Zvemukati
- 1. Ponesai vana venyu kubva pakuiswa muhombodo pakati penyu mese
- 2. Ita kuti vana vagamuchire chokwadi chinovava nekunzwira urombo
- 3. Kwete kukwira kana kurega muganho wepamutemo uwedzerwe
- 4. Gadza miganhu yakapoteredza chikoro, imba, uye nzanga
- 5. Kukudziridza kuzvimirira mavari kubva paudiki
- 6. Rega vana vataure nemumwe mubereki
- 7. Gutsa zvavanoda zvemari
Kupatsanurwa pakati pevaviri kwagara kuri nyaya inonetsa. Hazvina kumbobvira zvave nyore kupfuura nenzira inorwadza yekuparadzanisa uye gare gare, kurambana. Dzimwe nguva, havasi vanhu vaviri chete vanofunga, asi semhuri.
Hazvina mhosva kuti hukama hwako hwave husina kunaka newawakange wakaroorana naye, zvinhu hazvingoperere pakurambana.
Mushure mekurambana, zvimwe zvinhu zvewanano zvinoramba zvisina kugadzikana kunyangwe inki yaoma pachirevo. Dzimwe nyaya dzakaomarara dzenyika mbiri hadzigone kugadziriswa zviri nyore. Mumwe wavo ari kusarudza pamusoro pemuchengeti wevana.
Kana iwe uine munhu anonyanyisa uye uri mubereki pamwe neichi chine chepfu, ziva, mutoro wehutano hwakanaka hwekurera uri pamapfudzi ako.
Ungaita sei mubereki-mubereki pamwe neakaoma ex?
Kana iwe uri kubata neye narcissist mubereki mubereki, ngatisimudze keteni pane mamwe mikana yekubatana-kuva mubereki neane chepfu aimbova mukadzi.
1. Ponesai vana venyu kubva pakuiswa muhombodo pakati penyu mese
Zvirinani uzive, kubatsirana kuve mubereki neine chepfu ex zvinoreva kuti vane chepfu ex kana vabereki vanehungwaru vanogona kutamba mitambo yese yemanzwiro kuti urambe wakadzika muhukama kunyangwe mushure mekuputsa kwakashata. Ivo vaizoedza kukukwezva iwe kuti utore mhosva dzese, uye ivo vanogona kushandisa vana nekuda kwechinangwa ichi.
Usatore hanya kune huipi hwavo hwakaipa, uye edza kununura vana vako kubva pakujairirwa kupokana newe.
Paunenge uri mubereki-mubereki neine chepfu yekare, gadza muganhu wekuremekedza iwe nemubereki wako, izvo zvisingafanirwe kutyorwa nechero zviviri.
2. Ita kuti vana vagamuchire chokwadi chinovava nekunzwira urombo
Vana vanovimba zvakaenzana pavabereki vavo vese havaite kuti vagamuchire mhuri ichiparara. Ndivo vasina kana kumbotaura nezvenyaya yakakosha zvakadaro, asi ivo vanonyanya kukanganiswa nesarudzo iyi.
Kurambana kwevabereki vanofanira kuratidza vana vavo kuti vacharamba vari mhuri kunyangwe mushure mekufamba kwakakosha uku. Vabereki vanofanirwa kuzorodza pfungwa dzevana. Ivo vanofanirwa kusimbisa vana nezve yavo isingaperi yemhuri chisungo.
3. Kwete kukwira kana kurega muganho wepamutemo uwedzerwe
Edza kusakunda kodzero dzako dzepamutemo maererano nevana. Paunenge uri mubereki-mubereki neine chepfu yekare, usamborega mumwe mubereki-mubvuri abvise mugove wako, panguva imwe chete.
Unofanira kubvuma kodzero dzako. Usarega zvinhu zvichitungamirwa nemumwe mubereki kana iwe uri mubereki-mubereki neine chepfu yekare. Iwe unofanirwa kudzidzira simba rako pavana, iwe unofanirwa kuvapa hunhu hwakanaka hwehupenyu, uye une kodzero pazviri.
Usambofa wakakanganisa kuchengetedza kodzero dzako.
