Zvemukati
Vanhu vazhinji vanorangarira rudo rwavo rwekutanga nechishuwo uye kufarira. Asi kana usiri muhukama nemunhu iyeye izvozvi, unogona kunge uchitambura nekushamisika kunetsekana nezve iye akatiza.
Nyaya iripo ndeyekuti shuwa inowanzoita sugarcoat zvakapfuura. Iyo yakaenzana neyeyakajeka mbiriso ndangariro iyo yave iri bhekoni-yakaputirwa nemanzwiro. Uye kutanga kuda. Zvakanaka, ivo vanowanzova mafashama emanzwiro matsva, anonakidza asina kumbobvira aonekwa.
Saka kana isu tawira murudo kekutanga, ramangwana redu rakapendwa nechero idzva seti yemavara. Kwenguva yekutanga nguva dzose, tinogona kunyatsoona mamiriro Anofadza Kubva Mushure mokunge isu tiri pakati. Uye sekuratidzira chero kukuru, kana hukama hwacho hukapera, tinoda imwe encore.
Unoyeuka here iyo Blair Witch?
Payakatanga kubuda, vanhu vakaona bhaisikopo zvakasiyana pane avo vakariona vachiziva kuti hachisi chokwadi. Iyo bhaisikopo kune avo vekutanga vanhu yaive nesimba. Zvimwe chete neiyo Sixth Sense. Kana chokwadi changozivikanwa, iwe waisakwanisa kuona bhaisikopo nenzira imwecheteyo.
Iyo naivety yekusaziva yakakubvumidza iwe kukanganiswa mune imwe nzira yausingazombogona kusangana nayo zvakare. Zvino, iwe unotarisira bhaisikopo kushanduka.
Unoramba usina chokwadi paunoona "nyaya yechokwadi." Uye nekuda kwehunhu hwavo, isu tinowanzo tarisa iwo mafirimu akakwira, kunyangwe kana nyaya iri mune imwe bhaisikopo iri nani.
Uye ndozvazvakaita nehupenyu hwedu. Isu tinoenderera mberi needu post-yekutanga mazuva erudo, tichiona hupenyu. Tinowira murudo zvakare. Asi rudo runotevera, kazhinji havangonzwa zvakafanana.
Nyaya yacho yakasiyana. Mavara akasiyana. TAKASIYANA. Uye zvakadaro vazhinji vedu tinozvinyengera mukutenda kuti chero hukama hwakakosha hunofanira kutaridzika senge hwepakutanga.
Isu tinotsvaga manzwiro mamwe chete ataive nawo kekutanga, uye kana vasipo, tinofunga kuti chimwe chinhu chinofanira kunge chakashata. Chinhu chinofanira kunge chisipo.
Muenzaniso
Sarah akatadza kunzwisisa kuti nei "aisakwanisa kufara." Aive akaroorwa nemurume mukuru waaida uye ivo vaitaura nezve kutanga mhuri, asi iye aisakwanisa kupfuuridza kunzwa sekunge chimwe chinhu chiripo.
Paakamanikidzwa, akaburitsa pachena kuti zvakadii, makore gumi nemana gare gare, akachiva rudo rwake rwekutanga. Ivo vaviri vakagovana yakawanda yekutanga kutanga pamwechete. Akange amuwira iye, hupenyu hwake, uye mhuri yake, uye iye achiri achirwadziwa iko kurasikirwa.
Iye aingoziva kuti kana iye naex wake vaigona kuve pamwe chete, yaizove kurota kwaaida. Akafananidza kukwana kwakakwana kwenguva iyoyo kuhukama hwake izvozvi, uye mukuita kudaro, asingazive aida zvese zvese zvewanano yake kuti zviite senge ndangariro.
Zvino, mukurova kweizvo ini zvandinodaidza kunzi muto wepasi rose, Sarah zvakamhanyisa akamhanyira kuna ex wake mukati memwedzi yaakagovana neni. Kusangana kwacho kwaive kupfupi asi aifara.
Akatanga kutaura muchikamu nezve "izvi zvaive sei." IZVI zvaifanirwa kuve, uye vachangosangana, vakaita zuva rekofi. Sarah akagadzirira kupedza imba yake, akabva aenda kunotora kofi iyoyo.
Mushure mekutanga kubata hurukuro, akaona kuti ex wake aive akaroora. Uye kumuvhundutsa kwake, akapedza masikati achizvirumbidza pamusoro pekusatendeka kwake. Akatoshinga Sarah kuti ave mumwe wavo.
Akavhunduka. Apa aifunga kuti achamutora semurume akakwana waaishaya. Asi, akaona kuti kurota kwake kwakasiyana zvakasiyana neyaaifunga kuti vaigovana.
Uye kamwe kamwe iko kuguma kwakakwana, "angadai akave," akafumurwa mukunyengera kwazvaive. Kurota kwaaive akabata zvine mutsindo kwaive kufungidzira kunoenderana nemurume waakasika zvake mumusoro make.
Kana ex wake aive murume iyeye makore gumi nemana apfuura, anga asisiri. Nekuti, hazvo, nguva inozviita. Iyo inovandudza uye inochinja isu, kunyangwe isu chishuwo chekuchengetedza neimwe nzira. Chii chaivapo, chakagara mumuviri wemumwe munhu waaifunga kuti aida, zvirokwazvo haasi iye murume waakavaka.
Uye yaive panguva iyoyo iyo Sarah aikwanisa kunyatso kuona imba yake. Akakwanisa kuiremekedza uye kukoshesa nekukudza runako rwaive mairi.
Akaona kuti aive atonga zvisirizvo murume wake, achimuenzanisa nechakanaka chaisambove pane kubvumira hukama hwavo kuti hubudirire pasi pechisungo chitsva chemafungiro.
Akange asina kuziva asina hanya nezvinhu zvikuru nezvehukama hwake, achishaya runako rwebhiza rinokudzwa nekuchienzanisa neyenyoka.
Usambofa wakagadzirisa hukama
Ndinoudza vatengi vangu kuti usambogadzikana nehukama. Usambofa wakakanganisa pane zvakakosha hunhu kuti ugare nemumwe munhu. Iwe unofanirwa kugara uine hope pane zvaunoda kuti hukama hwako huve.
Asi iwe unofanirwa kuve nechokwadi chekuti iko kurota kwaunobata kwakasimba mumoyo mako uye mumusoro mako hakusi hologram yehukama iyo, mune zvese zvazviri, haina kumbovapo.
Usabatirire nehasha kumufananidzo wekare wechimwe chinhu senge icho uye chete chokwadi. Pakave nemafirimu makuru mushure meTanhatu Sense. Pakave nekuguma kwakatishamisa isu zvakadaro. Uye kune chiroto chinogona kuvapo mune izvozvi chiri nani kupfuura kurota kwaivapo panguva iyoyo.