Zvemukati
- Kutsanangura murume wekune imwe nyika
- Ruzivo rwakakosha
- Zvinodiwa neMutemo
- Tsika dzakasiyana
- Chiitiko chinonakidza
- Mhedziso
Kuroora chimwe chinhu chinotarisirwa mberi kuvakadzi nevarume. Vamwe vane rombo rakanaka rekugara vakaroora kweupenyu hwese kune mumwe wavakaroora nepo vashoma vakaroorana vachiparadzana kana kurambana nezvikonzero zvakasiyana. Chirevo chekare chinoti: “Roorano dzinoitwa kudenga.” Hapana zvataurwa pane ino axiom.
Zvisinei, mitemo, mitemo, mirau, zvitendero, uye tsika zvinoitwa nevanhu. Asi zvinhu izvi zvinowanzoita chinhanho mukubudirira kana kukundikana kwemuchato. Zvikuru zvakadaro, kana uri mukadzi kana murume uchiroora mutorwa. Kuroora nemumwe wako kubva kune imwe tsika tsika kunogona kunakidza asi kunogona zvakare kuve chiitiko chinotyisa. Kuchengetedza maroto emuchato, zvakakosha kuti uzive kuti chii chaizvo chinonzi muchato wetsika nemagariro unosanganisirei.
Kutsanangura murume wekune imwe nyika
Iyo sisitimu ye'ma-mail-ekuroora vachati 'iyo yakabudirira kubva kuma1970s kusvika kuma1990 iri kuwedzera. Nyika dzinoverengeka dzakarambidza 'mail-order varoora', sezvo zvakafanana nekutengesa nyama. Izvo zvaisanganisira vakadzi vechidiki vanobva kunyika dzakadzikira mune zvehupfumi vachiunzwa se "vachati 'kunyika dzakapfuma uye dzimwe nguva kuroora varume vakura zvakakwana kuti vave sekuru vavo.
Sisitimu ikozvino yatsiviwa nepamutemo 'matchmaking agency' ayo anokura paInternet. Pamubhadharo mudiki wemitezo, murume kana mukadzi anogona kusarudza kubva kune vanoverengeka vangangoita shamwari kubva chero chikamu chenyika.Kusiyana netsamba-maodha, anenge achizoroora kana murume anofanirwa kufamba achienda kunogara nyika yaanotarisira kuroora nekuroora nekupedzisa maitiro ese epamutemo.
Kune mamwe marudzi evakaroora kana kuroorwa zvakare anosangana netsananguro yemumwe mukadzi wekune imwe nyika:
- Wenyika yemumwe nyika akawana ugari hwekunze nyika
- Mwana wevatorwa akabata pasipoti yenyika yakagara vabereki
- Mwanakomana kana mwanasikana wevakaroora vanobva kumarudzi akasiyana
Iko hakuna tsananguro dzehungwaru dzemumwe mukadzi wekune imwe nyika asi kazhinji, dzinogona kutorwa sevanhu vanobva kwakasiyana tsika nemadzinza.
Ruzivo rwakakosha
Kuroora vanhu vakadai kwakajairika mazuva ano sezvo nyika dzinoverengeka dzinogamuchira vane hunyanzvi vanobva kune dzimwe nyika uye vopa hunhu mushure mekusangana nedzimwe nzira. Nekudaro, pane zvinhu zviviri zvakakosha zvaunoda kugadzirisa kuti ubudirire, unofara muchato nemutorwa. Izvi ndeizvi:
- Zvinodiwa Pamutemo
- Tsika Dzakasiyana
Pano, tinokurukura ruzivo rwakakosha mune zvishoma zvishoma.
Zvinodiwa neMutemo
Pano tinonyora mimwe mitemo, mirau, nemirau inowanzoitwa nenyika dzakatenderedza pasirese. Zvisinei, unogona kutarisa nehofisi yako yekune dzimwe nyika uye magweta kuti vagadzirise chero zvinonetsa.
Iwe haugone kugara munyika yekuzvarwa yemumwe wako pasina mvumo chaiyo kubva kuhurumende yayo. Zvinoreva, kuroora mugari weimwe nyika hazvingoitisi kuti uwane kodzero yekugara ipapo. Kazhinji, akateedzana emvumo anotsvaga nemadhipatimendi akasiyana ehurumende asati apa kugara zvachose kana kunyangwe vhiza yekupinda munyika yemurume kana mukadzi. Mutemo ndewokudzivirira kutama zvisiri pamutemo kana 'michato yechibvumirano' panowanikwa murume wekune imwe nyika chete nechinangwa chekuwana ugari.
