Zvemukati
- Kuedza kugara wega wakaroora
- Kugara wakasarudzika kunyangwe uri murudo inogona kunge iri pfungwa yakanaka
Pane kushorwa muhukama hunofanirwa kuputswa, kuitira kuti isu tifambe kuenda mberi sebudiriro.
Kutonga kushoma. Pasina kufungidzirwa. Kana zvasvika panyaya dzemwoyo.
Kuva murudo, asi zvakadaro uchigara munzvimbo dzakasiyana dzekugara, inogona kuve mhinduro kumamirioni avanhu vari kutsvaga zvese kubatana kwakadzika uye rugare rwemukati nguva imwe chete.
Makore angangoita makumi maviri apfuura, mumwe mukadzi akauya kuzonditsvaga rubatsiro rwekupa mazano nekuti imba yake yaive mugehena chairo.
Akatenda zvine mutsindo muchirevo chekugara pamwe nekusingaperi, kana uchinge waroora ... Asi iye ainyatso kunetsekana nehunyanzvi hwemurume wake, uye pfungwa yekuti vaive vakapesana zvakanyanya muchimiro.
Akaramba kuuya kuzoshanda neni, saka zvaive kwaari ... Hukama hwaive kuzonyura kana kushambira nekuda kwezvaakasarudza kutaura nekuita.
Mushure memwedzi ingangosvika mitanhatu tichishanda pamwe chete, uye vhiki rega rega ndichidzungudza musoro wangu paakapinda achindiudza dzimwe nyaya nezvekuti vaigona sei kunge vasingawirirane, ndakakumbira chimwe chinhu chandanga ndisati ndambotaura kune chero munhu mune rangu basa remberi izvo . Ndakamubvunza, kana iye nemurume wake vachizovhurirwa nguva yekuyedzwa yekugara vari voga vakaroora, asi munzvimbo dzakasiyana dzekugara.
Pakutanga, akadzokera kumashure nekuvhunduka, aisatenda zvandaitaura.
Pataitaura nguva yese yasara yeawa, ndakatanga kupembedza chikonzero nei ndaifunga ichi chingave chinhu chega chinogona kuponesa imba yavo. Kururamiswa kwangu kwekutanga kwavari kuti vagare vari voga vakaroora kwaive nyore ... Vaive nemakore ekuziva kugara pamwe chete izvo zvaisashanda. Saka wadii kuyedza zvinopesana?
Sekufunga kwangu, ivo vaive vakananga kurambana zvakadaro, saka wadii kupa pfungwa yechinhu chakadai sekuroora asi kugara wakaparadzana iri zano raive kunze kwebhokisi mukana. Nekutya kukuru, akaenda kumba akanogovana nemurume wake. Kushamisika kwake kunoshamisa, akada zano!
Kuedza kugara wega wakaroora
Vakaroorana vanogona kugara voga here?
Masikati iwayo akatanga kutsvaga kondo mamaira kubva kumba kwavo kwazvino.
Mukati memazuva makumi matatu akawana nzvimbo yaaigona kugara, kadiki diki yekurara, kondomu, uye anga achifara asi achitya kuti achashandisa rusununguko rwake achangowana kuwana mumwe mutsva.
Asi ndakavaudza kuti vasaine kontrakiti, kuti vagare semurume mumwe chete, hapana zvezvepfungwa uye kana zvepanyama zvaibvumidzwa.
Izvo, kana mumwe wavo akatanga kutsauka, vaifanira kubva vatoudza mumwe wavo. Isu takaita kuti izvi zvese zvinyorwe. Uyezve, ichi chaizove chiitiko.
Pakupera kwemazuva zana nemakumi maviri, dai zvainge zvisiri kushanda, kana vakazviwana vava nemhirizhonga nemadhirama vaizoita sarudzo yezvavaizoita zvinotevera.
Pashure vachigara vega vakaroora, ivo vaigona kusarudza kupatsanura, kusarudza kurambana kana kusarudza kudzokerana pamwe chete voipa imwe yekupedzisira kupfura.
Asi iyo yakasara yenyaya ingano. Zvakanaka. Mukati memazuva makumi matatu ivo vese vaida marongero akapatsanurwa.
Vakaungana husiku huna pavhiki pakudya kwemanheru uye vakapedza vhiki svondo vangangoita pamwe chete.
Murume wake akatanga kurara pamusoro peMugovera manheru, saka vaigona kuve nemusi wese Mugovera uye zuva rese Svondo pamwe chete. Kugara vari voga vakaroora kwakavashandira vese.
