Zvemukati
- Kubvisa mabhureki chaiwo anokuchengetedza kubva mukuwana yakadzika rudo
- Kugadzira yekunyepedzera chiratidzo bhodhi uye kuwira mumusungo waro
- Kuuya nehunhu kubva kune yehupenyu kufarira pfungwa yekutarisa
- Kupofumadzwa nepfungwa yenhema yatengeswa kwatiri
- Kurega kuenda kwejade kunopinda mukati mushure mehukama hwakundikana
- Kudzidza kusunungura zvakapfuura
- Unoda here kuzvipikisa?
Kwemakore, tsika yekuisa mapikicha ewaunogona kudanana naye wawakacheka mumagazini pabhodhi rekuona rave kunyanya, rakakurumbira munyika yekukura kwega.
Asi musungo.
Nekugara zvakanyanya kutarisisa kukwezva kweanogona mudiwa, tingave tichipotsa nguva huru mukudzidza kusarudza mumwe wekufanirwa naye.
Kubvisa mabhureki chaiwo anokuchengetedza kubva mukuwana yakadzika rudo
Kwemakore makumi maviri nemapfumbamwe apfuura, munyori wekutanga anotengesa zvakanyanya, chipangamazano uye murairidzi wehupenyu David Essel anga achibatsira vanhu kubvisa mabhuroko chaiwo, anovatadzisa kuwana rudo rwakadzama, uye kusimbisa zvishuwo zvavo zverudzi rwemunhu wavanoda zuva, kwete imwe mhando yemashiripiti, yekufungidzira, yekufungidzira kufunga, asi pane chokwadi cheiyo mhando yemunhu angave akakunakira iwe?
Pazasi, David anogovera nyaya dzinoverengeka nezve vanhu vakati wandei vakawana rudo rwakadzama munzvimbo dzisingatarisirwe zvakanyanya.
"Mumakore gumi nemaviri apfuura, pfungwa yekusarudza hunhu hwe" tariro yemweya ", uye kutsvaga mifananidzo inoenderana nehunhu ihwo hwave hwakanyanya mufashoni munyika yerudo nekufambidzana.
Asi batisisa. Ndiyo nzira chaiyo yekuenda here?
Kana kuti izere nezvimbambaira, izvo zvinotigogodza kubva kumatravi edu kana zvasvika pakutsvaga mudiwa akanaka ari mutambo wakanaka kwatiri?
Kugadzira yekunyepedzera chiratidzo bhodhi uye kuwira mumusungo waro
Makore akati kuti apfuura, mumwe mukadzi akandisarudza kuti ndive chipangamazano wake uye mudzidzisi wehupenyu mukumubatsira kuwana murume wezviroto zvake.
Mubhuku redu rekutanga rinotengwa zvakanyanya, "Kufunga kwakanaka hakumbofi kwakachinja hupenyu hwako, asi bhuku iri rinodaro!", Ndinotaura nyaya izere kubva panguva yaakapinda muhofisi mangu kusvika awana rudo rwehupenyu hwake.
Asi iyo miviri nguva muhupenyu hwake yaisakwanisa kuve yakaparadzaniswa zvakanyanya, uye chokwadi cheumwe wake chakava chinotyisa kwaari.
Akanga aita chaizvo zvese zvaanoudzwa nemabhuku asinganzwisisike, akagadzira bhodhi rekuona, aitsvaga murume aive 6 tsoka mbiri, bvudzi rakatsvuka, maziso ebhuruu, akaita shoma yemadhora zana nemakumi mashanu pagore uye aifarira kumushambidza. musikana ane zvipo.
Ini handisi kutamba, ndizvo chaizvo izvo zvaanga achitarisisa kwazvo kweanenge makore mana ndisati ndasangana naye.
Akanditsanangurira kuti akange aenda kumusangano wekushanyirana nemweya, aiverenga mabhuku ese achangoburwa ekuti ungawana sei mweya wemweya, uye anga achitevedzera maitiro aya kunyangwe anga asina kubudirira kwemakore akati wandei.
Kuuya nehunhu kubva kune yehupenyu kufarira pfungwa yekutarisa
Saka ndakamupa zvekunyora zvekunyora, kuti auye nehunhu hunobva pakunzwa, kutaurirana, uye nehupenyu hwehukama hwemaonero hwaizove mutambo wakanaka kwaari maringe nehunhu hwepanyama newemari hwaaifunga kuti aitsvaga mune mumwe wako.
Mushure memavhiki akati wandei ekutevera kuraira kwangu, nekugadzira runyorwa rwaisanganisira munhu aive netariro, anosekesa, anofara, anotyaira, akavimbika, akavimbika uye nezvimwe, akapinda akati haachadi kushanda neni zvakare nekuti aida dzokera kwaari "inonakidza pfungwa yevemweya", uye iye aizo tsvaga mukomana akakwana aive chaizvo izvo zvaanga achitsvaga: 6 tsoka mbiri, bvudzi rakatsvuka, maziso ebhuruu, uye kuwana mari yakakwana yekutenga zvipo zvake nguva dzose.