Kupa humbowo hwekuti hauna kuroora kana kuti hauna kuroora kana kuti zviri pamutemo kodzero yekupinda muwanano zvinomanikidzwa. Pasina gwaro iri rakapihwa nechiremera chakakodzera munyika yako, haugone kuroora mutorwa.
Iwe unogona kuroora pamhemberero yechitendero mune imwe shrine, iyo inogona kunge isingabvunze humbowo hwekuti hauna kuroora kana kusaroora kana kodzero yekuroora. Nekudaro, gwaro iri rinodiwa panguva yekunyoresa muchato wako kudare revagari uye mumiriri wezvematongerwo enyika.
Kunyoresa muchato munyika yako pamwe neiya yemurume kana mukadzi zvakakosha. Nekuda kwemisiyano mumitemo yekuroora yenyika dzakasiyana, wekunze shamwari uye iwe unofanirwa kutevedzera mitemo yenyika dzese. Izvi zvakakosha kuti uve nechokwadi chekuti mumwe wako kana vana vanogona kuve vadyi venhaka vako vepamutemo. Kusanyoresa kunogona kutungamira kumuchato wako kutorwa semutemo uye vana vachinzi 'zvisiri pamutemo'.
Pamusoro pezvo, kana iwe uchigara munyika yechitatu, unofanirwa kunyoresa muchato imomo zvakare. Mitemo iyi iriko yekuona kuti vaviri vakaroorana vanowana chengetedzo inodikanwa nekodzero pavanogara munyika iyoyo. Nekudaro, kunyoresa muchato kunodiwa chete kana iwe ukaroora munyika iyoyo. Nenzira iyoyo, nyika inogona kupa mumwe wako vhiza kana mvumo yekugara inodikanwa pasi pechitsva, chinzvimbo chekuroora.
Kunze kwekunge vaviri vakaroora vekune dzimwe nyika vabata nyika imwechete, iwe unofanirwa kusarudza ugari hunofanirwa kupihwa vana vako pakuberekwa. Dzimwe nyika dzinopa hupenyu hwayo kumwana akazvarwa muvhu rayo asi mamwe akaomarara uye haatenderi vakadzi vane nhumbu yakakwira kuti vapinde mumiganhu yavo. Unofanirwa kuyera zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira zvevana vako vachitora nyika yenyika yababa kana yaamai.
Tsika dzakasiyana
Kana makakatanwa epamutemo chiri chinhu chekutarisa paunenge uchiroora mutorwa, kudzora tsika dzakasiyana zvakare kwakakosha zvakaenzana. Kunze kwekunge iwe wakagara munyika yekuzvarwa yewakaroora kana imwe nzira yakatenderedza, kune zvakawanda zvinhu zvaunofanira kudzidza usati uye mushure mekuroora.
Maitiro echikafu chimwe chinhu chakajairika pamusoro pekuti vazhinji vakaroorana vekunze vanozviwana vasingawirirani. Kugadziridza kune echinyakare kicheni hazvisi nyore. Wako wawakaroorana naye anogona kunge asingazive tsika dzekubika uye marata etsika yako yechinyakare. Nepo vamwe vangachinjira kune zvavanofarira zvekune dzimwe nyika nekukasira, vamwe vangangotadza kubereka. Kukakavara pamusoro pechikafu kunogona kutungamira mukukanganisa kwemhuri.
Ziva mamiriro ehupfumi hwemhuri yemumwe wako. Kukakavara kwemari pakati pevakaroorana ndicho chikonzero chikuru chekurambana muUS nedzimwe nzvimbo dzepasi. Kana mhuri yemumwe wako isina kusimba mune zvehupfumi, vaitarisira rubatsiro rwemari. Izvi zvinoreva kuti, murume wako kana mukadzi anogona kupedzisira atumira chikamu chakati wandei chemari yekutsigira kwavo. Zvinonzwisisika, ivo vaizoda mari yezvakakosha kubva pakudya kusvika pakurapwa uye dzidzo. Nekudaro, zvirinani kuziva nezvezvibayiro zvemari zvinogona kuroora mutorwa.
