Zvemukati
- Mutemo 1: Iva nenguva yekupora kubva pakurambana
- Mutemo 2: Mese muri vaviri pane peji rimwe chete?
- Mutemo 3: Funga kuti nei uchida kushamwaridzana newawakarambana naye
- Mutemo 4: Usatambe nerudo uye kuvabata seshamwari yako
- Mutemo 5: Enderera uye rega vafambire mberi
- Mutemo 6: Gara wakanaka, gara uchifara
- Mutemo 7: Regedza kuvadaidza ex wako
Hazvisi nyore kushamwaridzana nemunhu wekare kana usiri kutevedzera mamwe marongero. Unotoziva munhu iyeye uye mapedza nguva yakati rebei muri pamwe chete. Kuva shamwari navo kunogona kukuisa munzvimbo isinganetseki kwaunowira munhu iyeye, zvakare kana unogona kukanganisa zvachose zviripo zviripo.
Kuti ikubatsire iwe kuchengetedza hushamwari hune hutano newawakamboita pano heano mamwe marondedzero aunofanirwa kutevedzera. Wako wekare anogona kuva shamwari yako yakanaka, shure kwezvose.
Mutemo 1: Iva nenguva yekupora kubva pakurambana
Isu tinonzwisisa kuti haudi kurega ex yako zviri nyore asi usati waita ex wako shamwari yako, zvipe nguva yako wega. Kuzorora kunorwadza. Zvinokutora iwe kuburikidza neese akanaka ndangariro iwe awakagovana neawakamboita. Usati watanga chitsauko chitsva muhupenyu hwako, zvinokurudzirwa kutora nguva kupora kubva muchikamu chakaipa.
Paunenge uchinge wabuda uye wakadzikama, kana uchinge wave nechokwadi chekuti kusangana newawakaroorana naye hakuzokuvhiringidze mupfungwa nemumoyo, ipapo unogona kufunga nezvekushamwaridzana newaimbova ex.
Zvirinani kana iwe ukatsvaga rairo kushamwari dzako futi usati waita iyi sarudzo. Hazvifanirwe kuitika kuti iwe uri shamwari newawakaroorana naye uyezve wotodhonzwa mukati mekunetseka kwepfungwa zvakare.
Mutemo 2: Mese muri vaviri pane peji rimwe chete?
Wakagovana here zano rekuva shamwari post-break-up newawakaroora? Wakavapa nguva here yekufunga nezve sarudzo yekupedzisira? Makamboongorora here mamiriro ezvinhu nemhedzisiro yacho musati maenderera mberi nesarudzo?
Izvo zvinodikanwa kuti imi mose muve papeji rimwe chete.
Izvo hazvifanire kuitika kuti mumwe wenyu achakamira kare asi mumwe achifambira mberi muhupenyu.
Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, iwe unogona kufunga kuti uri kungova shamwari newawakaroorana naye asi mumwe wacho anogona kuzopedzisira nekunetseka mupfungwa mushure meizvozvo. Saka, ita shuwa kuti imi mose muri papeji imwe uye moenderera mberi nesarudzo.
Mutemo 3: Funga kuti nei uchida kushamwaridzana newawakarambana naye
Kazhinji, vanhu vanoviga zvakapfuura zvavo uye vanofambira mberi muhupenyu. Aya ndiwo mararamire anofanirwa kuve. Nekudaro, iwe kana iwe ukafunga kuita chimwe chinhu chisina kujairika icho vamwe vanoona chiri kupenga, zvinodikanwa kuti iwe waongorora zvese zvinobvira zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira pazviri.
Nekudaro, usati usati wafunga kupa zano rehukama kune wawakaroorana naye, ita shuwa kuti iwe unoziva nei iwe uchida kuzviita.
Kuongorora mukana uyu kunokupa iwe yakajeka pfungwa uye chikonzero chekutora iyi nhanho. Izvi, zvirokwazvo, zvinokubatsira iwe kuita sarudzo yehungwaru uye zvichakubatsira iwe kupatsanura yako yapfuura kubva kune yako yazvino.
Mutemo 4: Usatambe nerudo uye kuvabata seshamwari yako
Iwe wapedza hukama hwako newawakaroorana naye uye wafambira mberi muhupenyu hwako, saizvozvowo nekare wako. Nekudaro, kana iwe ukafunga kufambidzana navo zvakare, seshamwari chete, zviri pachena kuti udzore rudo rwekunzwa zvakare. Zvisinei, hazvina kunaka zvachose.
Kunyangwe iwe uchifunga kuti zvakanaka kutamba newawakaroorana naye zvine hushamwari, zvinogona kuratidza kuti hauna kuenda kumberi uye uchiri wakanamatira mune chiuno.
Unofanira kuratidza kukura kwako kana uchida kushamwaridzana newawakamboita.
Mutemo 5: Enderera uye rega vafambire mberi
Muchikamu chekutanga kwazvo mushure mekurambana, unochema. Iwe unochema pamusoro pekuguma kwechikamu chakanaka. Paunenge wapedza, unozviunganidzira wega wotanga patsva. Ndiko kunonzi kufambira mberi nehupenyu hwako. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, paunofunga kuve shamwari nakare wako, unogona kuzviona uchidhonzerwa mumamiriro ezvinhu, zvekare.
Iwe fambira mberi uye ungangotanga chimwe chinhu chitsva nemumwe munhu. Saizvozvo, ivo vanogona kutanga kuona mumwe munhu post kuputsa-kumusoro. Chiratidzo chekufamba kwako uri kuvaona vachifara nemumwe munhu. Izvi zvaizoratidza kuti uri shamwari yavo yechokwadi uye kwete kungori ex.
Mutemo 6: Gara wakanaka, gara uchifara
Chokwadi! Kazhinji kusafara mukushamwaridzana newaimbova kunobva mukunzwa kwakashata kungave nako mukati. Zvakanaka kana hukama husina kushanda. Zvakanaka iwe waifanira kupedza chimwe chinhu chakanaka nemunhu akanaka, asi izvi hazvireve kuti ndiko kuguma kwenyika, ndizvo here?
Kana iwe wafunga kuita hushamwari newawakarambana saka unofanirwa kugara uine tariro uye uchifara, kwete kwavari asi newewo.
Iko kufara uye kwakanaka kunzwa kuchakubatsira iwe kushandura wako wekare kuita yako yakanaka shamwari. Imi mese munozivana mushe saka kuva newawakaroora seshamwari yako rinenge riri zano rakanaka, chete kana iwe uchinge wakazvigadzirira.
Mutemo 7: Regedza kuvadaidza ex wako
Paunowedzera kutaura navo sewawakasiya, ndipo pauchanyanya kurangarira zvakapfuura. Hukama hwawaive nahwo newawakasiya naye hwapera uye urikutanga patsva navo.
Uri kuvagamuchira seshamwari yako uye haufanire kuvataurira sewawakasiya.
Kana uchinge wafunga kuita hushamwari newawakaroorana naye, zvakafanira kuti utange kutaura navo seshamwari kwete sewaimbova ex. Izvi zvicharatidza kusaziva kuti wafambira mberi muhupenyu uye wakagadzirira kugamuchira hukama hutsva navo.