Zvaunofanira Kuziva Nezve Kuwana "Iye"

Zvemukati

• Sei hukama huchipera kamwe kamwe?
• "Mumwe" anoburitsa hunhu hwakavanzika mauri
• Kushungurudzika pamusoro pokurasikirwa ne "iyo" hakuzogara

Iwe unoziva iwo manzwiro aunowana kana uchinge wasangana nemumwe munhu uye uine iyo pakarepo pfumo? Iwo mabhatafuru aunonzwa mudumbu rako chero pavanopinda mumba? Munoziva zvandiri kutaura nezvazvo. Kana imi mose muchirova kubva pakutanga, muchitaura kwemaawa nezvezvinhu zvese, muchiwana awa imwe yekurara nekuti mune mufaro uyu wekuti makasangana ne "iyo". Iko kunzwa kwerudo kunoshamisa! Saka iwe unotanga kuona ramangwana pamwe chete uye iwe unoziva zvechokwadi kuti mumwe munhu aripo pane iro peji peji senge iwe.

Pasina nzvimbo, zvinopera. Kwete chete iwe unorwadziwa zvachose, asi wakatorwa nekushamisika nekuti hauna kuzviona zvichiuya. Zvese zvaiita sezvakanaka chaizvo, imi mese maive papeji imwechete ... zvirinani kuti iwe waifunga. Chii chakakanganisika? Ndinoziva izvi hazvikurudzire kana iwe uri mukurwadziwa kwekuzorora, asi ndinzwe kunze. Ndinoda kuti unzwisise kuti sei wawaifunga kuti achazove shamwari yako yepamwoyo zvachose, akazoguma ave chinhu chakanakisa chausina kumbove nacho.

Mukuita kwangu, ndakashanda nevatengi vakati wandei vakasangana nevanhu vane hunhu hwese pa “rondedzero” yavo, uye vanofara vachifara pavanenge vaine munhu iyeye akakosha. Nehurombo, hukama hwacho hunopera nenzira yekukurumidza zvakanyanya nekuda kwemamiriro asingadzoreki kana asingachinjiki. Aya mamiriro zvisinei, ari ezvikonzero zvakanaka kwazvo, kunyangwe kana zvisingaite senge.

Sei hukama huchipera kamwe kamwe?

Hukama hwese (kudanana, hushamwari, bhizinesi, nezvimwewo) kuyambuka nzira dzedu kutiratidza kutonga kwedu uye nenyaya dzisina kugadziriswa; ivo zvakare vanoyambuka nzira dzedu kuvhenekera hunoshamisa hunhu hwedu pachedu hwatisiri kubvuma, kuve uye kuona. Funga nezvazvo. Wakagona kangani kuwana hunhu hwakawanda pamusoro peiyo "iyo" yakamuita iye kana iye anokwezva zvakanyanya? Pamwe wakamboti, "Iye kana Iye akaburitsa kugona mandiri!" Fembera chii? Ivo vakanyatsoburitsa zvakanakisa mauri! Nekudaro, ibasa rako kuchengetedza zvakanakisa iwe kuenda. Vakazadzisa basa ravo rekunamata pamwe chete newe nekukukwezva kuhunhu hwavo hunoratidza kwauri hunhu hunoshamisa hwausiri kuona mauri. Kunyange zvakadaro, rakanga risiri basa ravo kuti vagare.

"Mumwe" anoburitsa hunhu hwakavanzika mauri

Hatigone kuona kana kukoshesa hunhu mune mumwe munhu isu tisingavone kana kukoshesa matiri. "Iyo" haina kungoburitsa aya mamwe ako hunhu, asi zvakare akakonzera hunhu hwakavanzwa mukati mako. Hapana mumwe munhu anogona kukuita kuti unzwe kana kuve chero chinhu chawanga usati watove. Hakuna munhu "mumwe," nekuti wese waunosangana naye ndiye. Wese munhu asina kuroorwa waunowirirana naye (zvekare kwete chete wekudanana) mweya wemumwe, nekuti ivo vari kukudzidzisa iwe mweya zvidzidzo uye zvehupenyu makosi.

Kushungurudzika pamusoro pokurasikirwa ne "iyo" hakuzogara

Nditende, ndinonzwisisa kushushikana nekurasikirwa newawaifunga kuti "ndiye". Inogona kusanzwa senge izvozvi izvozvi, asi kunzwa uku kungori kwenguva pfupi yekuora mwoyo. Iko kungokuvara kwenguva refu chete kungave kusatambira zvechokwadi hunhu hunoshamisa hwawakaona uye / kana hwawakawana ne "iyo." Rangarira, iwe hauna kurambwa, ivo vakapihwa chete kune chimwe chinangwa. Chinangwa chehukama hwese ndechekuti isu tidzidze uye
kukura murudo; kune mumwe munhu uye pachedu. Chinangwa chehukama hachisi chekuita kuti tifare nekuda kwehukama, kana kuzadzisa zvisipo zvisina chinhu muhupenyu hwedu. Iwe unofanirwa kushanda kuburikidza nemarwadzo kuitira kuti usvike kune chinangwa chehukama hwako, uye kuti zvinorevei kukushandira iwe.

Kunyangwe huvepo hwe "iye" hungave husipo, hunhu hwawakada nezvavo hunogara huri hwako. Sei? Kungoti nekuti iwe zvawakada nezvavo, ndiwo chaiwo hunhu hunoshamisa hunowanikwa mukati menyu. Paunopedzisira waburitsa zvirinani mauri, ipapo iwe unozokwanisa kuigovana ne "iye" uyo anounza akanakisa mavari zvakare. Hapana chikonzero chekuitsvaga mumaziso emumwe munhu, maoko, kana mubhedha. Rega kufunga kuti unotevera munhu wauchasangana naye ndiye "iye;" nekuti Iye anga achitarisa mumaziso ako uye achikumirira kuti umuone nguva yese. Munhu anotarisa kumashure mugirazi ndiye anounza ZVAKANAKA mauri.