Zvemukati
- Chii chinonzi kudanana pabonde kune vazhinji vedu?
- Ita nharaunda yako ive nerudo
- Wedzera hupfeko yako
- Gadzira prelude yakakodzera yekuita rudo
- Tsvaga mutauro wako werudo
- Usatsauke epilogue
Zvepabonde uye kudanana hazviwirirane. Saka, kudanana pabonde kunorevei?
Kudanana pabonde kunogadzira mifananidzo iyi kune vakawanda vakaroorana.
- Nguva refu yekuvira kwezuva inofamba pamwe chete nemhenderekedzo dzakachena dzakapfava chena
- Maruva eakareba-akatsvuka maruva matsvuku kusvika kwauri kumba kana kubasa kwako
- Bhokisi rezvakanaka zveSwiss rima mukaka machokoreti akaendeswa kusuo rako
- Kenduru yekudya kwemanheru Yakagadzirwa neyako yaunofarira chikafu uye champagne
Zvese izvi zviitiko zvinoteverwa neakanyanya nyoro, ane rudo uye anoshamisa bonde ungafungidzira.
Zvakanaka, kune vazhinji vedu aya akanaka mafirimu mafirimu, asi kune nzira dzakawanda dzekuita bonde (uye zvechokwadi, hupenyu!)
Iko kune zvirokwazvo mamwe matipi anonakidza epabonde matipi aunogona kuteedzera kukwirisa iyo yekudanana quotient muhupenyu hwako uye kunakirwa yakanyanya kudanana bonde neako bae.
Saka, usatarise kumberi kune epabonde kudanana mazano! Ngatinyurirei musoro wekutanga pabonde rerudo 101
Chii chinonzi kudanana pabonde kune vazhinji vedu?
Tisati taongorora mazano ekuvandudza bonde muwanano, ngatitangei tinzwisise kuti munhu wese anogadzira mepu yepamoyo yakasarudzika yezve kudanana.
Pfungwa yako yechinhu chorudo inogona kunge yakasiyana zvakanyanya kupfuura iyo yeBFF yako, inogona kunge yakasiyana zvakanyanya kupfuura iyo yako hofisi yevakaroora 'pfungwa yechinhu chinoumba chinhu cherudo, zvichingodaro.
Saka, kuita pabonde pabonde kana pasina saizi imwe inokodzera mhinduro yese yekugadzirisa hukama hwebland?
Kuti ushandure hukama hwako kubva ku blah kuenda kune hunofadza, zvakakosha kuti unzwisise kuti vanhu vazhinji vane dzimwe pfungwa dzakajairika dzezvinosanganisirwa murudo pabonde.
Kutanga, vanhu vaviri vanonyatsodanana inzvimbo yakanaka yekutanga.
Unogona zvirokwazvo kuva nenguva yakanaka inoshamisa nemumwe munhu musina "kufanana" kana "murudo," asi neimwe nzira chikamu cherudo hachiratidzike senge chiri mukati meiyo equation.
Saka kuti upfupikise, ndezvipi zvinhu zvinodiwa pakurondedzerwa kwako pachedu nezverudo, uye nekuita zvakanak sei kuzadzisa ichi chinangwa?
Ini ndichatora imwe kubva paKoramu B, mbiri yenhamba 117, izvozvi ita nhamba 46. Zvinonzwika zvichinetsa?
Ehe, zvinhu zvinotungamira kudanana bonde zvakati fananei seimwe yeaya akareba, anovhiringidza mamenu iwe aunowana kune mamwe maChinese maresitorendi. Ngatitarisei mamwe acho kumutsidzira kudanana muhukama hwako.
Ita nharaunda yako ive nerudo
Ndekupi kwaunonzwa kuti iwe ndiwe wako wepamoyo kudanana?
Zviri kumba kwako mubhedha wako, kana iri munzvimbo yakatosiyana, uko hutsva hunowedzera kune yerudo mamiriro ekunze?
Kana iri kumba, unofarira here inosanganisira mimhanzi, mwenje wakasiyana, machira erineni, uye maruva pachigadziko chemubhedha?
Iwe unogadzira nharaunda yekudanana kukwirisa manheru (kana masikati, mangwanani, zvakanaka, chero nguva)? Kana kuti yako yerudo nzvimbo inosanganisira kubviswa kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo yausina kumbobvira wakamboita?
Ingo rangarira, kunyangwe zvichitaridzika sekushinga kana kudanana.
Wedzera hupfeko yako
Iwe unonzwa uchinyanya kudanana kupfeka chimwe chinhu chinoshamisira uye chinoratidza (kana uri mukadzi) kana dapper uye suave a James Bond (kana iwe uri murume)?
Chokwadi, izvi zvinonzwika senge stereotypical yekunyengerera mbatya, asi pane chikonzero.
Vanhu vazhinji vanonzwa kudakara kana mbatya dzavakapfeka dzichiratidza kwavo kworudo. Varume nevakadzi vanogona kunzwa kudanana vakapfeka majee uye majee-shati futi.
