Zvemukati
- 1. Kodzero dzinopihwa vanhu vakaroora
- 2. Ngochani vanhu havasisiri vechipiri kirasi vagari
- 3. Nhaka munyika yekurera
- 4. Zvese ndezvechokwadi
Wanga uri musoro unopisa mumasangano ezvematongerwo enyika kwemakumi emakore. Iyo inyaya yekumisikidza, ichisiya vanhu vazhinji zvese kune iyo kana zvine simba kupokana nayo. Inyaya yekodzero dzevanhu. Inyaya yekodzero dzevanhu. Asi haifanire kunge iri nyaya zvachose.
Uye apa tiri, muna 2017, tichiri kutaura nezve kuroorwa-pabonde kuroora.
Muna 2015, dare redzimhosva muUnited States rakapa mutongo wekuti nyika dzose makumi mashanu dzinofanirwa kuchengetedza kodzero dzekuroorwa kwevanhukadzi nevanhurume. Nekudaro, zvisinei kana iwe uchida, uchivenga, kana usina hanya nemuchato wengochani, zviri pano kugara.
Panzvimbo pekutanga imwezve gakava pakati peaya kune ese magumo eiyo spectrum, ngatitaurei nezvechokwadi chemamiriro ezvinhu: varume nevakadzi ngochani vakarambidzwa kodzero yekuda, kurwira, kutsungirira, uye kuda zvakare, mukufara kwemuchato nguva refu.
Izvozvi zvavakapihwa kodzero dzakaenzana sevamwe vaviri vakaroorana, ngatitarisei mamwe mabhenefiti avachawana sevanhu vakaroora uye vakadzi vakaroora.
1. Kodzero dzinopihwa vanhu vakaroora
Kune 1,138 mabhenefiti anopiwa vanhu vakaroora, nerukudzo rwehurumende. Verenga izvo zvakare- 1,138! Zvinhu zvakaita sekushanyirwa muchipatara, kuchengetwa kwehutano hwemhuri, uye kubatana mutero kufaira kwaiwanzo kuwanikwa chete kana iwe wakaroora kune mumwe munhu ane nhengo dzakasiyana dzekubereka pane dzako. Kwete zvakanyanya futi!
Iwe unogona here kufungidzira kusakwanisa kuona wako akakosha mumwe kuchipatara mushure mekunge vapinda mutsaona yakakomba yemotokari kana kuvhiyiwa kukuru? Unoziva kuboora, ndizvozvo mhuri chete pakupera kwezuva! Izvi zvinoreva kuti kwenguva yakareba kwazvo, varume nevakadzi ngochani vakasara muimba yekumirira apo munhu wavanoda zvakanyanya akapora achangodzika muhoro. Kodzero dzakadai dzinowanzo kufuratirwa mukukurukurirana kwemichato yevakomana kana vakadzi, asi nemutongo muna2015 uchibvumira ngochani kuroora, ikozvino vanhu ivavo vanogona kunakidzwa nezvakanaka izvi zvakare.
2. Ngochani vanhu havasisiri vechipiri kirasi vagari
Pre-2015, iyi yaive chaiyo chaiyo yekufunga maitiro kana hurukuro ingadai yakaitika:
“Hesi kani, urikutsvaga kuroora?
"Hongu tiri!"
“Iwe unobhadhara here mutero? Iwe uri mugari weU.S. Unotenda here izvo zvese nezve "vanhu vese vakasikwa vakaenzana?"
"Hongu, hongu, uye hongu hongu!"
"Muri murume nemukadzi here?"
“Zvakanaka, kwete. Tiri ngochani. ”
“Ndine hurombo, handikwanise kukubatsira. Munoita sevanhu vakanaka, asi hamugone kuroora. ”
Iyo inopinda mukati meAmerican zvinyorwa uye itsika kuti varume vese vakasikwa vakaenzana. Kupera kwechivimbiso chekuvimbika "... nyika imwe chete, iri pasi paMwari, isingazanganisike, ne rusununguko uye ruramisiro kune vese."Ndinofungidzira madzibaba edu ekutanga, uye nevatungamiriri vazhinji vakatevera, vakataura hurukuro, asi havana kufamba zvakanyanya. VaAfrica -America, vakadzi, uye ngochani varume nevakadzi vakatambura nehunyengeri uhu kuzvizvarwa. Asi nekufamba kwekodzero dzevanhu, kufamba kwekodzero dzevakadzi, uye ikozvino mutongo wakakura muna 2015 wakagonesa chero vakaroora vaviri kuti varoorane muUnited States, zvipingamupinyi pakati pematanho ehugari hwakapunzika zvakanyanya.
