Mibatanidzwa yemubatanidzwa pamwe nekudyidzana mudzimba dzave dzimwe nzira dzakakurumbira dzekuroora kwemakore gumi apfuura, kunyanya kune hukama hwepabonde. Nedare re2015 Dare Repamusorosoro rakapa mutongo wekuti roorano yevanhurume nevanhukadzi mumatunhu ese eUS, hukama uhwu huchiri chikamu chemitemo mumatunhu gumi nemaviri.
Sezvakangoita nemitemo yakawanda, iyo ine hukama nemubatanidzwa wevanhu uye kudyidzana mudzimba zvinosiyana mumatunhu achiri kuzvitendera nekuzviziva. Semuenzaniso, vamwe vanoda kuti vakaroorana vangoita bonde-vamwe asi vamwe vachibvumira murume nemukadzi vakaroorana futi. Uyezve, dzimwe nyika (dzakadai seCalifornia) dzinoda kuti vadyidzani vekumba vape mafomu emitero yehurongwa (zvisinei nematare avo emutero).
Saka, kana zvese zvarongedzwa, ndeupi mutsauko uripo pakati pesarudzo mbiri idzi dzekuroora?
Heano mamwe misiyano yakajairika:
- Masangano evashandi vehurumende anozivikanwa seanoshamwaridzana 'akanyoreswa' kana 'eruzhinji', nepo kudyidzana mudzimba mamiriro ezvinhu apo vamwe vanogovana hupenyu hwepamba.
- Mibatanidzwa yehurumende inozivikanwa zviri pamutemo uye yakafanana newanano, nepo kudyidzana mudzimba kazhinji chiri chimiro chepamutemo chisina kufanana newanano.
- Mibatanidzwa yehurumende inopihwa mabhenefiti ehurumende anopihwa kune vakaroora, nepo mabhenefiti anopihwa kudyidzana kwemumba kazhinji kacho ari mashoma zvakanyanya. Mamwe mabhenefiti anosanganisira: rutsigiro rwevana, nyika-mutero mabhenefiti, kubatana-mubereki uye zvimwe.
- Mibatanidzwa yehurumende yakaziviswa kuti ichinjirwe kumurume / mukadzi bonde, nepo kudyidzana kwemumba hakuna.
- Masangano evashandi vehurumende anozivikanwa mumatunhu matanhatu, nepo kudyidzana kwemumba kunozivikanwa mu11.
- Kana zvasvika pamabhenefiti ehurumende, ayo anowanzo kupihwa kumubatanidzwa wehurumende anosanganisira iwo mutero mabhenefiti, rutsigiro rwemwana newemurume, sarudzo dzekurapa, inishuwarenzi yehutano, mubatanidzwa wechikwereti, nhaka, mubatanidzwa wevabereki, uye kodzero dzehukama hwehukama. Kudyidzana kwemumba, kune rimwe divi, kunogovana vashoma kwazvo nemuchato, kusanganisira kodzero yekutora zvekurapa, kugara kwakajairika, kurerwa kwevabereki vekurera, kuchengetedzwa kwehutano uye nhaka.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti urangarire kuti mitemo uye mabhenefiti emubatanidzwa wevamiriri pamwe nekudyidzana mudzimba zvinosiyana pakati penyika dzinozviziva. Kana iwe uri kufunga kupinda mune chero yeaya mamwe mahukama hukama, ive shuwa yekutarisa neyako yemuno neyemitemo mitemo.