Nekuparadzaniswa kwavaive vachiri vakaroora asi vasingagare vese, daro ravaidikanwa vese nekuti hunhu hwavo hwakanga hwakasiyana zvakasiyana, hwaiitirwa. Nguva pfupi mushure mekuparadzaniswa kwekuyedzwa ikazova kupatsanurwa kwekupedzisira ... Kwete kupatsanurwa muwanano yavo asi kupatsanurwa mukurongeka kwavo.
Thei vese vakafara kupfuura zvavaive vamboita muhupenyu hwavo pamwe chete.
Nguva pfupi yapfuura, akadzoka kwandiri kuzodzidza kunyora bhuku. Takashanda tese kwemwedzi tichimubatsira kuveza pepa rehurukuro yake nekuti ndanga ndanyora mabhuku mazhinji panguva iyoyo, ndakamupa yega yega yedzidzo yandakange ndagamuchira, uye aibudirira semunyori kekutanga.
Akandiudza kakawanda, kuti kana iye aimboedza kunyora bhuku uye achigara mune imwechete yekugara nemurume wake, aizove achimugaro gara. Asi nekuda kwekuti anga asiri padhuze zvakanyanya, akanzwa rusununguko rwekuve iye, kuzviitira iye, uye kufara ari ega achiziva kuti achiri nemumwe munhu anomuchengeta uye anomuda zvakadzama ... Murume wake.
Kugara wakasarudzika kunyangwe uri murudo inogona kunge iri pfungwa yakanaka
Ino haisi nguva yekupedzisira pandakaita rudzi urwu rwekurumbidza kuti vaviri varoorane asi vachigara vega, uye kubvira panguva iyoyo pakave nevakaroorana vakati wandei vandakabatsira kubatsira kuchengetedza hukama nekuti vakapedzisira vatanga kugara zvakasiyana dzimba dzekugara.
Vakaroorana vasingagare vese. Zvinonzwika kusanzwisisika, handizvo here? Kuti isu tinochengetedza rudo uye kubvumira rudo kukura kuburikidza nekugara pasi penzira kubva kune mumwe nemumwe? Asi zvinoshanda. Iye zvino hazvishande kune wese munhu, asi zvinoshandirwa kune vakaroora vandakakurudzira kuti vazvipfure.
Koiwe? Iwe uri muhukama kwaunonyatsoda mumwe wako, asi iwe haugone kuwirirana? Iwe uri husiku husiku uye kune yekutanga shiri? Iwe uri wakasarudzika wekusika uye wakasununguka-mweya uye ivo vanonyanya kuchengetedza?
Muri kuita nharo nguva dzose here? Chave kungova basa rekuve pamwechete maringe naJoy? Kana zvakadaro, tevera mazano ari pamusoro apa.
Ungararame sei kurarama uri kure newako?
Zvakanaka, kune vamwe vakaroorana vakasarudza kugara mumba imwechete, asi mumwe aigara pasi uye mumwe aigara kumusoro.
Vamwe vaviri vandakashanda navo vakagara muimba imwe chete, asi mumwe akashandisa imba yekurara yekurara seimba yavo yekurara huru, uye izvo zvaiita sekunge zvinobatsira kubvisa mutsauko pamararamiro avo nekuvachengeta pamwe chete. Saka kunyangwe hazvo vaive vakaroora asi vachigara vega mumba imwe chete, iyo nzvimbo pakati pavo yaive yekurega hukama hwavo budirire.
Vakaroorana vanosarudza kugara voga vari kupa hukama hwavo mumwe mukana nekusadzipana. Kuroora asi uchigara mudzimba dzakaparadzana muzviitiko zvakawanda kuri nani pane kupatsanurana pfungwa uchigara pasi pedenga rimwe chete, chete kuti hukama hwacho huve hushungu. Kune vakaroora vanogara voga, iyo nzvimbo iyo yavanowana inogona kunyatso shamisa zvishamiso zvehukama hwavo. Wakambonzwa nezve chirevo - 'Kureba Kunoita Kuti Mwoyo Kukure Kufara?' Iwe unotengesa zvinoita kune vakaroora vanogara voga! Muchokwadi, isu tinofanirwa kutyora taboo yakatenderedza vakaroorana vanoenda kurongedzero yekugara vari vega ivo vakaroora.
Chero zvaungaita, usagadzirire zvisina maturo zvehukama hwekupokana. Ita chimwe chinhu chakasarudzika sekugara wakaroora asi kugara wakaparadzana. Zvakasiyana. Ita nhasi, uye zvinogona kungochengetedza hukama hwauri mairi mangwana.