Zvemukati
- Narcissist uye muchato
- Zero tsitsi uye sensitivity
- Wako mukadzi anozotsanangura muchato
- Iwe haumbofi wakunda kana kugadzirisa gakava
- Unogona kusazombonakirwa nezuva rekuzvarwa kana kupemberera zvakare
- Iwe uchazviwana iwe uchifamba uchifamba pamazai emazai
Kana iwe wakaroora narcissist, kana ukazviwana iwe wakaroorwa kune imwe, iwe unogona kunge wanga usiri kuziva nezve zvawakanga uri, kana chaizvo chaizvo kuti mumwe wako angashanduke sei iwe mushure mekuroora. Saka, narcissist anochinja sei mushure mekuroora?
Smart narcissist vanonzwisisa kuti ivo vanofanirwa kuvanza zvikamu zvavo kusvikira iwe wakazvipira zvizere kwavari; kana zvisina kudaro, pane mukana wekuti vangakusiya.
Vanogona kunge vasina kukuratidza kuti zvichave sei mushure mekuvaroora nekuti hazvibatsire ivo kuti vadaro.
Narcissist uye muchato
Kutanga, ndiani anonyenga anoroora? Iye narcissist anoroora mumwe munhu angave akanaka sosi yekureba kwenguva narcissistic kupihwa kwavo. Ivo vanowana waanogona kuroora naye mune mumwe munhu asina kusimba, asina njere zvishoma kana asina chivimbo. Saka, nei narcissist achiroora?
VaNarcissist vanoroora nekuti ivo vanoda kuti mumwe munhu afukidze hunhu hwavo uye ave chigaro chisingaperi chekupa narcissistic. Narcissist kuroora zvingangoitika chete kana zvichishandira chinangwa chavo sekuwedzera kwechifananidzo, vateereri vanowanikwa nyore kana mari.
Kunyangwe isiri yese mamiriro akafanana, heino mimwe mienzaniso yekuti narcissist anogona kuchinja sei mushure mekuroora. (Iyo yekupedzisira yeiyo narcissism inoratidzwa ichasiyana kubva pamunhu kuenda kumunhu uye izvi mhedzisiro inogona kushivirira, zvinoenderana nekuomarara uye kukanganisa kune akaroora.
Zero tsitsi uye sensitivity
Iwe uchakurumidza kusvika pakuziva kuti imwe yedzakakosha nzira iyo narcissist inoshanduka mushure mekuroora ndeyekuti ivo vachakuratidza kwauri chaizvo kuti ivo havakwanisi kuva sei uye nekupa kune hukama hwakanaka.
Narcissism chinetso chehunhu chinosanganisira kushayikwa kwekunzwira tsitsi mifungo nemanzwiro evamwe. Kana pasina kunzwira tsitsi, hakuzove nehunyoro kana tsitsi kune zvaunoda.
Kunyangwe iwe wakanyengedzwa usati waroora, hunhu uhwu haugoneke kuvanza mushure mekuroora uye huchaita hwaro hwehukama hwako.
Wako mukadzi anozotsanangura muchato
Iwe unogona kufunga kuti unotsanangura mazwi ehukama hwako usati waroora uye ungangodaro wakabvumidzwa kutenda izvo nekuti zvakashanda mutambo wekupedzisira wemumwe wako.
Iyi mirage, yemhando, mumwe muenzaniso wakakosha wekuti narcissist inochinja sei mushure mekuroora nekuti pfungwa dzako, zvaunonzwa, uye zvaunoda hazvina basa kune mumwe munhu ane mamiriro aya.
Zvinonyanya kuitika kuti muwanano kune anonyengedza, mumwe wako anotsanangudza mazwi aacharatidza maitiro maviri. zvatinoda hazvingazivikanwe sezvakakosha kunze kwekunge paine bhenefiti kune mumwe wako, futi.
Anogona narcissist anogona kuchinja nenzira inoita kuti unzwe kuti warasikirwa nechero mukana muwanano? Ehe, mumwe wako anogona kutanga kuratidza kushomeka kwekuda kushandira pamwe kana kukanganisa newe, uye izvi zvinogona kuve nemhedzisiro yakaipa mukuzviremekedza kwako.
Iwe haumbofi wakunda kana kugadzirisa gakava
Uye kana ukadaro, saka imhaka yekuti pane chimwe chinhu mazviri kune mumwe wako.
