Zvemukati
- Kudzvinyirira: Vazhinji vedu tinodzora patinoshandisa nguva nemhuri yedu yekwatakabva
- Monopoly: Mhuri yako yekumusoro inogona zvakare kukuremekedza iwe
- Kuregererwa: Ostracism yemumwe mutsva nemhuri yemakabva
- 1. Chirongwa mabhureki
- 2. Ronga zvekupinda mupfungwa
- 3. Ziva kuswedera panyama
- 4. Taurirana sekunge kuti muri chikwata
- 5. Gara uchibatanidzwa kunyangwe uine mafoto
- 6. Iva nemusana wemumwe wako
“Munogona here kubva pamufananidzo? Tinongoda pikicha yemhuri yedu. ” Aya ndiwo matangiro akaita kushanya kwemutengi wangu munguva pfupi yadarika kune vatezvara vake. Vatezvara vake vakakumbira kuti vabude pikicha yemhuri yavakanga vachigadzirira kutora.Vaingoda mufananidzo wemhuri yavo. Mutengi wangu, achinzwa kurwadziwa uye kuvhiringidzika nehunhu hwavo hwese, akatarisa semurume wake wemakore mashanu nestle pakati pehanzvadzi yake nemunin'ina, achisekerera kunge aive nemakore matatu zvekare.
Akafunga kuti aive chikamu chemhuri yemurume wake pavakaroora makore mashanu apfuura. Zvino, akanzwa mhuri yake kudhirowa mutsara mujecha.
Zvakatoipisisa, zvaitaridzika kuti murume wake aifunga kuti pikicha yemhuri yega yaive hombe. Mhuri Yangu Idzva? Vazhinji vedu tinotarisira kuti kana tikaroora mumwe wedu tichazombundirwa nemhuri yavo, inogamuchirwa zvizere uye yakabatanidzwa mairi. Zviripachena, izvi hazviwanzo zvakadaro. Dzimwe mhuri, dzichiziva chinangwa kana kuti kwete, zvinoita senge dzakatsiga kumisikidza miganhu pakati pemhuri yekwakatangira neuyo mudiwa. Ivo havakwanise kana kusada kuona nhengo nyowani seimwe yavo.
Kunetsekana nekubatanidzwa kwemhuri dzekare uye nyowani kunogona kukonzera kukakavara kwakanyanya, kusagadzikana kana kungozvibata kwakazara kwekudzivisa.
Heano maitiro akakosha ekusagadzikana anodzivirira kusangana kwerunyararo kwemhuri:
Kudzvinyirira: Vazhinji vedu tinodzora patinoshandisa nguva nemhuri yedu yekwatakabva
Yedu basa rehudiki rakajairika zvekuti tinodzokera mairi senge yechipiri hunhu. Mhuri yedu yekwatiri inogona zvakare nekusaziva kugonesa maitiro edu semwana. Chero kuedza kwekudzivisa kudzokororwa kumunhu wako ane makore gumi nemashanu kunogona kukonzera maitiro akashata nemhuri yemavambo akadai sekushora sekwemwana ("waimbonakidzwa kwazvo"), hunhu hwekudzivirira kana kunetsana chaiko. Makakatanwa pakati pemhuri dzako dzekare uye nyowani anogona kuita kuti unzwe senge Jekyll naHyde. Une mhuri yako kana kwawakatangira, iwe unotamba unonakidza-unofarira, mwana wemhuri, asi uine yako mhuri nyowani, iwe uri wakakomba uye unobata. Iwo maviri mabasa anopesana nemumwe izvo zvingave zvakaoma kumativi ese maviri kuti agamuchire.
Monopoly: Mhuri yako yekumusoro inogona zvakare kukuremekedza iwe
Mhuri yako yekwaunogona zvakare kukuremekedza iwe pamoyo uye nemuviri uchisiya mumwe wako achinzwa kusurukirwa uye kusarudzika. Mumwe wevatengi vangu akagovana kushushikana kwaakaita paakange asingakwanise kugara padyo nemukadzi wake pavaipedza nguva nemhuri yake. Iye aigara akatenderedzwa nehanzvadzi dzake vachisiya diki kana kushaya nzvimbo kwaari. Mhuri yemitezo yemitezo inogona zvakare kutonga nzvimbo yemanzwiro nekuramba uchipinda mukutaurirana kwakasarudzika, zvichiita kuti zviome kuti mumwe wako atore chikamu.
Kuregererwa: Ostracism yemumwe mutsva nemhuri yemakabva
Hunhu hunotyisa uye hunoparadza kusabvisa nemaune kweumwe wako mutsva nemhuri yekubva. Mufananidzo wakasarudzika wemhuri unoratidza zvakajeka kubviswa nemaune. Mimwe mienzaniso yekuita zvehasha inosanganisira zvinyoronyoro zvinoitwa nemhuri yenhengo dzekutanga senge, "hatimbofi takakuona ... izvozvi," uye "Ndasuwa maitirwo ezvinhu."
Maitiro ekugadzirisa kusanganisa mhuri dzekare uye nyowani dzinogona kunge dzichikonzera kushungurudzika, asi kune nzira dzakanaka uye dzinoshanda dzevakaroora uye mhuri kubata kwavo kushanya.
Hedzino nhanhatu nzira dzekutarisira mukuwasha:
1. Chirongwa mabhureki
Tora mabhureki epanyama kubva kumhuri yekwaunobva kuti ubatanidzwe zvakare uye wozorora nemumwe wako. Izvi zvinogona kuve zvakapusa sekutora kufamba kwemaminetsi gumi kana kuwana nzvimbo yakanyarara.
2. Ronga zvekupinda mupfungwa
Dhonza mumwe wako padivi kwekanguva kuti uone kuti vakamira sei.
3. Ziva kuswedera panyama
Kana iwe ukaona kuti wakakomberedzwa nevakoma vako uye mumwe wako ari kune rimwe divi rekamuri, edza nemaune kuyedza kuvaisa.
4. Taurirana sekunge kuti muri chikwata
Shandisa zvisazitasingwi isu nesu, zvakanyanya!
5. Gara uchibatanidzwa kunyangwe uine mafoto
Kunze kwekunge iwe uine hit show senge maKardashians hapana chikonzero chemhuri yakatarwa yemavambo emifananidzo.
6. Iva nemusana wemumwe wako
Ruramisa isinganzwisisike kana yakajeka kutaura kwakashata nezve mumwe wako nemhuri yako yekwawakabva. Chinangwa chekupedzisira ndechekuti iwe nemumwe wako mugadzirire miganho nemhuri yekwakatangira uye muve nehutano hwekugadzirisa nzira dzinozosimudzira hukama hune runyararo pakati pemhuri dzese. Kunyanya kuenderana kuti iwe nemumwe wako muteedzere kumiganhu yako, zvingangoita kuti mhuri mbiri dzigadziridzane nenzira inobvumidza hukama hwenyu kusimuka.