Zvemukati
- Chengetedza kukakavara kwauri
- Tarisa zvaunoda mupfungwa uye nemanzwiro
- Iva nekuremekedza wawakaroorana naye
- Udzai vana venyu nezvezvinodiwa uye musvetuke mutambo
- Ita sarudzo dzakasimba
- Gamuchira kukakavara asi gara uchiisa mhuri yako pamberi
- Gara uchivaita kuti vanzwe kudiwa
- Tora woenda nazvo
Kupupurira kurambana kwevabereki chiitiko chinorwadza chinounza shanduko huru muhupenyu hwemukomana kana musikana, zvisinei nezera. Kuona kuderera kwerudo pakati pevabereki, ipapo kupera kwemuchato, kusavapo kwezuva nezuva kwemubereki mumwe achigara nemumwe uyezve kugadzirisa kwekugara mumhuri mbiri dzakasiyana - zvese izvi zvinoumba mamiriro akaomera mhuri nekushungurudzika mupfungwa inoda kubvuma uye kubata nayo.
Kunyangwe pasina chinhu chiri nyore uye chakareruka pamusoro pekurambana, pane mamwe matanho akareruka anogona kuitwa nevabereki kubatsira vana, kusanganisira vachiri kuyaruka avo vatotarisana neshanduko yezuva nezuva munzira yavo yekuzova munhu mukuru wekutarisana nemhedzisiro yekurambana. Kushungurudzika kunorapika nekugadzirisa zvinhu zvakakosha zvinotarisana nevana vanorambana mumhuri uye nekutevera matanho ari pazasi.
Chengetedza kukakavara kwauri
Iwe unotya, wakatsamwa uye kusuruvara kwako kunogara pauri kunge hwema hwakaipa husingangoenda. Iwe unonzwa kusatendeka kwemumwe wako yaive nzira yekusiya iwe nevana vako. Iwe unoda kuti vana vako vazive zvaakaita kana zvaakaita. Vanofanira kuziva chokwadi; unofunga wega. Nekudaro, kuda kwako kwekunatsa hakusi kubatsira vana vako.
Vese vana vanozozviona ndezvekuti baba kana amai vavo munhu akashata uye vanofungidzira kuti vakaita chakashata kumuita kana iye anoda kuvasiya. Uri kusundira wedge pakati pevana nababa vavo kana amai. Icho chinhu icho chavanozozviona kana vachembera, uye zvinogona kutenderera imwe hasha kwauri.
Tarisa zvaunoda mupfungwa uye nemanzwiro
Kusuruvara kwako, kusagadzikana kwako, uye kunzwa kwekurambwa zvese zvinowanzoitika pakurambana. Asi, kana iwe ukasavabvuma, ivo vanoramba vachimukazve kunyangwe muchato wapera. Paunenge uri mumamiriro ekuora mwoyo, zviri nyore kukwevera gumbeze pamusoro pemusoro wako uye kugara munzvimbo yechibereko pane zvazviri kubuda pamubhedha. Usazviita; unofanira kusimuka.
Zvibvumire pachako kumisa kuzvidzora pachako pane kushandisa yako yemasikati awa kupenya. Funga kutaura nachiremba kana mumwe munhu ane hunyanzvi mukubata nemhuri mukuchinja pane kutaura kune vamwe vako iro risiri zano rakanaka.
Iva nekuremekedza wawakaroorana naye
Hazvina kukwana kuti urege kushatisa wawakarambana naye pamberi pevana vako. Kunze kwekunge iwe uchida kuti mwana wako atambure mhedzisiro kana vamwe vanhu vachidzokorora zvawataura kuvana vavo uye vana vavo vachizvidzokorora kumwana wako, iwe unofanirwa kuita mushandira pamwe wekutaura zvakanaka nezvewawakambove murume / mukadzi kune wechitatu mapato.
Vana vako vachazviona ivo sekuwedzera kwako newawakaroorana naye. Nekudaro, kana iwe ukataura zvakaipa nezvewawakange wakaroorana naye, vana vanogona kupedzisira vatora kutuka kwako.