Uyu mumwe muenzaniso wekuti narcissist inochinja sei mushure mekuroora.Vasati varoora vanogona kunge vaiita kunge vanozviisa pasi apo neapo, pamwe vachitokumbira ruregerero asi imhaka yekuti ipapo, wanga usiri wavo zvachose uye vanga vachine hanya nemabatiro avanoita kwauri, uye mhuri yako neshamwari sechinhu chekutanga.
Asi chokwadi chinosara chekuti mumwe munhu ane narcissism haawanzo kukumbira ruregerero nemoyo wese, kurasikirwa nharo kana kugadzirisa gakava.
Saka, narcissist anochinja sei mushure mekuroora? Havana chishuwo chekusimudzira mhiko dzewanano yavo. Ivo vari muhukama hwekuti izvo zvavanoda zvasangana, uye kwete zverudo.
Muzviitiko zvakanyanyisa, iwe hauna kukosha zvakare nekuti iye / iye haafanire kukufadza. Mushure mekunge maita kuzvipira kwekupedzisira kwavari, hapana chimwezve chekuwana (mumaziso avo).
Unogona kusazombonakirwa nezuva rekuzvarwa kana kupemberera zvakare
Pazuva rako rekuzvarwa, chinotariswa chinofanira kunge chiri pauri.
Nekudaro, mukadzi wako anonyudza anogona kutanga kukanganisa mhemberero dzako uye kudzosera pfungwa kwavari. Izvi zvinogona kureva kushatirwa, kupaza zvirongwa, uye kunyange kukanzurwa neshamwari dzako uye nemhuri nekutenda kune wawakaroorana naye. Saka, narcissist anogona kuchinja mushure mekuroora? Kazhinji kune yakashata.
Iwe uchazviwana iwe uchifamba uchifamba pamazai emazai
Iye zvino murume wako anonyaradza ari pachigaro chemutyairi chehukama hwako newanano, izvo zvinogona kunzwa zvichikuodza moyo uye zvichikusiya usina simba.
Narcissist akakomba anogona kuita kuti iwe ubhadhare kana:
- unotaura zvaunotarisira, zvaunoda, uye zvishuwo kwavari,
- ufare zvakanyanya kubva kwavari,
- edza kuratidza poindi kana kuhwina nharo,
- usamubvumidze kuti aratidze manzwiro ake pauri.
Iwe unozowana kurapwa kwekunyarara zvakanyanya kana iwe ukamboedza kuti kwete kwavari, kana kuvasheedza ivo nekuda kwekupenya kwavo gasi kana mufaro wekuparadza hunhu.
Anogona narcissist kuchinja mushure mekuroora nenzira inokutyisidzira iwe?
Vamwe vanhu vanoroora narcissist vanopedzisira vofamba pamazai emazai kunyangwe murume wacho asipo. Kazhinji izvi zvinodaro nekuti munhu ane narcissism akaisa waakaroorana naye kuti adaro. Nepo iwe ungangoda kufamba pamusoro pemazai emazai kuti uwane chero runyararo, maitiro aya anomupa simba uye kumukurudzira kuti aenderere neiyi pateni.
Kana iwe ukazviwana iwe uri mune ino mamiriro, uye iwe uchigona kufananidzwa kune iyi mienzaniso yekuti sei narcissist anochinja mushure mewanano saka inguva yekubuda.
Nzira yekubatsira sei narcissist shanduko? Piritsi rinovava rechokwadi nderekuti usatombonetseke kuyedza kugadzirisa hukama hwako navo nekutaura navo kana nekuvakurudzira kuti vaende kunopa mazano kune vakaroorana. Iwe hauna matambudziko emuchato une dambudziko rakakura.
Saka, narcissist anogona kuchinja mushure mekuroora? Kana iwe wakaroora kune narcissist, iwe wakaroora mumwe munhu asingakwanise kuchinja kunyangwe uchida zvakadii ivo.
Iwe uri pamberi chaipo penzvimbo ine njodzi ingangoita iyo inokushaisa simba, uye ikonzere iwe kubvunza kusagadzikana kwako.
Zvakaipisisa, mamiriro ezvinhu aya anogona kutungamira kuhutano hwepfungwa senge kushushikana, kushushikana, PTSD uye nematambudziko ehutano hwepanyama. Funga kuvimba nemupi wezano kuti utaure nezve pfungwa dzako nemanzwiro ako munzvimbo yakachengeteka.
Kana iwe ukafunga kupedza hukama, gadzira chirongwa uye uwane rutsigiro rwekubatsira iwe munzira. Unogona kupora kubva kumuchato kuenda kunarcissist, uye kudzidza zvakawanda nezve mamiriro uye maitiro ekuzvidzivirira inhanho yekutanga yekutanga.