4. Gadza miganhu yakapoteredza chikoro, imba, uye nzanga
Ipo mubereki-mubereki pamwe neakaoma ex, mumwe anofanirwa kusarudza nezve kumisikidza miganhu neaimbova ex-vakaroorana. Kugadzira miganho newawakange wakaroorana naye kuchakurudzira huturu hushoma muhukama hwaunogovana kana hwemugovana wemwana.
Vana vanofanirwa kujairana nenzvimbo dzese dzehupenyu kubva pakutanga chaipo. Ivo vanofanirwa kudzidziswa maitiro ekuzvibata mune imwe nharaunda.
Iwe unofanirwa kuvachengeta vari kure nekurairwa kwemubereki ane chepfu. Pamwe pamwe nemubatanidzwa wevabereki-wekurera, gadzira kuziva mavari maererano nezvikamu zvese zvehupenyu, kubva pauzima kusvika kunehunyanzvi kusvika kumagariro, ese matunhu ehupenyu anoda kurangwa nekushingairira kuitiswa.
5. Kukudziridza kuzvimirira mavari kubva paudiki
Kuzvimiririra kwakakosha zvakanyanya kuvana, kunyangwe hukama hwevabereki hwakadzipwa kana kwete.
Vadzidzise kuzvimiririra kana vari muchikamu chekutanga chehupenyu. Ichi chichava mukana wakakura kwazvo kwavari mukufamba kwenguva. Sei?
Muvhidhiyo iripazasi, Sara Zaske anokurukura bhuku rake idzva uye anogovera masitayera evabereki anogona kuita kuti vana vazviriritire nezviitiko zvinoverengeka uye maanecdotes.
Munguva pfupi inotevera, ivo vanozoona matambudziko ehupenyu, kusanganisira kuvepo kwemubereki ane chepfu kana iwe uri mubereki-mubereki neane chepfu ex. Kusvika panguva iyoyo, ivo vaizokwanisa kumira nemakumbo avo maviri. Ivo vangadai vasina kutsvaga rutsigiro kuti vakunde nezvikanganiso.
Ivo zvirokwazvo vaizodzidza kufambira mberi vega kana vakadzidziswa kugara pavari vega hump.
6. Rega vana vataure nemumwe mubereki
Dzivisa chero kutamba kwakaipa muhukama kana hukama hwako hwaive nehuturu newawakamboita, hazvidi kuti mumwe wako adururire huturu pamwana zvakare.
Usatadzise kutaurirana kana kubatana nguva pakati pemwana wako nemumwe wako. Vanofanira kuva vakasununguka kushanyirana panguva dzose. Zvakare, dzivisa kutaura zvakaipa nezveumwe wako pamberi pemwana wako.
Mubereki wese anokodzera hukama hwerudo nemwana wake. Naizvozvo, tsigire uye urangarire zvaunotaura nezvemumwe mubereki pamberi pevana vako.
7. Gutsa zvavanoda zvemari
Kushushikana kwezvemari ndeimwe yematambudziko akajairika ekubatana nevabereki sezvo kupatsanurwa kwemabasa evabereki kunogona kuoma ukuwo mubereki pamwe neakaoma ex.
Chingave chiri chirevo kutaura; zvavanoda zvemari zvinofanirwa kuzadzikiswa. Muchokwadi, iwe unofanirwa kuona yavo yekushandisa kwazvo tsitsi. Unofanirwa kuve nehanya nazvo.
Vana vanotorerwa mamwe mabhenefiti muhupenyu vanokudziridza kudzikisira.
Vana vanowanzo zvienzanisa, uye vanoda kuve nezvose zvirinani vaone-vamwe vana. Iwe haufanire kushandisa zvakashata pavari. Mubereki anofanirwa kuyedza kuvaripa nezvose zvavanoda.
Pane parutivi noti, iwe unofanirwa kunyatsodzidza zvese zvavanoshuvira usati waita.
Hakuna mwana anofanirwa kukura nemunhu mukuru anotyisa. Chinhu chakanakisa chingangove, kana iwe uri mubereki-mubereki ane chepfu ex uye iwe uchizviziva, isa moyo wako wese nemweya mukuhwina kuchengetwa kwevana vako. Hapana chingave chakachengeteka kupfuura icho, pane chenjedzo cherechedzo.