Zvemukati
- Izvo zvaunoda kuti uzive nezve zverudo zvitsotsi
- Mhando dzakajairika dzechitsotsi mukuita
- Tekinoroji nyowani, nyowani dzerudo hutsotsi
- Romance scam yambiro zviratidzo
Kutsvaga rudo? Vazhinji vedu vanotendeukira kune vepamhepo kufambidzana kuti vawane 'iyo,' asi zvinhu hazviwanzo kuenda kunoronga.
Iwe unogona kufunga kuti hapana chimwe chine njodzi kunze uko pane vashoma vane nzara catfish, asi chokwadi chakanyanya kutadza.
Vepamhepo kufambidzana vanobiridzira vanotora mukana wevasina kusimba singletons kuvaburitsa ropa remari - uye yavo zvorudo zvitsotsi zviri kuwedzera kuve zvakaomarara nguva dzese.
Uyezve tarisa:
Izvo zvaunoda kuti uzive nezve zverudo zvitsotsi
Pamhepo dzorudo kubiridzira inhau hombe, uye dziri kukura.
MuUS, huwandu hwevanhu vanotaura mhosva idzi dzakapetwa katatu pakati pegore ra2015 na2019, nemari inosvika mamirioni mazana maviri nemakumi maviri emadhora ichirasika kune vanobiridzira.
Aya epamhepo kudanana uye kufambidzana matsotsi haasarame kuAmerica, futi. Vanodanana vane rudo vanosevenza pasirese, uye iyo internet yakavapa nhandare nyowani yekuvhima vakaurayiwa.
Iyo inonyanya kukosha MO yezve kudanana scammers iri nyore:
- Ivo vanokudziridza hukama hwepamhepo nemumwe munhu asi havatombosangana mumunhu.
- Nekufamba kwenguva, vanogonesa avo vanonzi shamwari kuti vavatumire mari, kuvatengere zvipo, kana kuisa mari mubhizinesi ravo.
- Vanogona kupa zvipo - asi pakupedzisira, vanozogara vachitora zvakanyanya kupfuura zvavanopa.
Mhando dzakajairika dzechitsotsi mukuita
Vazhinji kudanana vanobiridzira vanobata kune vakwegura kana vanotambura vanhu. Ivo vanowanzo kuve nenyaya inotsanangura kuti sei vasingakwanise kusangana.
Zvichida ivo vari kushanda kunze kwenyika, kana vane yakaoma kunzwisisa nyaya inosanganisira yekare ine njodzi uye yakapfuura ine mumvuri.
Kazhinji, vachazviratidza semutambo wakakwana: vakangwara, vane rudo, vanoshanda nesimba - uye, zveshuwa, akanaka kwazvo.
Chaiyeiye wekudanana anonyengera anoiswa zvakadzama mu "hukama" nekukurumidza uye anokurudzira munhu wavanobata kuti aite zvakafanana.
Mumuenzaniso wekare uyu wehutsotsi mukuita, munyengeri akagonesa waakabata kuti aida kumuroora - asina kusangana naye chaiko.
Kana hukama hwepamhepo hwangosimbiswa, uyo anotyisidzira anotanga kudzosera nyajambwa wavo mukati.
Pamwe vari kuenda parwendo kunze kwenyika, uye chimwe chinhu chinoenda zvakashata zvisirizvo. Pamwe ivo vari kutiza kubva kune anoshusha wekare. Pamwe ivo vakave vakaitirwa utsotsi ivo pachavo, uye kamwe kamwe vanoda mari yekuvhara rendi.
Chero chingave chikonzero, chikumbiro chemari chinoitwa. Sezvo nguva inopfuura, izvi zvikumbiro zvinowedzera kuwanda, zvakanyanya kushupika, uye zvinoda mari hombe uye hombe.
Tekinoroji nyowani, nyowani dzerudo hutsotsi
Kwenguva yakareba, vanobiridzira vakashanda pamasocial network senge Facebook.
Zvisinei, mazano avo aiwanzove asina kujairika; vanhu havapindure zvakanaka kune zvisina kujairika shamwari zvikumbiro kubva kune vausingazive kune dzimwe nyika.
Mazuva ano, vanobiridzira vari mukana wekuwanika pane emahara kufambidzana saiti, uko vashandisi vari kushingairira kutsvaga rudo - uye vachizviita ivo panjodzi mukuita.
Imwe yezano rakajairika kana iwe uchinzwa kuti uri kushungurudzwa nechisimba ndeye tsvaga kutsvagisa kweGoogle mufananidzo wemufananidzo wavo.
Izvi zvinogona kutungamira mukuwanikwa kwekuti wako wepamhepo mudiwa haasi iye waanoti iye - kana zvingangodaro zvisiri izvo.
