Zvemukati
- 1. Masvingo ari kuvhara
- 2. Kutaurirana malaise
- 3. Zvikuru zvinotarisirwa
- 4. Shanduko inotyisa mumararamiro
- 5. Kuputsa kuvimba
- 6. Negodo
- 7. Dendere risina chinhu
- 8. Unhu hunopesana
- Mifungo yekupedzisira
Sei vanhu vakaroorana vachirambana mushure mekuroora kwenguva refu? Aya mamiriro anonetsa vazhinji vedu.
Vakaroorana vakakwana vanopedza makumi emakore vachirima hupenyu hwakakwana hwe "picket fenzi", vanogumisa muchato pamucheto wemakore egoridhe.
Shamwari uye mhuri vanoshamisika, "Chii changoitika?" Vazhinji vanhu avo "vakambobviswa" kubva mudenderedzwa remurume nemukadzi vanotanga kuita makuhwa nezve zvese zvingangokonzeresa kukanganiswa kwewanano.
Mumwe wavo aibiridzira here?
Iye ngochani here?
Vari kurwira mari here?
Kuroora kwaive nezvevana chete here?
Mamiriro ezvinhu anosiririsa, asi zvinoitika. Vaviri "vane ruzivo" vakaroorana vanogona kuona yavo yakambosimba roorano ichiderera mukukanganwa.
Mubvunzo ndewkuti, paive nezviratidzo here zvekuti magumo aive ave pedyo? Ndizvozvo.
Saka, ndechipi chinonyanya kukonzera kurambana, uye nei maricho akawanda achikundikana uye varoorani vachivavarira grey kurambana?
Verenga pamusoro kuti uwane chikonzero chikuru chekurambana, pamwe nezvimwe zvikonzero zvakakosha zvekuti vakaroora vane ruzivo vanosarudza kuenda nenzira dzakasiyana.
1. Masvingo ari kuvhara
Dzimwe nguva vakaroorana muhukama hwakareba-nguva vanonzwa kumanikidzwa nemasimba ekutsungirira ehukama.
Vabatsiri vanogona kunzwa kuti vari kubatirana kubva kune kwavo-kugadzirisa.
Ehe, pane dzimwe nguva apo vanhu vari mumubatanidzwa unogara kwenguva refu vanonzwa kunge vasingakwanise kutora mamwe matanho pamwechete, uye vangave nzira dzakanaka dzekuparadzanisa.
Kana vaviri vakakamukana mushure memakore mazhinji e "kunoonekwa kubatana", kazhinji vanhu vakatenderedza fungidziro,
"Sei vaviri vachirambana mushure memakore gumi emuchato?", Kana
"Ndechipi chikonzero chikuru chekurambana kwevaviri vaitaridzika kufara pamwe chete?"
Chikonzero chekutanga chekurambana kwevaroorani vakagara mumichato mirefu chishuwo chakasimba chekutanga patsva kana kukwidziridzwa.
Yakadzika sezvazvinogona kunzwika, dzimwe nguva zvinogona kusagutsa kuramba uri muhukama nemunhu mumwe chete wawave naye kwemakumi emakore, uye vanhu vanotsvaga "hutsva". Iyi kurudziro yekuita hutsva inopedzisira yave kukonzera kutungamira kurambana.
Rusununguko runouya nemutengo wakakwira kana zvoreva kupera kwehukama hwave kusimbisa nekusimbisa kwemakumi emakore.
2. Kutaurirana malaise
Sei vanhu vakaroorana vachirambana mushure mekugara pamwe chete nemunhu mumwe chete kwemakore? Kutaurirana kwakashata inzira yekukurumidza yekurambana pakati pevana vacheche.
Izvo zvanzi kutaurirana hakusi kungotaura kune mumwe wako, asi kuti unzwisise maonero avo uye maonero ehupenyu.
Kana kunzwisisa uye kuziva kwechiono kuchinge kusisipo muhukama, hukama hunopedzisira hwasvava hwofa. Kushaikwa kwekutaurirana uye chinhambwe chakakura pakati pevakaroana ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero zvakajairika zvekurambana.