3. Nhaka munyika yekurera
Vakadzi-bonde vakaroorana vanga vachibudirira kurera vana kwemakore, asi zvaiita senge taboo yemazhinji mapato ane chinangwa. Izvi hazvisi zvevakadzi chete-pabonde, asi vanhu vazhinji (vakuru, vechinyakare vanhu) vanowanzo kutonga avo vanorera vana kunze kwewanano. Kuroora uye kuva nevana kwagara kwakasungwa pamwechete, saka kana vaviri vachinge varera vana kunze kwezvikamu zvechinyakare, zvinowanzotora kumwe kujaira. Navakaroora vechingochani zvino vatenderwa kuroora, vanogona kurera vana vavo ivo vachiroora sezvakangoita tsika zvevanhu.
Zvinonyanya kukosha kupfuura maonero evasingazive zvachose, vaviri ngochani kurera mwana vachiri muwanano zvinogona kubatsirawo mwana zvakare. Pamberi pemutongo waibvumidza roorano yemurume nemukadzi-bonde mune zvese matunhu, vana vanogona kunge vakatarisa vabereki vavo uye vakanzwa zvakasiyana nekuti vabereki vavo vaive vasina kuroora paive nevabereki veshamwari dzavo. Ini ndinogona kufungidzira kuti zvinogona kuita kuti nhaurwa isinganetse uye inovhiringidza ive yevabereki nemwana kana ivo vaizoedza kutsanangura kuti ivo havana kubvumidzwa kuroora. Mazuva ano, hapana chikonzero chehurukuro iyoyo sezvo varume kana vakadzi vanogona kusimudza vana vavo pavanenge vakaroora vachifara.
4. Zvese ndezvechokwadi
Mushure mekuroora, mudhanzi John Mulaney akaseka nezve huremu hwekuchinja rake rakakosha zita kubva kumusikana, kuva mukomana, kuva mukadzi. Akataura nezvekunzwa kwakasiyana pakumufonera mukadzi pane kungoita musikana wake chete. Paive neimwe simba kuseri kwayo; zvakanzwa sekunge zvaitakura zvimwe zvinoreva kwaari.
Kunyangwe zvakataurwa na Mulaney zvichinyunyuta nezve shanduko yake yekuroora, shanduko iyi ndeye iyo yevakomana-bonde vaviri vakavharirwa kunze kwemakore. Kusvikira kuroora ngochani kwave kunyoreswa zviri pamutemo, iwo mazita avakanamatira nawo aive mukomana, musikana, kana mudiwa. Ivo havana kumbowana mukana wekudaidza mumwe munhu murume wavo kana mukadzi.
Ikoko ndizvo chimwe chinhu chakakosha uye chinoshamisa nezve shanduko mumazita aya. Handisati ndambonzwa semunhu mukuru kupfuura pandakatanga kudaidza mukadzi wangu "mukadzi wangu". Zvaiita sekunge ndayambuka pachikumbaridzo. Inogona kutaridzika senge diki nyaya, asi kupa vakomana kana murume bonde mukana wekutevera chikumbaridzo ichocho kungave iko kubatsirwa kukuru kwavakawana kubva pamutongo wedhipatimendi rezvemitemo.
Hapana munhu anoda kunzi "shamwari". Zvinoita kuti unzwike sewe uri chikamu chefemu yemutemo. Murume nemukadzi mazita anoyera, ndosaka vavaki vemitemo vakabata pavari zvakanyanya kwemakore. Ivo vaisada kurega vega ngochani kuti vaone kunakidzwa kwazvinoita kuva nemurume kana mukadzi. Iye zvino chero vaviri vakaroorana vanogona kuve neruzivo irworwo. Kuva murume nemukadzi, murume nemurume, kana mukadzi nemukadzi zvinhu zvese zvakanaka. Ikoko ndizvo kurema kumashoko iwayo. Iye zvino vese-bonde-vakaroorana vachatora mukana wekutaura navo pazuva remuchato wavo.