Zvemukati
- Hatimbofi takadzorera nguva dzacho
- Heino nyaya:
- Vakaroorana vekupedzisira vakaroorana vanoziva kutaura
Pasina nguva mushure mechato, tinotanga kutora vatinoshanda navo sevasina basa. Kupa kubatikana kwese kwehupenyu, tinogona kutanga kuregeredza moto wepamba. Kugadzira muchato ne "simba rekugara," zvakakosha kuti isu tiremekedze nguva yega yega seinoyera.
Hatimbofi takadzorera nguva dzacho
Kukurudzira kunzwisisa kwako kukosha kwekukudza nguva dzezuva nezuva, funga nyaya yaSara naBill. Vakaparadzaniswa nhambwe nehondo, vaviri vacho vakaona kukosha kwekanguva kese, uye vakadzidza kudzima moto wekubatana kunyangwe vakatarisana nekuparadzaniswa kwakadzama.
Heino nyaya:
Sarah naBill vakasangana mumigwagwa yeMilwaukee, Wisconsin muna Nyamavhuvhu 1941. Kudanana kwavo kwakakurumidza uye kune mbiri, kuchiperera mukuvimbisana munaNovember. Mavhiki matanhatu gare gare, mabhomba akawira paPearl Harbor.
' Mudzidzi weROTC, Bill akanzwa kushevedzwa kunyoresa, uye akange asina chekutya nezvekusimuka mukudzivirira rusununguko. Mushure mekuonekana kwekuchema panhepfenyuro yeAir Army Air Corps, Bill akaenda kuhondo apo Sarah akapika kumutsigira kubva kumberi kwemba. Mwedzi masere gare gare, Bill anga achidzidza nzira yekufamba nemabhomba mahombe ayo aizotsvaga kukunda muchina wehondo weAxis.
Bill naSara vakanyorerana tsamba vhiki rega rega.
Mumazuva pamberi peemail server uye nharembozha, vaviri vacho vaivimba nemhando yechinyakare yekutaurirana kuchengetedza moto wepamba. Bill naSarah vakanyorerana vhiki nevhiki. Dzimwe nguva tsamba dzaizadzwa nemisungo yakanaka yerudo uye chishuwo. Kazhinji, tsamba idzi dzaive nematauriro asina kujeka kumatambudziko epamba uye hutsinye hwehondo. Nekuda kwedaro pakati pevadikani uye nemipimo yekutakura, tsamba dzaiwanzoendeswa masvondo matatu kana kupfuura mushure mekunge dzanyorwa. Iwo mavara akave lens kune yakapfuura yapfuura. Nepo mutsetse wese wemavara waifarirwa neanogamuchira, Sarah naBill vaiziva kuti zvakawanda zvaive zvaitika kubvira pakapetwa tsamba. Kwemwedzi yakati wandei, vaviri vacho vakatanga kunyora nezve kukosha kwekutenda. Mune zvinyorwa zvavo kune mumwe nemumwe, ivo vakadaidzira kune simba repamusoro kupa tariro nerunyararo mune imwe. "Mwari akanaka kwatiri," ivai vanoramba vachidzora mukuenderera mberi kwetsamba.
MunaAugust 1944, Bill's B-29 yakapfurwa pasi pamusoro peGungwa reAdriatic.
Mutyairi ane hunyanzvi akakwanisa kudzikisa ndege mumvura pasina kurasikirwa nehupenyu. Ruoko rwaBill rwakatyoka zvakanyanya mutsaona, asi aigona kuwana simba rakaringana rekuunganidza zvekushandisa uye raft ndege isati yanyura. Kwemazuva matanhatu, Bill nevaaishanda navo vakadzikira muAdriatic. Pazuva rechinomwe, chiGerman U-Chikepe chakaona maairmen ndokuvatapa. Bob neshamwari vaizosungwa kwemwedzi gumi neimwe inotevera.
Kumba, Sarah akaona kuti tsamba "chitima" kubva kuna Bill yakanga yakanganiswa. Moyo nemweya waSara zvakamuudza kuti Bob aive munyatwa asi ari mupenyu. Sarah akaenderera mberi nekunyora. Mazuva ese. Pakupedzisira, veDhipatimendi reHondo vakashanyira Sarah kuti vamuudze kuti ndege yaBill yakanga yadonha muAdriatic, uye kuti mauto akatenda kuti Bill nevamwe vemauto vaive vakachengetwa muhusungwa mutirongo reGerman. Sarah akagamuchira mashoko nemoyo une shungu, asi haana kumira kurega kunyorera mudiwa wake. Kwemwedzi gumi neimwe, akataura nezve chando muWisconsin, kubatikana kwake kubasa, uye kuvimba kwake kuti Mwari anowana nzira yekudzosa vaviri ava pamwe chete. Zviuru zvemamaira kure, Bill ainyora futi. Kunyangwe pakange pasina nzira yekuti Bill atumire kutumira kwake kune waanoda, akazvichengeta mutini yesimbi kusvika zuva raaizoonazve Sarah. Zuva rakasvika muna Chikumi 1945. Vaviri ava vakapedzisira varoora waGumiguru anotevera.
Kwemakore anoda kusvika makumi matanhatu varoorana, Sarah naBill vakanyorerana.
Kunyangwe zvavo vaigara pamwe chete, vakaramba vachigadzira manotsi ezuva nezuva kune mumwe nemumwe kukurudzira uye kutungamira. Zviuru zvezvinyorwa zvakawanikwa nevana vaSarah naBill mushure mekufa kwevabereki vavo. Tsamba dzairatidza rudo, kunetseka, mufaro, uye rutendo zvakachengeta vaviri ava vachikurukurirana padyo nemuchato wavo unoshamisa. Dzimwe nguva musoro wenyaya waive wakapusa sekutenda "Ndatenda" nekunyemwerera nerupo kana chikafu chinonaka.
Vakaroorana vekupedzisira vakaroorana vanoziva kutaura
Kutaurirana hakuna kuganhurirwa kune "lovey dovey" kutumira, asi pachinzvimbo kunogona kutambanudza hupamhi hwemanzwiro uye nhoroondo. Inopindirwa mukutaurirana kwemazuva ese chipo chakakosha zvakaenzana chekuvimba. Kana takavimbika kune avo vatinoda, kuvimba kunosimbiswa nekusimbiswa.
Kana iwe uchida muchato wakasimba unogona kumira nemadutu, kurisa kutaurirana kwakanaka newaunoda
Saizvozvo, zarurirwa kune nhau mudiwa wako anotaurirana newe. Zvirinani, nyora manotsi kune mumwe wako. Zvinyorwa zvakanyorwa nemaoko zvehukama hazviwanikwe. Kana iwe ukanyora uye uchigamuchira izvo zvakanyorerwa iwe, tarisa hukama hwako huwedzere. Gadzira nzvimbo mumoyo mako uye tsika yekukudziridza hukama newaunoda. Usambove wakabatikana zvakanyanya kuti usaseke, kuimba, kudya, kana kurota pamwe chete.
Izvo zvese ndezvekukudza nguva, shamwari. Nepo dzimwe dzenguva yedu dzingaite sedzisingafadzi uye dzinokanganikwa, dzese dzinofanirwa kukosheswa sedzisingadzoreke. Hatidzosere nguva dzacho. Wona nguva yega yega neyako mudiwa seyakakosha nguva yehupenyu hwako.