Kuroora uye vezvekurapa vemhuri havasi kukanda mazano kumhuri dziri kutambura "willy-nilly." Pane kudaro, idzi nyanzvi dzine zvipo uye vane hanya vanounza hunyanzvi hwakakura uye ruzivo patafura mukuyedza kwavo kubatsira mhuri kushanda kuburikidza nemimwe yenguva dzinoedza kwazvo dzehupenyu hwavo.
Kana iwe ukasvika padanho muhupenyu hwako hwewanano iyo inoda zvakakomba uye pamwe kwenguva-refu kupindira kubva kuna chipangamazano, tsvaga iye mupi ane akakodzera credential uye ruzivo.
Zvinogona kudaro zvinonetsa kuwana akaroora akanaka uye mhuri chipangamazano, asi unogona nguva dzose bvunza mhuri yako, shamwari, kana chiremba wako yesarudzo yakanaka. Nekudaro, kukumbira kuendeswa kungave kusiri iko kwakakodzera kune mumwe munhu asina kugadzikana mukuburitsa zvavo zvakavanzika pamberi pevamwe.
Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro unogona nguva dzose edza rombo rako uye tsvaga pawebhu kuti uwane chipangamazano pakuroora.
Kutsvaga mawebhusaiti ane mbiri ane madhairekitori emazano, senge musangano weAmerica wekuroora uye vezvekurapa vemhuri (AAMFT) kana National Registry yeMuchato-Shamwari Therapists zvirokwazvo inokurudzirwa sarudzo.
Iko kuvimbiswa kwemhuri yakanaka uye yevakaroora kurapwa kunoenderana zvakanyanya nezvekuti akanyatsodzidziswa sei murapi. Vakarovedzwa vasina kurovedzeka uye vasina ruzivo rwemichato vanokuvadza vanogona kukuvadza zvakanyanya kupfuura zvakanaka.
Nekudaro, zvakakosha kuti uwane wekuroora uye wemhuri murapi ane dzidziso yakakodzera uye neruzivo kuti akubatsire kuburikidza nematambudziko ako ewanano.
Hezvino zvinhu zvishoma zvekutarisa nezvekuti ungawana sei chairo chipangamazano wemuchato? kana nzira yekuwana murapi wemhuri?
Zviratidzo zvechiremba
Kudzidzira kurapwa kwemhuri neyekuroora, varapi vanofanirwa kuwana rezinesi, izvo zvinogona kusiyana kubva kune imwe nyika kuenda kune imwe. Murapi anoita zvekuroora kuroora anogona kunge ari:
- muchato une marezinesi uye wemhuri murapi (LMFT),
- ane chipangamazano wehutano hwepfungwa chipangamazano (LMHC),
- ane rezinesi kiriniki mushandi wezvemagariro (LCSW), kana
- chiremba wepfungwa
Varapi vemhuri vanorapa vanobva kwakasiyana siyana kwehunyanzvi mamiriro asi vanowanzo kuve vanokwanisa uye vane marezinesi emhuri uye vekuroora varapi kuti vape rutsigiro rwakakodzera kumhuri.
MuUnited States, Kuroora neMhuri Varapi vanowanzove nedhigirii ra master. Kazhinji, aMasters muArt kana aMasters muSainzi mune zvekurapa kuraira, psychology, kana muchato uye kurapwa kwemhuri kwakakodzera kudzidza kwedzidzo yemuchato neyekurapa kwemhuri.
Mushure mekupedza kudzidza, vanotarisira MFTs vanoshanda sevashandi vepasi pekutariswa kweanobvumidzwa nyanzvi uye vanozviisa pasi pekudzokororwa kwevezera.
Kazhinji, kunyangwe akanyanya kuzivikanwa MFTs haakwanise kuisa shingle pamadziro uye kutanga kurapwa kwakazvimirira kudzamara vapfuura hushoma hwekudzidzira uye kuongorora kwevezera.
Chii chekutarisa murapi
- Kunyange madhigirii epamberi ari akakosha chikamu chebasa rakabudirira sewanano neyemhuri murapi, vatengi vazhinji vanofanirwa kufarira kuwana masevhisi e mumwe munhu ane ruzivo rwakakura mumunda.
Sezvo hupamhi nekudzika kwenyaya dzemhuri zvakatopfuura kufunga kwedu, mhuri dzinofanira kugara dzichiita saizvozvo tsvaga murapi ane ruzivo rwakakwana mune dzakasiyana nyaya sekushungurudzwa, kupindwa muropa, kusavimbika, kupindirana kwehunhu nezvimwe zvakadaro. Zvinogara zvichibatsira kutsvaga mushandi ane mhuri yake.
- Sei iwe uchigona kumboda kuchengetedza masevhisi emunhu asingakwanise kunzwira tsitsi nezvenyaya dziri kutarisana nemhuri yako? Kana murapi asina ruzivo rwekurera mhuri kana kuchengetedza hukama, ndinotya kuti kubatsira kwake kushoma.
- Murapi wako anofanirwa kutarisa pakubatsira iwe kugadzirisa hukama hwako hwemhuri pane kupedza imba yako.
- Kunzwa mwero wekuremekedzwa kubva kuna murapi wako kwakakosha kwazvo kuti unzwe kugadzikana navo. Iwe kana mumwe wako munofanira kunzwa makasununguka zvakakwana kuti muite mazano panguva yehurukuro yenyu uye murapi wenyu anofanira kukudza mazano enyu.
- Murapi wako haafanire kurerekera yakanangana newe kana mumwe wako. Chikonzero iwe wakasarudza kuroora uye kurapwa kwemhuri kuwana pfungwa isina rusaruro kubva kune nyanzvi.
Muchato uye wemhuri murapi anogona zvakare kuve nerusarura nekuda kwemaonero avo uye hunhu nezvehukama. Kana iwe ukaona hunhu hwakaomarara kubva kuna murapi wako, saka iye kana iye anogona kunge asiri sarudzo chaiyo kwauri.
Kuisa zvinangwa uye kusarasa kuona kwako kubva kwavari kwakakosha kuwana mhinduro kuburikidza nekurapa. Zvakare, edza kutarisa kune ramangwana kwete zvakapfuura, Kufambira mberi kwako mukurapa kunofanirwa kutungamirwa kune ramangwana kwete zvikanganiso zvekare.
Paunenge uchishanda neyemvumo yemuchato neyemhuri murapi, muchibatira pamwe kuita zvinangwa zvakamisikidzwa, uye kuisa nguva nesimba mukushanda, iwe uchaona mhedzisiro uye imba yako ichatanga kubudirira.