Kutaurirana kwakanakisa kwakakosha mukubudirira kwechero roorano. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kuti mumwe wako wekune imwe nyika uye iwe uve nehunyanzvi huwandu hwehunyanzvi mumutauro wakajairika. Vanhu vanobva kunyika dzakasiyana vanotaura Chirungu nenzira dzakasiyana. Chirevo chisina mhosva nemumwe mutorwa chinogona kutorwa semhosva mune imwe tsika uye chinogona kukanganisa hukama.
Kuziva misiyano yezviito zvechitendero uye zvaunofarira zvakare ndiyo kiyi yemuchato unobudirira nemutorwa. Kunyangwe iwe uchizotevera iko kutenda kumwe chete, tsika dzechinyakare kazhinji dzinokanganisa maitiro ainoitwa nawo. Semuenzaniso, mamwe marudzi anopemberera kufa uye anotambira vanochema nemaswiti, mapeke, doro kana zvinwiwa. Vamwe vanobata somber vigil. Iwe unogona kunzwa kugumbuka kana mumwe wako achipemberera kufa kweimwe hama inodikanwa nezvikonzero mweya wakaenda waenda kudenga.
Vamwe vanogona kuona tsika dzekunyungudika sekuwedzeredza-kuita kune ino yakasikwa ndima yehupenyu hwevanhu.
Zvisungo zvemhuri zvechinyakare tsika zvinogona kuve zvakasiyana kwazvo. Kazhinji, mafirimu eHollywood anosimbisa aya nuances. Mune dzimwe tsika, iwe unotarisirwa kuendesa mitezo yese yemhuri yemumwe wako kuenda kumovie kana kudya kwemanheru. Kunakidzwa muchivande newawakaroorana naye kunogona kuonekwa sekusvora kana udyire. Zvakare, uchipa chimwe chinhu kune mumwe wako, iwe ungatofanirawo kutenga zvipo zvemhuri kuti zvienderane netsika dzekunze. Kune mamwe marudzi, zvakajairika kutora shamwari nehama dzisina kukokwa kuenda kumafaro. Iwe unofanirwa kugadzirira kugamuchira kanokwana zvakapetwa kaviri nhamba yevakakokwa kana mumwe wako achibva kune chero madzinza akadaro.
Mari yekushandisa inopesana zvichienderana nenyika yega yega. Dzimwe tsika dzinokurudzira kusimudzira uye kusagadzikana sechiratidzo chehunhu asi vamwe vachipinda muzvipenga zvekuratidzira hupfumi. Izvi zvinoita kuti zvive zvakakosha kwauri kuti iwe uzive mashandisiro maitiro etsika iwe yaunoda kuroora. Zvimwewo, unogona kupedzisira wararama hupenyu husina zvinhu zvawakambotora sezvakanaka. Kune rimwe divi, iwe unogona kumhanyira mune zvemari doldrums kana mumwe wako ari anoshamisira mari, nekuda kwetsika kumanikidzwa.
Chiitiko chinonakidza
Kuroora mutorwa kunogona kuva chiitiko chinonakidza kwazvo, chero iwe uchikwanisa kupokana nemakakatanwa ese epamutemo anowanikwa nemitemo yenyika dzakasiyana uye famba mamaira ekuwedzera kuti udzidze kusiyana kwetsika. Mamirioni avanhu kupota pasirese akaroora vatorwa vanobva mutsika dzakasiyana uye vari kurarama hupenyu hunofadza, hwakazadzikiswa. Nekudaro, kuzvijairira iwe neyakajairika yekuroora mune yakasarudzika tsika nemitemo zvinobatanidzwa zvinogona kuratidza pane kupa mubayiro.
Mhedziso
Vamwe vanhu pasirese vanotambura ne xenophobia. Ivo vanonetseka nezvevatorwa mumhuri uye nharaunda. Iwe unogona kuita zvishoma kubata nevanhu vakadaro avo dzimwe nguva vanogona kusvika kusvika pakuzvifadza mune yakasarudzika slur. Hapana chikonzero chekudzorera nekuti zvinongowedzera ruvengo rwatovepo.
Kana iwe uchiroora mutorwa, dzidza kutora matauriro akadaro muchidimbu. Vamwe vanhu vanogona kuramba kushamwaridzana newe kana kusakoka wawakaroorana naye kana iwe nekuda kwechiitiko. Ichi hachisi chikonzero chekushushikana. Kufuratira ava xenophobic vanhu ndiyo mhinduro yakanakisa.
Nekudaro, iwe ungangoda kuzivisa wako wekune imwe nyika nezve mukana wezviitiko zvakadaro.