Zvemukati
David K. Williams, anopa magazini yeForbes, akataura kuti “rimwe remabasa akakosha (uye asina kuimbwa) mukambani yezvemabhizimusi haisi iye muvambi kana muridzi, ibasa remurume anokosha wemurume iyeye.” Asi kazhinji hazvisi nyore zvachose. Mumwe wevanoongorora vane mukurumbira wenyaya iyi ndiTrisha Harp, muvambi weHarp Family Institute. Tenzi wake thesis ye "Spousal Kugutsikana muEmabhizimusi Vakaroora" maanoburitsa pachena kudzidza kwake nezvehukama pakati pezvemabhizimusi nemuchato kuri kuunza akawanda emazano anobatsira uye nzwisiso kana zvasvika panhau iyi yakakosha zvikuru kumichato pamwe nekuzvitengesera pachayo.
Tichifunga nezvezvichemo zvakajairika zviri kupiwa nevanhu kana zvasvika pamhedzisiro yemabhizimusi pamichato yavo, zvinogona kucherechedzwa kuti munhu wavanomupa zita kutya. Kutya ikoko kunonzwisisika, asi kuzvidzora kunozotungamira mukuvaka nekuita kushoma kunonetsa pamwe newanano. Trisha Harp, pakati pevamwe vazhinji, akaita basa rekutinongedzera kunzira dzekuzvibata dzinogona kushandira icho chinangwa.
1. Kubuda pachena uye kuvimbika
Muzviitiko zvakawanda, chii chiri kunyatso kukonzera kutya uye kushomeka kwekuvimba haisi iyo chaiyo matambudziko aripo kana anogona kuitika, asi foggy uye blur mufananidzo wezviri kuitika chaizvo. Izvi zvinotungamira mukushushikana kwerima, kuvanda, uye kushushikana. Naizvozvo, Harp inosimbisa pamusoro pekukosha kwekugovana mativi ese ebhizinesi, kunyangwe zviite sezvakasiyana sei. Kutaura kwechokwadi uye kwakagadziridzwa kwekusimudzira bhizinesi ndizvo zvinhu zvakakosha kana zvasvika pakuvaka kuvimba, kuvimba, uye kubatana.
Kune rimwe divi, kutendeseka kunokoshawo pakuratidza kutya nekusahadzika. Kutaurirana kwakasimba, kwakavhurika uye kutamba ne “makadhi akavhurika” kunopa mukwasha wemuzvinabhizimusi mukana wekutsiva kutya nekuda kuziva.
Kuve muzvinabhizimusi kunogona kuve wakasurukirwa dzimwe nguva, uye kuva nemuteereri akanaka parutivi rwake uyo waanogona kugovana naye mazano ake uye zvinomunetsa, kuri kuratidza zvakanyanya uye kunokurudzira.
2. Kutsigira uye cheerleading
Trisha Harp anoratidza zvine mutsindo kuti zvakakosha zvikuru kuti vakaroorana vanzwe senhengo dzeboka rimwe chete. Tsvagurudzo yake yakaratidza kuti avo vaigovana bhizinesi ravo uye nezvinangwa zvemhuri vakakwira zvakanyanya kana zvasvika pakunzwa kugutsikana nemuchato uye nedzimwe nzvimbo dzehupenyu futi. Kana mumwe wako achinzwa senge bhizinesi remumwe ndere rakewo, kuti vagovana zvakafanana kufarira, iye achaita nenzira inokurudzira uye inotsigira.
Kunzwa kunzwisiswa, kukosheswa uye kutsigirwa zvine basa rakakosha mukubudirira kwemumwe muzvinabhizimusi. Iko hakuna kudikanwa kwekuziva nezve bhizinesi zvakanyanya seiye mukadzi kana mukadzi anovamhanyisa sezvo rubatsiro rwehungwaru ruri nyore kuwana pane rwekunzwa. Kungo bvunza kana paine chero chinhu chaunogona kubatsira, uchipa mhinduro yakatendeseka uye kukurudzira pazvinenge zvichidikanwa, zvakakwana zvakakwana kuti muzvinabhizimusi anzwe zvirinani uye ape zvaanogona. Naizvozvo, hazvishamise kuti, sekuratidzira kuri kuita data yaTrisha Harp, muzvinabhizinesi muzvizhinji zvematongerwo enyika ane mwero wepamusoro wekutenda nerubatsiro nerutsigiro rwavakapihwa navakaroora.
3. Hupenyu-hwebasa bharanzi
Kumwe kutya kunonzwisisika vazhinji vevamuzvinabhizimusi vakaroorana ndekwekuti kupa nguva yakawandisa nesimba kubhizimusi hakuzoponese zvakawanda kumuchato.Bhizimusi rezvemabhizimusi rinoda kuzvipira kwakakomba uye kuzvipira kwakawanda, asi kune dzimwewo nguva apo zvese izvi zvinozvibhadhara. Kunyangwe paine matambudziko avakatarisana nawo, ruzhinji rwevakaroora vakati vaizoroora muzvinabhizimusi wavo zvakare.
Hapana nguva yemhuri kana chero chinhu chinongoreva kusatarisira manejimendi yenguva. Kunyangwe kana muzvinabhizimusi asingazombovi nazvo zvakanyanya sevamwe vanhu, mhando yenguva yakashandiswa pamwe chete inonyanya kukosha uye kuti iri kwauri zvachose.
Chris Myers, mumwe mubatsiri weForbes anotenda kuti, kana zvasvika kune vezvemabhizimusi, iyo yehupenyu-basa rekuyera nyaya ingano. Asi hazvimiriri dambudziko nekuti tsananguro yekare yebasa sechimwe chinhu chaunofanirwa kuita kuti uwane mari haikwane mune pfungwa yemazuva ano yekushambadzira.
Kune vazhinji vezvemabhizinesi, basa ravari kuita rakapfuura kungovavarira kuwana purofiti. Ndiko kuda kwavo, kuratidzwa kwehunhu hwavo hwakadzama uye zvido. Mutsara pakati pehupenyu nebasa hausisiri wakasimba zvekare, uye kuzviita kwemumwe munhu kuburikidza nebasa kuchamuita ari nani muhupenyu hwake hwega.