Zvemukati
- 1. Zvitendero nezvitendero
- 2. Zvikonzero zvekurapa
- 3. Zvikonzero zvepfungwa
- 4. Zvikonzero zvemagariro
- Zvayakanakira:
- Nezvayakaipira:
Platonic hukama hukama hwepamoyo hwehukama pasina bonde. Pano tichaongorora zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira zvekuita zvebonde uye nekuchengetedza hukama hwepamoyo hwepamoyo nemumwe munhu wauri kufambidzana naye nechinangwa chekusarudza wekuroora wekuroora.
Ngationgororei kuti nei munhu angangoda kuve mune yehukama hwepamoyo hukama hweplato pasina bonde.
1. Zvitendero nezvitendero
Vanhu vazhinji vari kuita zvebonde vasati varoora nekuda kwezvitendero. Mune dzimwe nyika, hazvisi pamutemo kuti vanhu vakaroorana vaite bonde vasati varoora, nekudaro kudanana kweplatonic ndiyo yega sarudzo inosara kune vakadaro vaviri.
2. Zvikonzero zvekurapa
Vamwe vanhu vane zvikonzero zvekurapa zvekudzidzira kurega vachiri muwanano. Semuenzaniso, munhu akaroora anogona kunge akapinda mutsaona yemotokari uye chiremba vanogona kunge vakaraira murwere wavo kuti asaite chero chinhu chinotyisa, kusanganisira bonde, kusvikira zvaziviswa.
Vakaroorana vakadaro vanodzidza maitiro ekuzvidzora muhukama. Vatori vechikamu vanotanga chirongwa chekupora nhanho gumi nemaviri vanowanzo kurairwa kuti vasaite hukama hwepabonde kwenguva yakati kuti varambe vakatarisa pachirongwa.
3. Zvikonzero zvepfungwa
Vamwe vanhu vanotora mhiko yekusaroora nekuda kwezvikonzero zvepfungwa. Imwe, kuitira kukudziridza nzira nyowani yekufunga kushandura maficha ehupenyu hwavo kana kutora nguva yekudzoka kubva kuhukama hwekare. Vabereki vazhinji vari vega vanozvipira kuita zvepabonde uye vanodzidza kugara vasingafarire muhukama kungorera vana.
4. Zvikonzero zvemagariro
Iyo inozivikanwa inozivikanwa yemazuva ano "mwedzi mitatu-yekutonga" muenzaniso wehukama hwehukama hwehukama hweplato.
Mitemo yehukama hwakadai yeplatonic inopa rusununguko rwakakwana kuvakadzi vanorairwa kufambidzana uye kunakidzwa nehukama hwevanhurume vavo asi vanomirira kwemwedzi mitatu vasati vaita bonde newavakaroorana naye nekuti inogadzira mabhenefiti ehukama.
Zvisinei nezvikonzero zvinoita kuti munhu asarudze kurega zvepabonde, hazvireve kuti munhu wacho haadi zvekufambidzana naye. Ivo vachiri nekudiwa kwekuswedera padhuze nepfungwa kugara vakabatana uye kufambidzana asi nekunzwisisa kuti hapazove nebonde. Vanhu vazhinji vanochengetedza hukama hwepedyo hweplato kwemwedzi, uye vamwe kwemakore vasati varoora.
Vakaroorana vanodzidza maitiro ekubata nekuzvinyima muhukama sezvo hukama hweplatoni iine yavo yega bhenefiti. Asi, mumwe anofanirwa kunzwisisa zvakanakira nezvakaipa zvekusazvibata vasati vazvipira kuita hukama husingaite.
Zvayakanakira:
- Kutora nguva yekuziva mumwe munhu usati waita bonde zvinoreva kuti hausi kufambidzana nemagirazi-ane mavara-mavara pa. Naizvozvo, haungangoturikire zvisirizvo hunhu husingagamuchirwe kuti hugamuchirwe.