Chinhu chinosetsa chakaitika munzira yake yekuwana iye waanogarisana naye. Ndakamhanyira mukati make makore akati wandei gare gare kumusangano wandakanga ndichitaura uye akandiudza kuti zvese zvaanga achimboita zvine chekuita naye "chiratidzo board soulmate", hazvina kumboitika.
Saka akati mushure mekusiya hofisi yangu mwedzi yakati wandei gare gare, akadzokera kunotevera kuraira kwangu, uye akashamisika kuziva kuti murume wake wemakore mana angave mupfupi, ane mhanza, kwete mune akakura kwazvo maumbirwo asi aisekesa, akavimbika , anonakidza, anotaurirana, uye pamwe murume akasimba kwazvo waakange ambosangana naye muhupenyu hwake.
Kupofumadzwa nepfungwa yenhema yatengeswa kwatiri
Saka nguva zhinji mukutsvaga kwedu kwerudo, tinopofomadzwa nemabhuku anotengesa zvakanyanya uye mashopu evhiki anotitaurira kuti "unogona kuwana chero chinhu chaunoda, chero bedzi iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchiita."
Kuseka. Hongu ndinoziva zvinosetsa, asi vanhu vazhinji vachiri kutevera izvi zvisina maturo.
Ko iwe? Iwe ungambozviona here iwe uine mumwe munhu anga akaremara panyama?
Iwe ungambozviona here iwe uine mumwe munhu anga asina kukwana? Izvo hazvina kukodzera yako "akakodzera murume uye kana mukadzi" chimiro?
Pandakaenda kunonyora rangu razvino bhuku "Ngirozi pabhodhi repamusoro: inoshamisa nyaya yerudo inopa makiyi erudo rwakadzama", handina kumbofunga kuti mubhuku iro musoro wenyaya uyu unogona kuve dingindira repakati.
Kurega kuenda kwejade kunopinda mukati mushure mehukama hwakundikana
Munhu anotungamira, munyori Sandy Tavish, anomhanyira mune yakanaka yaimbove mambokadzi wefash pamahombekombe uye vanotanga kuva nehurukuro yakadzika, uye inokurudzira nezve zvazvinoreva kuva murudo, uye kuti zviri nyore sei kuve jaded kana uchinge waita. wakakuvara kamwe kana kaviri kuhukama.
Aimbove mambokadzi wepa surf uyo waanosangana naye, Jenn, anotanga kusundira Sandy maererano nekutenda pamusoro pevarume, uye mukati menguva pfupi nguva Sandy anogona kutaura kuti akanyudzwa zvakanyanya maererano nehukama hwese chinhu, uye haavimbe nechero murume waanosangana naye.
Kukwezva kwake kwomuviri kuri pachena, asi Sandy anokurumidza kuziva kuti ane hurema hwakakura, uye nekuda kwekuti varume vanoverengeka munguva yake yakapfuura vakamusiya nekuda kwehurema uhu, akange ave asina kunaka zvakanyanya pamusoro pevarume vari munyika yekufambidzana.
Kudzidza kusunungura zvakapfuura
Sandy anonyatsomutungamira munzira yakasiana, nzira yekuvhura pfungwa dzake, uye kurega nzira yake yakasviba yekufambidzana, paanotaura nezvake kuti kana akagona kuchinja maitiro ake uye oburitsa zvakapfuura, anokwezva murume uyo achamuda nemoyo wake wese, zvisinei nehurema hwake panyama.
Icho chimwe chezvitsauko zvinofambisa zvakanyanya zvebhuku, uye chimwe chandinofunga isu tinofanirwa kutaura nezvakawanda.
Kunyanya paunoteerera kumagazini neInternet, paunowedzera kukweverwa muvortex iyo mumwe wako anokwana ichi chimiro chakakwana, mune zvemari, panyama, uye nezvimwe uye mukufunga kwedu kwakamanikana, tingave tichipotsa mukana wakakwana wakamira kurudyi pamusuwo wedu wepamberi.
Unoda here kuzvipikisa?
Iwe unoda here kupokana nezvako zvaunotenda nezverudo, uye ichi chose mweya mweya?
Kana iwe uri, iwe uri munzira yako yekukwezva anoshamisa mudiwa, rega kuenda kunoshamisa kufunga uye kushuvira kufunga kwakatenderedza zvese izvi zvisina maturo zvine chekuita nekukwezva iye akakwana mudiwa kuburikidza nepfungwa dzako uye ekuona mabhodhi.
Pane kudaro, zvipikise iwe kuti uchinje, uye utarise yako nyika ichichinja pauri.