Kana matambudziko ekutaurirana ari mhedzisiro yesitiroko kana imwe mamiriro ekurapa anonetesa, marwadzo e "kupera" anogona kutonyanya kutaurwa.
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3. Zvikuru zvinotarisirwa
Nei vaviri vakaroorana vachirambana kana vakasangana nematambudziko akasiyana-siyana sevaroorani vadiki ndokubuda vachiita kunge vasina kugadzikana?
Ngatitaurei kuva vakatendeseka. "Kusvikira Rufu Rwatiita Chikamu" chirevo chakareba.
Zvakaoma kufungidzira kuti iri zano rakaedzwa mumichato ine hutano, asi ndizvo. Kana pamudyandigere, kurasikirwa nebasa, kana chirwere chisingaperi chikauya, tinotarisira kuti shamwari yedu yepedyo ichatibatsira kufamba mukusava nechokwadi uye shanduko.
Izvo hazviwanzo kuitika.
Pane dzimwe nguva, vedu vadikanwa "vakave nezvakakwana" uye vanosarudza kubva kure nekubatana. Kune mumwe wako akaramba akazvipira kuhukama, zvinotarisirwa uye zvinotarisirwa zvinofanirwa kutariswa zvakare.
4. Shanduko inotyisa mumararamiro
Saka iwe unosvika kune "Goridhe Makore" ekuwana.
Wakashongedzerwa nenzvimbo hombe uye muhoro muhombe zvakaenzana, unozviwana uri pamusoro pemutambo wako wezvemari. Mudiwa wako anojairira kufamba kwechikepe, maCadillac, uye zvese zvinoshamisa zvemari yemari.
Pakarepo, hupfumi matangi uye rako rakanaka basa rinonyura.
Saka, chii chinokonzeresa kurambana kana iwe uchinge wadudza rudo rwenyu kune mumwe nemumwe kuburikidza neyakaonda uye nhete?
Michato mizhinji haigone kurarama nekukasika kuderera kwemari uye nehupenyu hunochinja. Yako inogona kusapona.
Asi kana hukama hwehukama hwako hwakatongwa nemari yako yawakawana, hukama hwacho hwakanga hwakakodzera nguva nesimba mukutanga here? Kana hwaro hwemuchato hwazununguswa nehunhu hwemakaro, mibvunzo yakaita seiyi, "Sei vaviri vakaroorana vachirambana" zvinoita kunge zvisina basa.
5. Kuputsa kuvimba
Dzimwe nguva zvikonzero zvekurambana zvinosanganisira kusatendeka muwanano.
Zvinogona kutanga nateedzana husiku husiku muhofisi.
Mumwe mukadzi anoona kuti mhosva dzisiri dzechokwadi dziri kuonekwa paAmerican Express, uye rekodhi yefoni yakasvibiswa nenhamba dzisingazivikanwe.
Sezvo fungidziro dzemumwe wako dzinokura, kunyangwe hukama hwakaomeswa muhondo hunogona kutambura.
Nekudaro, izvi zvinokumbira iwo mubvunzo, nei vaviri vakaroorana vachirambana uye vasingashande pakupora uye kupora kubva pakurohwa kwekusatendeka?
Nzira chete yekununura muchato wakaparadzwa nekusatendeseka ndeyekuti murume wekubiridzira anenge achida kushanda kuti adzore muchato uye kugadzirisa kukuvara kwakakonzerwa newaanetswa.
Kana mukwanyina anotadza asingadi kushanda pazvinhu zvakakonzera kutyorwa kwetrust, zvinogona kunge zvapera.
Kubiridzira, kunyepa nekutengesa ndezvimwe zvezvikonzero zvikuru zvekurambana kwevazhinji vakaroorana vakagara vese kwemakumi emakore.
6. Negodo
Zvikonzero zvinoita kuti vanhu varambane zvinogona kukonzerwa negodo. Godo muhukama ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero zvikuru zvekurambana.
