Zvemukati
- Nyaya dzehasha
- Usimbe uye kupindwa muropa
- Kushaya rutsigiro
- Zvisinei nezvaunoita, hazvina kumbokwana kuvafadza
- Aimbova munyengeri
- Yakadzika bonde dhiraivha
Kazhinji patinofunga nezve iye akakodzera munhu watingade kufambidzana isu tinogara tichida kunyora hunhu hwakanaka uye hunhu hwatinoda mavari, asi zvakadii nezvevaya vatisingade, ivo vanotyora chibvumirano? Kunyangwe wakapenga sei iwe uri murudo, dzimwe nguva iwe uchafanirwa kuti "Kwete, handifunge kuti zvichashanda" kune vamwe vanhu. Pakupedzisira, zvakaipa zvinokunda zvakanaka.
Mazhinji ehukama vanobata vanopwanya kazhinji havaite zvinokuvadza zvakanyanya mumatanho ekutanga ehukama, ivo vanowanzo kukura kwenguva yakareba uye vanokonzeresa kukuvara kwenguva yakareba. Tinogona kunongedzera makumi ezviuru zvevaroorani kunze kwenyika avo vakasangana muzvikamu zvekutanga zvehukama hwavo hukama hwakadzama uye hwakavanzika nevadikani vavo, asi nekufamba kwenguva, vasvika pamhedziso yekuti havagone kutsungirira mumwe nemumwe humwe hunhu zvekare.
Muongororo yakaitwa pamusoro pevanhu vanopfuura mazana matanhatu nemazana mashanu, zvakaonekwa kuti pakati pehukama hwehukama hwakanyanya huripo kushaikwa kwekuseka, kushaya chivimbo uye kuzvitarisira pasi, kutyaira pabonde kushoma, kusarudzika kana kushaiwa zvakanyanya.
Kunyangwe hukama hwehukama hwevatengesi hwakasiyana zvichisiyana pamwero pakati pevarume nevakadzi, isu tinogona kudzikisira runyorwa pasi kune mamwe eanonyanya kukunda hukama hwevatengesi vanogona kuiswa kune vese varume kana vakadzi.
Nyaya dzehasha
Uku kunogara kuri kutyora chibvumirano, chero zvodii. Kana mumwe wako achitoratidza zviratidzo zvehasha, ivo vanobva vangoita vanyengeri mune ramangwana rehukama hwako navo.
Nyaya dzehasha usamboenda nekufamba kwenguva, ivo vanowanzo kuve vanotonyanya, uye izvi pakupedzisira zvinotungamira kune hukama hune chepfu.
Usimbe uye kupindwa muropa
Aya maviri anoshanda akabatana sehunhu hwakashata hwaunogona kuve nahwo mudiwa, uye hunogona kunyatso kutariswa sehukama hwevano pwanya hukama.
Hapana munhu anoda kuve navo mukuchengetedza avo vasingakwanise kuzvitarisira ivo, ndoda hukama, nekuti vakapindwa muropa inguva zhinji vasingakwanise kupa kuzvipira kuzere.
Kushaya rutsigiro
Muhukama, kuti zvinhu zvese zvifambe, mumwe nemumwe anofanira kuisa mugove wake wekuyedza mazviri. Kana isiri timu yekutamba, saka hazvisi kuzoshanda.
Kana zvakakosha zvakatanga kuchinja, uye mumwe wako asiri kuisa nguva yakafanana nesimba muhukama newe, unogona kugara pasi navo patafura totaura zvekumisikidza zvavanokoshesa shure zvakare, kana kucheka hukama navo, kana iwe uchinzwa kuti hapana chiri kuzochinja.
Kushaikwa kwekutsigirwa muhukama kunoita kuti iende chero kupi, saka hapana chikonzero chekuenderera nazvo kana izvi zvichiramba zvichiitika.
Zvisinei nezvaunoita, hazvina kumbokwana kuvafadza
Kana zvisinei kuti chii chaunotaura kana zvaunoita zvisina kukwana, saka isu tinofunga kuti nguva ine nguva yekuti iwe uzvifonere ipedze naye kana iye. Iwe unogona zvakare kunge uri kubata neye narcissist, iri iri hukama hwehukama hwekutadza.
Aimbova munyengeri
Chirevo "Anongobiridzira, anogara ari munyengeri" hachigone kuve chechokwadi. Kana iwe uri muhukama nemumwe munhu waunoziva akabiridzira munguva yakapfuura pane mumwe weavo vaakamboshanda navo, gadzirira kubatwa nenzira imwecheteyo sezvavakaita. Hatisi kureva kuti ichi ndicho chokwadi chizere nekuti vamwe vatadzi vanogona kunge vakadzidza chidzidzo chavo vakapfidza nzira dzavo dzakaipa asi kazhinji, vanhu vazhinji havazombodzidza uye nhamo inozvidzokorora pamwe chete navo kasingaperi.
Yakadzika bonde dhiraivha
Kana zvinhu zvisiri kufamba zvakanaka pamubhedha, saka hazvisi kushanda muhukama hwakazara hwauinahwo nemumwe wako. Unofanirwa kutanga kuzvibvunza kuti sei mumwe wako achikupa iko kutonhora kurapwa. Kushaikwa kwehukama hwepedyo pakati pako navo chiratidzo chinoshungurudza chaunofanira kufunga nezvacho nekutarisana nacho.
Uku hukama hwehukama hwekuputsa dzimwe nguva hunogona kutorwa sehukama hwehukama hwehukama hwepedyo, nekuti zvinogona kuratidza kuti mumwe wako ari kukubiridzira.