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Udzai vana venyu nezvezvinodiwa uye musvetuke mutambo
Kana iwe uchida kudzikisa kusagadzikana kwemwana wako, iwe unofanirwa kugadzira kubatana kwakabatana. Tanga nekumuudza nezvekurambana pamwe chete. Vana vanogona kufunga kuti rimwe bato harina hanya, asi iwe unofanirwa kuvaudza.
Sarudza parutivi chako chinodikanwa chekusimbisa hukuru muchikamu chewanano. Sarudza pekutanga kugara zvakanaka kwepfungwa kwevana vako. Vazivise kuti iwe newawakarambana naye mucharamba muchiita mabasa enyu semubereki pamwe chete.
Ita sarudzo dzakasimba
Paunenge uchiyera sarudzo dzinogona kukanganisa vana, tanga nekufungidzira iwe uri mune shangu dzevanogamuchira magumo echisarudzo chipi zvacho chauchatora.
Funga nezve izvo zvichataurwa nevana vako kuvarapi vavo nezve zvakaitika kwavari muhudiki uye nezvekuti wakavadzivirira sei panguva yekurambana? Vachave nekutenda here nezvesarudzo iwe zvawakaita, kana ivo vanozozvidemba umo iwe newawakange wakaroorana naye muchivashandisa semidziyo mukukonana kwenyu? Kana ivo vachakupomera mhosva yekutadza kwavo kuvimba uye huwandu husingaverengeki hwehukama hwakakundikana?
Gamuchira kukakavara asi gara uchiisa mhuri yako pamberi
Unofanirwa kukurukura negweta rako nezvenzira dzinogona kuitika dzekuwana danho rinowirirana sekuronga nguva nekuchengetwa zvakakunakira iwe nevana vako. Izvo zvakakosha kuve nehurongwa hwekushandira pamwe, kuyananisa, kutaurirana, musangano wekutonga wekutonga, nezvimwe.
Iwe unogona zvakare kutaura kune mwana nyanzvi pamwe newawakange wakaroorana naye kuti akubatsire iwe kuti ndeupi rudzi rwehurongwa hwekurera hunenge hwakanakira mwana wako. Zvese zvinoenderana nedanho rake rekukura nezera, kuswedera padhuze newe newawakaroorana naye, mhuri yako ine simba uye yakakosha zvinhu kusanganisira yako mafungiro ekuchengetedza hukama hwemhando nemumwe mubereki.
Nekudaro, ita tsvagiridzo yako uye uone kuti nderupi gadziriro rakanakira mhuri yako - kune vana vako pane kupedza simba rako muhondo dzepamutemo netarisiro yekuhwina gadziriro yekuchengetedza sewaunoshanda naye, muvakidzani kana muzukuru wehama yepedyo.
Gara uchivaita kuti vanzwe kudiwa
Vana nemasikirwo vanoshuvira kugadzikana, kuenderana, uye chengetedzo. Kurambana kunokanganisa chiyero chavanoziva nacho, kunyangwe kana chisina kugadzikana.
Ivo vanoda kuziva kuti vanozoona kangani mubereki mumwe nemumwe, kuti vachagara here nevanin'ina vavo, kwavachagara, kana vachazopinda chikoro chimwe chete, uye kana imbwa yavanoda ichagara pamba pavo. Unogona kunge usati uine mhinduro dzakakodzera, asi chakakosha ndechekuti paunovapindura, unozviita muchokwadi, nemoyo murefu uye nerudo nzira.
Tora woenda nazvo
Maitiro ekurambana haanyanyoshungurudza vana kana vabereki vaine masystem ekutsigira akakodzera ivo pamwe nevana asi vachichengetedza miganho yakajeka. Sezvineiwo, vese vabereki vanogona kuenderera nehupenyu hwavo. Zvakare, vana havafanirwe kuve nemafungiro ekuti havana kurasikirwa nemhuri yavo asi vakangochinja uye kuti vabereki vavo vane zvavanofarira.
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