Vamwe vadyidzani vane wechipiri mukadzi - iro basa - kana chitandadzo chinotora nguva uye hukama hwepedyo-hwakaomera.
Dzimwe nguva, kune rimwe divi, murume kana mukadzi anonzwa kunge akabatwa neane basa zvakanyanya anogona kunge achiwedzeredza kudzama kwedambudziko.
Hongu, godo rinogona kuva dambudziko mumichato ine mwaka kana mumwe kana vaviri vacho vakatambura nedambudziko rekusachengeteka.
Dzimwe nguva godo rinoguma rinogona kuita kuti kutsinhana kwerudo nenguva neruzivo kuve zvisingaite.
Saka, Nei vaviri vakaroorana vachirambana mumakore avo echirima? Godo rinouraya michato yemichato yenguva dzese uye varoorani vanogona kunge vachinanga munzira yekurambana vanogona kutora matanho akakodzera ekugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu, nekukudziridza hukama hwemhuri, zvakare.
7. Dendere risina chinhu
Vana vanokura uye, netarisiro, vanosiya mhuri yavo yekwavanobva kuti vatange hupenyu hwavo vega.
Vazhinji vakaroorana, vachiri kusuwa mazuva apo vana vaive pamba, vanogamuchira dendere risina chinhu nechido. Vamwe vakaroorana vanoona kuti vakadyara yakawanda yenguva yavo uye nesimba kuvana zvekuti havazive mashandiro evaviri zvekare.
Izvi zvinogona kuve zvinoshungurudza kuwanikwa kwemhuri, asi zvinoitika kazhinji kazhinji kupfuura zvaunofunga.
Zvakaoma kudzorerazve muchato makumi emakore muhukama. Navana vari kunze kwemufananidzo kunyorovesa chokwadi chevaviri vasina kubatana chaizvo, hukama hwacho huchaora. Dendere risina chinhu ndechimwe chezvikonzero zvepamusoro zvekurambana mumichato yenguva refu.
Kurera vana kana kuzvidira muzukuru hakuzoponese nyaya yakakosha yekusaziva kuve pamwe chete.
8. Unhu hunopesana
Vanhu vanoshanduka. Isu tiri zvisikwa zvine simba, zvinoshanduka, zvinoumbika.
Asi kushanduka kwepfungwa kwakabatana sei nemubvunzo, nei vaviri vakaroorana vachirambana?
Mune zvakawanda, hukama hwedu hunofanira kuchinja nesu kana tikazoparara. Zvinoitika kakawanda kupfuura iwe zvaunofunga. Nepo hunhu hwuchichinja uye hunogona kukonzeresa hwekukonana kazhinji huri vana vezvakakonzera zvikonzero - kuchembera, kuora mwoyo, dzidzo - kune zvimwe zvikonzero zvekunze futi.
Semuenzaniso, kunetsana kwehunhu kunogona kumuka pamusoro penyaya dzakaita nezvematongerwo enyika, vabereki vachembera, kana maitiro ekubata nemwana mukuru anetseka. Kana hukama hukatanga kutsemuka nekuda kwehunhu hunopesana, inova imwe yezvikonzero zvekusiya muchato.
Kana isu tikasaona ziso-neziso pazvinhu zvinotsanangura zvehupenyu hwedu pamwe chete, tinogona kutarisana.
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Mifungo yekupedzisira
Kunyangwe michato yakakwenenzverwa inogona kufa yekupedzisira-nhanho kufa.
Kunyange zvichiri zvakajairika kupfuura kutanga-nhanho kurambana, kunonoka kurambana kuri kwese kunoparadza. Muchokwadi, vakaroorana vakura vanogona kunge vasina iyo yepanyama uye yepamoyo matura ekuzorora zvizere kubva pakurasikirwa.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti uzvikomberedze pamwe nevehunyanzvi vane hunyanzvi, ongorora basa rako mukudzikisira kwewanano, uye nekutyora tsika dzisina kufanira dzekutaurirana uye maitiro ehukama.
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