Zvemukati
- Iwe ungaite mutsauko chaiwo kuhupenyu hwemwana
- Icho chiyeuchidzo chakanaka chesimba rako
- Unofanira kuita nesimba
- Iwe unozodzidza kubatana
- Ichavandudza kutaurirana
- Iwe unosimbisa yakakosha tsika mumhuri
Zvinotambirwa zvakanyanya kuti a roorano yakanaka hachisi chinhu chinongoitika, ndechimwe chinhu chaunofanira kushandira. Kana varoorani vakawira mutsika, chichemo chakajairika ndechekuti chinotanga kunzwa zvakanyanya sekunge munhu wekugara naye kwete wekufambidzana naye.
Kushanda mabasa akapatsanuka uye kurarama hupenyu hwakaparadzana kwakanaka mukuchengetedza rusununguko rwako. Asi kana vana vangoyerera mudendere, zvinogona kunetsa kuwana zvakafanana kufarira kukudzosa pamwe chete. Kunyangwe vaviri vasina vana vanogona kusangana nerudzi urwu rwechinetso mumhuri yavo. Inogona kazhinji kunzwa sekunge muchato usiri kushanda kana muchokwadi pasina chakakanganisika zvakanyanya.
Saka, maitiro ekuvandudza imba yako? Nzira yekuchengetedza sei imba ine hutano?
Kune vakaroorana vari kutsvaga kusangana kwekutora pamwe chete, kukurudzira kunogona kupa sarudzo yekuzvipira iyo inogona kukuswededza pamwe chete. Iyo ndeimwe yesarudzo dzakanaka uye dzakangwara dzekuti ungasimbise sei imba yako.
Kutarisana nematambudziko mese kunogona kubatsira kusimbisa imba yenyu. Ivo vanoyeuchidza vanhu vaviri nezve zvikonzero zvavakawira mukudanana.
Kukurudzira kunogona kusimbisa imba yako here? Heano zvikonzero zvitanhatu zvaunofanirwa kufunga nezvekukurudzira kusimbisa imba yako:
Iwe ungaite mutsauko chaiwo kuhupenyu hwemwana
Hapana mubvunzo kuti kukurudzira chikonzero chakakodzera. Kune vana vakawanda kwazvo vanoshaya pasirese, uye nepo vanhu vazhinji vachibatwa nepfungwa yekurera mwana usati watora, iyi haisiyo nguva dzose nzira yaunoda kutora.
Kukurudzira kunogona kutora mafomu akasiyana siyana, anosanganisira epfupi-kwenguva, kuzorora kutarisira, uye kurongwa kwenguva refu. Kana iwe usingafunge kuti iwe unogona kuzvipira kuti uve nemwana kugara newe nguva yakazara, iwe unogona kugara uchipa nguva yekuchengetwa kwevanokurumidzira, kana kuregerera vana vane zvidikanwi zvakakosha kuti vape vabereki vavo mukana wekuchinjazve mabhatiri avo.
Icho chiyeuchidzo chakanaka chesimba rako
Isu tinowanzo kukweverwa kune vanhu vasina kufanana kwatiri, uye nekufamba kwenguva misiyano iyi inogona kutanga kuita seyakajairika. Kurera mwana idambudziko chairo rinoda kudzidziswa, kutsungirira, uye simba remupfungwa.
Kuenda parwendo urwu pamwe chete kunogona kubatsira kuyeuchidza vakaroorana nezve kugona kwavo uye kubatsira kuvandudza rudo rwavo. Kunyangwe kukurudzira kusingafanirwe kushandiswa sekugadzirisa nekukurumidza kwemuchato wakasimba, kana chiri chinhu chawakambofunga nezvacho munguva yakapfuura, zvingave zvakakodzera kuti uongororezve.
Unofanira kuita nesimba
Paunenge uri mubereki kana wekurera, iwe unofanirwa kuita nhamburiko yechokwadi yekushandisa yakanaka nguva pamwe chete. Hazvizoitika kunze kwekunge iwe waita kuti zviitike, saka iwe unowana chidimbu chitsva kumuchato wako paunoona kuti unonyatsoda kushandisa nguva muri pamwe chete. Kuwana nguva yekutaura nezve chero chinhu kunze kwekuchengetwa kwevanokurera kana yako yakasarudzika yekusimbisa inomiririra, uye kubhuka kuti pamwedzi muchengeti anoita kuti zuva rako husiku rikoshe kupfuura nakare kose.
