Zvemukati
- 1. Zvizive iwe pachako
- 2. Shanda nenyanzvi
- 3. Ndeapi maitiro aive nemumwe wako wekupedzisira,
- 4. Kuziva kutya kuva wega
Tarisa-tarisa. Wese munhu ari murudo, kunze kwedu.
Wakambofunga saizvozvo here?
Wati wambonzwa wega wega munyika yerudo, apo vamwe vese vachiita kunge vanayo pamwechete asi iwe usinga?
Kana iwe usina kuroora, unofanira kumirira kwenguva yakareba sei ... Usati wawana iyo "hukama hwakakwana".
Kuva murudo kunoshamisa.
Kuva murudo, sekureva kwevanhu vazhinji, ndicho chikonzero isu tiri pasi pano.
Asi ndizvo chaizvo here?
Uye ndedzipi zvikanganiso zvakajairika zvatinoita, ndeipi MOST kukanganisa kwakajairika kwatinoita mushure mekupera kwehukama, izvo zvinovimbisa kukundikana mune ramangwana?
Makore akati wandei apfuura mukadzi wechidiki akandibata ndokundishandira semutevedzeri wake kuburikidza neSkype kubva kune imwe nyika, akashungurudzika nekuti murume waakadanana naye kwemakore akati wandei akange amusiya mazuva manomwe zvisati zvaitika, kushamisika kukuru, sekureva kwake kwakauya kubva kunze kwebhuruu.
Uye ikozvino, aida matipi mashoma kubva kwandiri panguva yedu yezvikamu, kuti agone kusvetukira kumashure mumutambo werudo.
Batisisa, ndakamuudza.
"Ndeipi urefu hwepakati yenguva yawakatora munguva yakapfuura, ndakabvunza, apo hukama humwe hwakaguma uye hwako hutsva hwakatanga?"
Akazeza, ndokuzondiudza kuti akarebesa kwaakange ari oga mwedzi mitanhatu. Asi kazhinji kazhinji, anga ari muhukama hutsva mukati memwedzi mitatu.
Uye izvo zvinochengetedza. Pamakore makumi matatu apfuura munyika yekukura kwega, ndakaona vanhu vazhinji vachisvetuka kubva pahukama kuenda kune imwe, sechinhu chiri chokwadi, vanhu vazhinji vatove nemudiwa wavo mutsva vakatorerwa kurambana kusati kwasainwa kana kwavo kudanana hukama hwapera zvachose.
Pataishanda pamwe chete, ndakamuudza kuti kana akaramba achidzokorora mapatani ekubva pahukama kuenda pane imwe pasina kuita chero basa pakati, yake yekubudirira chiyero chaizove chaipo pari zvino: zero.
Saka tinofanirwa kumirira kwenguva yakareba sei pakati pehukama hwehukama? Zviri nyore. A mashoma emazuva makumi matatu nemakumi matatu neshanu. Kupera kweshoko.
Uye nei zvakadaro?
Nyika yehukama iri mudambudziko rakakura, zviverengero zvinoti 41-50% kana kudarika kwehukama hwekutanga hunoguma pakurambana, 60-67% yehukama hwechipiri hunoguma pakurambana uye 73-74% yehukama hwechitatu hunopera pakurambana.
Wakawana here? Tine ichi rudo uye hukama chinhu chisina kunaka.
Heano mabhenefiti ekutora mazuva mazana matatu nemakumi mashanu neshanu pamagumo ehukama, usati waenda kune inotevera.
1. Zvizive iwe pachako
Nguva zhinji tinozvirasa muhukama, tichiita zvakawanda zvezvinhu izvo mumwe wedu anoda kuti tiite, nekuregeredza zvedu zvido. Zvimise izvozvi. Zvizive iwe pachako. Wira murudo newe pachezvako zvakare.
2. Shanda nenyanzvi
Shanda nemupi wezano wezano, mudzidzisi wehupenyu, mushumiri kuitira kuti uone basa rako mukusagadzikana uye kufa kwehukama hwako hwekupedzisira.
Ndinoziva, ndinoziva, iwe hauna kuita basa, yaive mhosva yavo handiti?
Kwete chaizvo. Kana iwe uchinge waona iro basa rawakatamba, unogona kuzvikanganwira uye utore danho rekuti usazoite izvozvo zvakare mune ramangwana.
Wakanwa zvakanyanya here? Wanga uchitsigira here? Wanga uchingoita zvehasha here? Iwe wakazviparadzanisa iwe, uye ukavhara kana paine kukakavara?
Izvi zvinhu zvinoda kugadziriswa, usati waunza mumwe munhu muwebhu yako yezvakaipa.
3. Ndeapi maitiro aive nemumwe wako wekupedzisira,
Nyora hunhu pasi apa. Chero zvavari. Nyora pasi. Gadzikana nenyaya yekuti mumwe wako anotevera haafanire kunge aine chero ehunhu hwakafanana ... Uye iwe unozozvipa iwe uri nani mukana murudo.
4. Kuziva kutya kuva wega
Paunoenda kwemazuva makumi matatu nemakumi matatu neshanu usina hukama, iwe unonzwisisa kuti kudiwa kunoratidzika sei ... Kuti kutya kutya kuva wega kunoratidzika sei ... Uye iwe unogona kugona idzi mbiri usati waenda kune imwe rudo hukama.
Ini ndinogara ndichiudza vatengi vangu vasina kuroorwa, kuti kana vachigona kupfuura nemazororo, mazuva ekuzvarwa, mhemberero, michato, mariro uye vasina kuroora ... Uye fara kuzviita ... Vari munzvimbo huru kusarudza mumwe munhu anofara bond they
Asi kana iwe uchishaya, wakasurukirwa, ndinokuvimbisa kuti iwe uchanhonga ivo vamwe vanhu vane nhamo iwe vawakaita munguva yakapfuura ... chete nerimwe zita uye kumeso.
Mubhuku redu razvino rinotengesa zvakanyanya "Ngirozi pabhodhi repamusoro: inoshamisa nyaya yerudo inoongorora makiyi erudo rwakadzama", mutambi anotungamira Sandy Tavish anonyengerwa nemukadzi akanaka uyu, uye anomukoka kumba kwake kuzodya.
Mukati meimwe maminetsi ari kumufamba achidzika munzira, akananga mukamuri yake yekurara kuti aite zvepabonde.
Iye anoudza Sandy, kuti akangopedza hukama hwenguva refu uye ikozvino akagadzirira chinhu chaicho, uye akasarudza Sandy semunhu anotevera kubatwa.
Sandy, apo akaedzwa, akamuudza kuti aida nguva yakawanda yekuporeswa, uye asingadi akabvuma.
Kunyangwe izvi zvingaite senge zano rakaomarara, ndinogona kukuvimbisa kuti zvinoshanda. Zvizive iwe pachako zvakare. Dzidza maitiro ekuisa miganho ine hutano nemhedzisiro muhupenyu.
Uye kana uchidaro? Iwe unozozvipa iwe wakanakisa mukana weiyo yenguva refu rudo hukama iwe yaunoshuvira.