Semuenzaniso, munhu waunofunga kuti ane hanya newe chete anogona kunge ari munhu asinganzwisisike. Hunhu hwekuve nehanya hunogamuchirwa, asi hunhu hwechidzora freak ndiyo dhiri-breaker.
- Kutora nguva yekuziva mumwe munhu usati waita bonde kunokupa iwe nguva yekutaura nezve zvakavanzika. Hurukuro dzako dzichaburitsa ruzivo nezve STD (Zvepabonde Zvirwere) kuongororwa kana nhoroondo yemhuri yekurapa yaunoda kuziva nezvayo. Kunyanya, kana iwe uchida kuva nevana uye kutanga mhuri.
- Vanhu vakaroora vanorega kuita bonde nguva nenguva pavanenge vachigadzirisa hukama hwavo kubva pakuvimbana, kuremekedzana, uye kuzvipira nyaya. Kuwana kuvimba, kuremekedzwa, uye kuzvipira ndizvo zvikomborero zvikuru zve "mutemo wemwedzi mitatu".
Kusazvibata muwanano mutemo unopa zano kuvarume nevakadzi kuti vasaite bonde neanotarisira kuroora kwemwedzi mitatu. Pfungwa iyi ndeyekusakura vanhu vasina kutendeseka uye kutsvaga nezvekuputsa tsika kana zvakavanzika.
Vanhu vazhinji havazonamatira padhuze kana vasingaite bonde nekukasira nekuti havasi kunyatsotsvaga hukama hwakakomba. Kunyangwe vangave vakataura neimwe nzira kuti vatore zvinhu. Vaigona kunge vakaroora. Mune ino mamiriro, ungadai usina kudyara mose, saka rasai mukwende.
Platonic muchato ingangove iri zano rakanaka rekuchengetedza kuzviremekedza kwako uye kuzviremekedza.
Nezvayakaipira:
- Dzinopfuura imwe shamwari. Kana miganhu ikasamisikidzwa, mumwe wako anogona kutora chikamu mune inopfuura imwechete yehukama hwepamoyo hukama hwepfungwa pamwe nekufunga kuti havasi kuita bonde.
Naizvozvo, vanogona kuve neshamwari dzakawanda. Dambudziko kushaya kuzvipira uye kuzvidzora. Imwe yeshamwari idzodzo inogona kuve "shamwari ine mabhenefiti".
- Moto waenda. Kana hukama hwepedyo hweplato husingaite kukwezva kwepabonde kunoitwa nevose vari vaviri vanobatana, hukama hahuzoenda padanho rinotevera. Unogona kuita semhuri kana nzira dzechikamu.
- Kuputsa kuzvidzora pabonde. Kana vaviri vacho vakaroora, zvinodiwa nemumwe pabonde zvinogona kusimba kupfuura mumwe, zvichimanikidza mumwe wavo kuenda kunze kwehukama hwepabonde.
Kuroora hakuna kuitirwa kuti kuve kwehukama hwepamoyo hwehukama hwepabonde pamwe nekuzvibata pabonde kunyangwe zvichidikanwa kuzviita kwenguva pfupi.
Mukupedzisa, pane zvekurapa, zvechitendero, zvepfungwa, uye zvemagariro zvikonzero nei vanhu vachisarudza kuita hukama hweplatonic nekurega kuita zvepabonde.
Zvakanakira hukama hweplatonic pasina bonde zvinopa vanobatirana nguva yekumisikidza nekusimbisa kuvimba, kuremekedzana, uye kuzvipira kuhukama. Kune rimwe divi, inogona kupinza vakaroorana vanoverengeka muhukama kana miganhu isina kuiswa.
Uye zvakare, kukwezva pabonde kunogona kufa uye hukama hahuenderere padanho rinotevera. Aya marudzi ehukama anogona kunge asiri iwo akanakisa sarudzo kune vekuroora kunze kwekunge chiremba wezvechiremba akaraira.