Sezvambotaurwa, kukurudzira idambudziko chairo, uye nekudaro, haifanire kushandiswa kugadzirisa imba yakaputsika, asi iwe unogona kuona kuti kuenda parwendo urwu pamwe chete kunogona kubatsira kusimbisa imba yenyu zvisati zvamboitika.
Iwe unozodzidza kubatana
Imwe yenzira dzauchange uchisimbisa imba yako uchive mubereki wekurera ndeyekudzidza kubatana. Runako rwemuchato wakanaka rwuri muzvinhu zvaro zvidiki. Kurera vabereki vokurera kunobatsira mukuchengetedza rudo rwuri mhenyu muroorano.
Kubatira pamwe kunosimudzira kuyemurwa, kuremekedzana, uye nyasha kune mumwe nemumwe. Mukuita kwekuchengetwa nevabereki vasiri vako, imi mose muchaita zvikanganiso, kutarisana nekundikana, mune 'wow' nguva, uye mugovane marudzi ese emufaro. Izvi zvinobatsira mukusimbisa imba yenyu.
Kana iwe uchizoshanda sechikwata kuva vabereki vokurera, ucha:
- Farirai mumwe nemumwe
- Kweretesanai nerubatsiro
- Kuchengetana
Ichavandudza kutaurirana
Kutaurirana uye kunzwisisa ndizvo zvakakosha zvekusimbisa imba yako. Kukurukurirana zvinobudirira kunotungamirira kugutsikano yemhuri. Kunyanya panguva yekuroora kwevabereki, zvinoitika nekuti unokwanisa kuratidza zvaunonzwa, mufaro, uye kushungurudzika zvakasununguka.
Nepo kuroora kana kubereka kwako kuchienda pamwe chete, iwe unodzidza zvakare kukudziridza hunyanzvi hwekuteerera kune mumwe wako. Iwe unotaurirana kurumbidza uye kwete kunyunyuta. Kunze kwezvo, iwe zvakare unodzidza kugadzirisa misiyano nekudzidzira positivity.
Iwe unosimbisa yakakosha tsika mumhuri
Sezvo iwe uri mukuroora uye kuva mubereki zvakare, iwe uchaisa makiyi akakosha ehunhu anobatsira pakusimbisa imba yako uye ichabatsira mukurera mwana zvirinani.
Maitiro echinyakare akafanana nesisitimu inofambisa zviito zvemhuri nemaitiro kune yakasetwa standard. Aya misimboti anokanganisa danho rekutora sarudzo yemhuri. Dzimwe dzetsika dzepamoyo dzinobatsira mwana nekusimbisa imba ndeidzi:
- Kuvimbika: Zvinoreva kukoshesa kuzvipira uye kuramba wakatendeka kunheyo
- Kuzviremekedza: Zvinoreva kunzwisisa kukosha kwako kunze kwenyika uye kwete kugadzirisa zvishoma pane zvakakosha
- Ushingi: Zvinongoreva kuti iwe une chido chekumira zvakanaka uye une simba rekuita zvinhu zvakaoma
- Kubatana: Kubatsira ruoko kumhuri, shamwari, uye vadikani
Iwe unogona kugadzira rondedzero yemaitiro anotyaira hupenyu hwako uye izvo zvaungade kupfuudza kumwana wako. Gadzirira rondedzero yezvakakosha tsika uye sarudza iwo epamusoro mashanu kana epamusoro gumi akakosha akakosha maitiro emhuri.
Muvhidhiyo iripazasi, Jan Stassen anotaura nezve kukosha kweakakosha tsika. Anoti tsika dzinotsanangura kuti tinoda kuramba tichirarama sei. Iwo mamiriro ezvinhu anoenderana nesarudzo vabatsiri. Ziva zvakawanda nezvazvo pazasi:
Veronica Pembleton
Ichi chinyorwa chakanyorwa naVeronica Pembleton. Kubudikidza nekushanda nemasangano akati wandei, masangano anodzora, uye nyanzvi nyanzvi mukukurudzira muLiverpool, Veronica anoshandisa ruzivo rwake rwekushambadzira kujekesa nyaya idzo vanhu vasingataure nezvadzo zvakakwana.