Nguo hadzifanirwe kunge dziri tambo, g-tambo uye skimpy mbichana kuti ive inoshamisira!
Vamwe vanhu vanoona kupfeka muhembe kunogona kunakidza.
- Romeo naJuliet?
- Cleopatra naMark Antony?
- Scarlett naRhett?
Tsvaga izvo zvipfeko zvinoita kuti unzwe seksikäs uye enda nazvo!
Gadzira prelude yakakodzera yekuita rudo
Izvo iwe zvaunoita pamberi pekuperera kwemanheru ako erudo zvirokwazvo chimiro chemberi, uye chinenge chakakosha senge chaicho foreplay.
Chii imi mose munofarira kuita?
A filet mignon uye truffles chisvusvuro paChateau d'Amor, fancy inodhura French eatery, kana kudya uye kumhanyisa Double Double hamburger, zunza uye fries kuIn-N-Out yemuno? Kana chimwe chinhu pakati?
Dzese idzi sarudzo ndidzo dzinoitisa yako wega kudanana.
Mhedzisiro yenzvimbo yekudyira inogona kuwedzera kune yerudo kunzwa kwemanheru.
Maonero akanaka, iyo ruzha rwemafungu ari kure, mwenje wakangwara, zvigaro zvakanaka, uye kuteerera (kana kusaterera!) service vese vanogona kuwedzera kumusoro kunoshamisa kutanga kwehusiku hwerudo.
Uye mushure mekudya kwemanheru, ko firimu?
Ipo chick dzinobhururuka dzichigara dzichidanana, inogona kunge iri nguva yefirimu yerudo nechikumbiro chakawanda kwazvo. Nguva dzose kubheja kwakanaka: "Casablanca".
Tsvaga mutauro wako werudo
Hapana chinhu chakakosha pane chero hukama kupfuura kutaurirana kwakajeka uye kutsvaga mutauro wemumwe nemumwe werudo.
Zvakakosha zvakakwana, zvinhu zvekurara pabonde zvinosanganisira kutaurirana kwakatendeseka uye pachena, rudo, zvido zvekugovana, uye kufambidzana muhukama semamwe macogs ari mune vhiri rehukama mufaro.
Asi dzimwe nguva kutaura zvakawandisa nezvehukama kunoderedza kudanana, saka maonero akanyatsosanganiswa nezvekuti iwe unofanirwa kukurukura zvakadii nezveupenyu hwako hwekudanana nemumwe wako. Zvakangodaro, kudanana kunotungamira pabonde kunogadzirira makemikari anopisa pakati pevakaroora.
Gottman Institute, semuenzaniso, inotaura kuti iwe unofanirwa, "kuva nehurukuro dzisingaperi nezvekusangana pabonde", asi vamwe vanhu havangasununguka nehurukuro dzisingaperi nezvebonde.
Chiyero chakanaka chemisoro uye chekubiridzira banter chingaitisa kudanana kwazvo foreplay kune vazhinji vakaroorana.
Usatsauke epilogue
Sezvakanaka foreplay ndeyekudanana pabonde, iyo nguva mushure mebonde yakakosha zvakaenzana. Iyo yekupedzisira nguva kazhinji kazhinji inguva yemoyo yakatendeseka kukurukurirana kwemoyo.
Nekuda kwemamwe makemikari akaburitswa panguva yekupedzisira, unogona kunzwa kuswedera kupfuura nakare kune mumwe wako panguva ino.
Zvichienderana nemanzwiro, iwe nemumwe wako munogona kukurukura:
- Chii chakanzwa zvakanaka
- Zvamungade kuedza zvakare
- Pamwe taura musoro wenyaya yezvinhu zvitsva zvaungade kuedza muhukama hwako hwepedyo
Ehezve, vamwe vanhu vangangoda kurara, saka ive shuwa kuti uzive kana zvirizvo uye usaenderere mberi senge chatterbox!
Kudanana muwanano hakufanire kuitika, sezvo kunosanganisira kudanana, kuita zvepabonde, uye kubatana pakati pevaviri.
Kudanana panguva yebonde kunogona kunge kuchishaikwa muwanano kana hukama kana mumwe wevamwe vacho asingazive kukosha kwekuita bonde kudanana kune hurefu hwehukama hwehukama uye kugara zvakanaka.
Zvakare, kuwedzera rudo rwenyu chisungo, uye kuwedzera chishuwo chenyu kune mumwe nemumwe, chingave zano rakanaka kutarisa izvi zvekurara pabonde nzvimbo.
Ndinovimba, imi vaviri muchave nenzira yakafanana kuitira kuti mumwe wako asasiyiwa akarara akasvinura uye akatarisa padenga.
Bonde chinhu chakakosha kwazvo muhukama uye chinongoita zvirinani kana kudanana uye nguva zvakaenzana zvikamu zveiyo equation.