswa hunotevera.
Dambudziko rom-com
Ipo Iyo Notibhuku iri kunetsa, hachisi chinhu ichienzaniswa nemhando yema comedies erudo. Mune aya mafirimu, hukama hunobikirwa pasi kusvika kune zvisina musoro kukwirira uye kudzikira. Zvinotidzidzisa kuti murume anofanirwa kudzingirira mukadzi uye kuti murume anofanira kushandura kuti ave akakodzera mudiwa wavo. Zvimwechetezvo, zvinomutsa pfungwa yekuti kushingirira ndiyo chete nzira yekuratidza rudo - kunyangwe paine maitiro asina kunaka. Izvo hazvina hutano, zvinokatyamadza, uye zvinowanzo sanganisira kudzivirira mirairo.
Midhiya yakagadzira yayo yega ngano yerudo yekuvaraidza nekuchengetedza vaoni. Nehurombo, yakasimudzira mazano nezvehukama husingashande munyika chaiye. Nepo hukama munhau hungaunze madhora ekushambadza uye chengeta nhau dzenyaya dzakakodzera, iwo haamiriri rudzi rwehukama hwakanaka hunogona kutungamira mukuzadzikiswa kwega.
Ryan Bridges
Ryan Bridges munyori anopa uye nyanzvi yemidhiya yeVerdant Oak Behaeveal Health. Anogara achiburitsa zvemukati zveakasiyana hukama hwehukama uye psychology mablog.