Mune ino kesi yazvino, iyo nyowani yaitove nemavhidhiyo kufona neiye akabatwa. Kunyangwe shamwari dzake dzaisafungidzira chinhu - asi kutaura zvazviri, dzaive nhema dzekunyepedzera.
Iye scammer akashandisa tekinoroji nyowani kugadzira yekunyepedzera, inogadzirwa nekombuta, uye kuita hurukuro dzinoita sedzakajairika neiye waakabatwa.
Scammers vanogona zvakare kushandisa tekinoroji yazvino kugadzira zvinyorwa zvinotsigira zvinoita kunge chaizvo chaizvo. Semuenzaniso, murume akwegura uyu akatungamirirwa kutenda kuti aipa mari kumuseum.
Iye scammer akamutumira zvirevo zvebhangi, zvinyorwa zvemu Museum, uye nezvimwe - zvese izvo zvaiita kunge zvakavimbika zvachose.
Nekudaro, iyi imwe imwe nguva apo vanobiridzira vanoshandisa hunyanzvi hwemakomputa kuratidza humbowo.
Romance scam yambiro zviratidzo
Nzira yakapusa yekudzivisa vanobiridzira ndeyekugara kure nenzvimbo dzavanogara vachitsika.
Kazhinji, scammers inonamira pamwe yemahara kufambidzana masaiti uye maapplication kana pasocial network.
Sekureva kweWeLoveDates, avo vanoshanda nzvimbo zhinji dzakabhadharwa dzekufambidzana, Aya masevhisi anogona kukwanisa kutarisira zviri nani vatengi vavo, uye vanoshandisa yazvino AI netekinoroji kutsvaga vanobiridzira nekuvatumira kurongedza. ”
Kunze kweizvozvo, heano mamwe eakakosha ekunyevera anoratidza kuti ako epamoyo kudanana ndeyechokwadi chitsotsi:
1. Wako waunodanana naye haasangane newe
Ehezve, vashoma vanhu vanodonhedza zvese kuti vakurumidze kubuda musi wemakumi maviri maminetsi mushure mekukwazisa (uye kana vachidaro, iri zvakare mutsvuku mureza ... kune zvimwe zvikonzero).
Zvisinei, kana kudanana kwako kuri kuitika kwenguva yakati, uye mumwe wako achigara aine chikonzero, ndicho chiratidzo chekunyevera.
2. Mumwe wako anoronga kusangana newe, asi zvinowira pasi
Nezve mabhonasi mapoinzi, vanowira nepakati nenzira inoshamisa: munzira yekuenda kunhandare yendege, wako wekufarira unorohwa netiraki.
Hongu, zvinogona kuitika - asi zvingangoita here? Kana mhando yemutambo ichiitika kanopfuura kamwe, inguva yapfuura yekutaura sayonara.
3. Mapikicha emumwe wako anoita seasina kusikwa
Vanyengeri vari kuwedzera uye kuwedzera kugadzirisika kana zvasvika pamufananidzo "humbowo" hwevari ivo, asi vazhinji vacho vachiri kuwira padambudziko iri.
Kana avo vese mafoto achitaridzika kunge akatorwa kuoffice, saka anogona kubiwa kubva kune mumwe munhu LinkedIn profile.
Kana vese vari vepamusoro-soro, kana kunyatsobvunzwa, saka iri rimwe dambudziko.
4. Nyaya yemumwe wako haiwedzeri
Semuenzaniso, anoti ane degree rekuyunivhesiti, asi chiperengo chake uye girama zvinoratidza zvimwe.
Ita zvekuuraya kana uchida: tsvaga kwaakadzidza, chii chaanofarira bhawa kana ari nhengo yechero makirabhu ... wobva watanga googling, kuona kuti hwakawanda sei hupenyu hwake huripo.
5. Mumwe wako anobva "hello" kuenda kuna "I love you" pasina nguva zvachose
Izvi zvakaoma kuyera, nekuti iwe unogona kunge uchinzwa manzwiro akasimba, futi.
Rangarira, zvakadaro: kudzamara wasangana nemumwe munhu iwe, haufanire kumbopa zvakanyanya.
Iri kazhinji izano rakanaka rekufambidzana pamhepo, kunyangwe kana pasina chitsotsi chakabatanidzwa. Ramba wakangwarira uye usambofa wakanyanyisa mune chimwe chinhu chingatombove chaicho.
6. Icho chinonyanya kukosha pane zvorudo zvitsotsi
Kunamatira nebasa rekubhadharira rakabhadharwa, panzvimbo peapp yemahara, ndiyo nzira huru yekudzivisa vazhinji vevabiridzi. Nekudaro, gara wakangwarira, sezvo vashoma vematsotsi aya vangatsvedza nemambure.
Rangarira iwo mutemo wegoridhe wekufambidzana online. kusvikira iwe uine chokwadi nezve vavariro dzemumwe munhu, usambopa moyo wako - kana mari yako - kure.